As a dog owner, I completely understand the mixed emotions involved in disciplining your pet. Dogs, especially those who are energetic and attached to us, can become quite a handful when they sense they can push boundaries. I once had a similar experience where my dog kept waking me up at night, leading to extreme tiredness and frustration. One important thing I learned is that dogs are incredibly smart animals. They do understand when they have done something wrong, but consistency in training is key. Using a time-out or crate method can be effective, as it sends a clear message without causing harm. However, it's also vital to balance discipline with plenty of positive reinforcement and affection outside those moments. Swollen feet and tiredness happen often when you’re repeatedly waking up to soothe your dog. It's crucial to take care of yourself, too, because your well-being directly impacts how you engage with your pet. Sometimes, setting firm boundaries is not only for their learning but also for your health. Remember, feeling like a 'bad mom' after disciplining your dog is common. It's a sign of how much you care. Dogs respect structure, and they need to learn limits just like children do. Over time, you’ll find that your dog will respond better with clear rules and routines, and the crying or misbehavior reduces significantly. Lastly, patience is essential. Change doesn’t happen overnight, but with love and consistent effort, you can improve your dog’s behavior and your own quality of life.