Through my own experiences, I've realized that many people mistakenly equate love with sacrifice to the point of suffering. The phrase "ride or die" is often twisted to excuse staying in harmful situations where one is mistreated or emotionally drained. However, healthy love should uplift you, not cause pain or constant distress. It's important to differentiate between supporting your partner through tough times and enduring abuse or neglect. Self-love and respect are critical foundations for any relationship. When I set boundaries and started prioritizing my well-being, I noticed a positive shift in how I experienced relationships. If you find yourself feeling hurt or taken for granted repeatedly, it may be a sign to reevaluate the relationship. Love is about mutual care and understanding, not about tolerating mistreatment. Remember, loving yourself enables you to love others better and fosters healthier, more fulfilling connections.