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After trying many things, I realized why it didn't last and what I changed

I should have started for my household...

Before I knew it, I was just tired at that time.

I'm doing it right, but I have to keep going

I tend to blame myself

Looking back, it was different.

The method was just different.

Just a little change

Feelings and how to use time

It's getting easier.

For those who feel the same way

I'm glad if it becomes a hint.

If you are interested, please refer to other posts 🌿

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Mom in her 40s | Family of 4

Difficulty balancing time and income with family,

I adopted a way of working that I can do at home.

We are sending out everyday life that was born in the heart 🌷 ︎

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# mom # parenting

I trimmed my house.

Fighting against rising prices

Time to choose how to work

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