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Broke him and told him to change

People who hurt and say love

In some kind of relationship.

We started to crack it.

But instead of remembering himself as the most trying side

We overlook our own words and actions.

And then stick to what the other side responded to back.

And deceived himself as an assailant.

He hasn't changed. He just can't stand it anymore.

# Real relationship

# Hurt from the truth

# Love that's not fair

# People behavior

# Look at yourself

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