Were Making a Trauma Salad with this one 🔥

👋Hi, I'm Ross, When I was 17, my best friend passed away in my arms on a concrete sidewalk in Broad Daylight, which really changed me as a person and affected my mental health. I don't think Lemon8 will approve of me going into more detail. I want to participate more in this challenge, but I can't talk about the majority of my trauma without being direct and graphic. Oh, and by the way, i Brought Milk Duds.

💙Share your trauma in the comments, and know this is a safe and judgment free zone!

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#safespace #lemon8challenge #trauma #candysalad #MentalHealth #letschat #grief #grievingjourney #healing #embracevulnerability

2024/10/23 Edited to

... Read moreYou might be wondering, 'What exactly is a trauma candy salad?' Well, it's become this beautiful, often bittersweet, way for us to metaphorically (and sometimes literally!) gather all the difficult, sticky, and sometimes even colorful pieces of our past experiences – our traumas – and lay them out, not to dwell, but to acknowledge, process, and share in a gentle way. Think of it as a creative outlet, using the sweetness of candy to balance the bitterness of our memories. It's an invitation to be vulnerable without feeling overwhelmed. When I first heard about the 'trauma dump candy salad' trend, I loved the idea of taking something hard and making it a little softer, a little more approachable. Physically, it's simple: grab a light blue bowl (or any color that brings you comfort!), and fill it with your favorite colorful, sugar-coated gummy candies. For me, it's a mix of rainbow belts, those fun pink and blue bottle shapes, and some chewy red string candies. Each candy can represent a different aspect of your healing journey or a distinct memory. The key isn't the specific candy, but the act of mindfully choosing them as symbols for your 'TRAUMA DUMP CANDY SALAD'. Then comes the sharing. This is where many people ask, 'What is something you say when you do a trauma candy salad?' It doesn't have to be a perfect speech. You could start by simply saying, 'This is my trauma candy salad. Each piece represents something I've been through.' You can pick up a candy and share what it means to you. For example, 'This rainbow belt? That's all the ups and downs of my grief journey.' Or 'These bottle shapes remind me of a time I felt bottled up.' The beauty is that you control the narrative. You decide how much detail to go into. The most important part is creating that safe space for yourself and others to simply be with their experiences. This whole concept, whether you call it a candy salad, a trauma bowl, or a trauma dump, is incredibly validating for our mental health. It acknowledges that everyone carries burdens, and it normalizes talking about them. It's not about wallowing; it's about externalizing, processing, and connecting with others who understand. In a world where we're often told to 'just get over it,' creating this space for a 'trauma dump candy salad' challenge allows for authentic grieving and healing. It’s an act of self-care and a powerful step towards embracing vulnerability on your healing journey. Remember, you're not alone, and sharing your truth can be a profound step towards peace.

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Hi I’m Caroline and I have too much trauma for Lemon8’s character limit but one of them is my aunt died while her discharged papers were getting printed and I never got to say goodbye and I brought skittles!

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hi i’m ria and growing up my dad abused me thankfully i don’t see him anymore cause he was the worst person ever and i brought strawberry sour patch kids

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