Three years and 50lbs later, I don’t flinch when a camera comes out anymore.

This is what confidence after GL🫛 actually feels like (not perfect, just present). I used to skip photos, avoid videos, hide in the back of every group pic. Now I’m handing my husband the phone and saying “get this.”

If you’re in your 40s and feel like your body confidence disappeared somewhere between kids, hormones, and stubborn w£ight that won’t budge no matter what you try, I get it. This is exactly why I started my pep journey, and it’s changed way more than just a number.

Want to know what actually worked? Follow along or it’s in my bye-oh too.

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... Read moreRecovering body confidence in your 40s, especially when facing challenges like perimenopause and PCOS, can feel like an uphill battle. From my personal experience, the transformation is about more than just shedding pounds—it's about reconnecting with yourself and embracing imperfection. At first, it was daunting to put myself in front of the camera without hesitation. Hormonal changes and the stress of family life had left me feeling invisible and uncomfortable in my own skin. But by committing to a consistent self-care routine that balanced nutrition, manageable exercise, and mindful mental health practices, I slowly noticed not only physical changes but also an emotional shift. One game-changer was learning to show up for myself daily, even on tough days. Small wins like opting for a healthy meal, going for a gentle walk, or practicing gratitude helped rebuild my relationship with my body. Understanding conditions like perimenopause and PCOS empowered me to tailor my approach rather than chasing unrealistic quick fixes. Another key was surrounding myself with a supportive community—whether online or in person—that understood these struggles. Sharing progress, setbacks, and tips with others made the journey less lonely and more motivating. Now, passing the phone to my husband to capture joyful moments feels natural. My confidence isn’t about perfection but presence, an authentic celebration of progress and resilience. If you’re navigating similar waters, know that rediscovering confidence is possible with patience, self-compassion, and the right resources tailored to your unique journey.