Sad and a little depressed since mom passed

Never said it outloud but I been super sad and I smile in others faces while as soon as I get in my truck I cry…. I talked to my mom daily and multiple times a day … May seems like yesterday and I feel like I’m just floating each day…. I try to be present for my daughter … but idk if im being the best to my potential… my place is a hot as mess and as soon as I clean it I feel like my daughter ruffles it up again and I’m tired lol

I’m furloughed and at this point when we get paid I wanna hire a maid service or something and even the laundry service cuz baby I don’t wanna do it no more lol I feel like I gotta laugh to keep from crying…

I make good money at the government and no longer feel secure and to be honest I’m feelin rather b r o k e lol but having faith that blessings will pour in… in reality. They need to open the damn government lol I need my check lol

2025/11/7 Edited to

... Read moreLosing a loved one, especially a parent, can leave a profound impact on our emotional well-being, often causing feelings of sadness, depression, and disorientation. It's common to mask our pain with smiles in social settings, only to release emotions privately, as sharing grief openly might feel overwhelming or vulnerable. Developing a routine to cope, such as talking to supportive friends or counselors, can be helpful. Balancing grief with parenting responsibilities presents unique challenges. Feeling unsure about one’s parenting can add to the emotional strain, but focusing on quality moments with your child and embracing imperfection can provide comfort. It's normal to feel exhausted and see household chores as burdensome. Outsourcing tasks like cleaning and laundry can relieve stress and create space for emotional healing. Financial uncertainties triggered by furloughs or unstable employment intensify emotional distress, making faith and hope vital for resilience. Maintaining a positive outlook doesn't mean ignoring reality but finding strength in the belief that better times will come. Sharing your experiences with others facing similar struggles can provide mutual support and reduce isolation. Remember, it’s okay to seek professional help. Grief counseling or support groups offer safe spaces to process emotions and learn coping techniques. Taking care of your mental health, physical needs, and allowing yourself time to heal are crucial steps in navigating the complex journey after loss. You’re not alone, and reaching out can lead to healing and renewed strength.

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