👛 Please I need help. 🍓
Hi, I wanted to see if any of you could help me with something. I don’t know if I’m looking for advice or an opinion but I want to hear it from someone else.
I’m 24 years old and will turn 25 this year in November. I'm the older daughter an I take care of my family. My parents work in car washing and get paid a little bit but now they are trying to be careful because of IC🧊. Also, they are older and their bodies ache so they don’t work much. So the money they get from their jobs is spent on food and bills.
I have two jobs. I work at Ross from 4:45 am until whatever time they need me, then until 1:30 pm. After that, I work at my second job which is at Target from 2:30 to 10 pm. Schedule time and hours changes on both jobs. The target money is to pay rent. The Ross money I need to give out $300 to complete paying the rent and whatever is left is for me. I’m slowly trying to save money.
The reason I’m telling this to anyone who’s reading this is that I want to know how I can give myself time to start working on myself. I want to lose weight. I would like to start finding out if there’s a way or cheaper way to get into a career. Idk I mainly want to work on myself first but it’s hard. I have two days off for each job morning and night. What should I do? I feel like every person I know has a glow up or looks like they have a good job, etc and I’m just over here getting fatter, getting more acne, and working two jobs barely paying bills. I don’t know what to do and I feel sad sometimes. Please I need Texas advice.
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Balancing two demanding jobs while supporting your family is undoubtedly challenging, and it’s important to recognize the strength it takes to manage all this responsibility at 24. From my experience, when you're stretched thin like this, even small adjustments can create meaningful change over time. First, prioritize self-care within the limited time you have. Since you have two days off from each job, consider dedicating at least one of those days or a few hours to low-cost self-care activities that boost both your physical and mental health. For instance, walking in a nearby park or doing home workouts using free YouTube videos can help with weight loss and combat stress without straining your budget. Second, regarding your career goals, it’s great that you want to invest in yourself. Texas offers many affordable programs and online courses, some even free, in various fields like healthcare, technology, or business. Websites such as Coursera, edX, or local community colleges often have flexible options that can fit into your schedule. Exploring vocational training or certifications could provide a path to better-paying jobs without requiring years of schooling. Also, consider reaching out to community centers or local organizations in Texas that support job training and personal development. They may offer workshops, mentorship, or financial aid to help you upskill while juggling your current commitments. Finally, it’s normal to feel down when comparing yourself to others, but your journey is unique. Celebrate your resilience and progress, even if it feels slow. Small wins, like saving a bit from your earnings or improving your skincare routine gradually, will add up. Joining online communities or local support groups where people share similar experiences can provide encouragement and new ideas. Remember, self-care and career growth are ongoing processes. Taking one step at a time, balancing your responsibilities while carving out time for yourself, can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling lifestyle. You’re already doing a lot, and seeking advice shows your willingness to grow. Keep going—you’re not alone in this.
