a song i wrote a little while back
#originalsong #songwriting #beautystandards #singersongwriter #glowup
Writing songs about beauty standards and societal pressures offers a unique form of catharsis and connection with listeners. When I first wrote a song on this topic, I aimed to capture not just the external expectations, but the internal struggles many face trying to conform to fleeting ideals. The lyrics from this particular song ironically highlight how trends are sold to us year after year, only to be outdated the next season—painting a picture of an endless cycle that affects our self-esteem and identity. In my experience as a songwriter, incorporating personal insight and authenticity into themes like "glow up" journeys and the challenge to conventional beauty allows for genuine engagement. These themes resonate widely because so many people have felt the pressure to "fix" features or keep up with ever-changing standards—whether it's quick fixes advertised online or cosmetic products promising transformation. Moreover, connecting these themes with poetic devices and metaphors — like describing beauty trends as a game we never win — enables the listener to reflect on the societal influences behind their self-image. Sharing these narratives in a song can empower others to question marketing tactics and embrace self-acceptance in a landscape often driven by consumerism and superficial validation. Integrating such themes into songwriting also helps to build community among artists and listeners who are navigating similar experiences. For singer-songwriters seeking to write on socially relevant themes, I recommend drawing from genuine emotions, personal stories, and current cultural narratives to create songs that feel both timely and timeless. It’s also important to stay creative with your metaphors and imagery to keep the message impactful without sounding preachy. If you're experimenting with your own songs about beauty standards or societal expectations, consider how you can frame the narrative around personal empowerment rather than just critique. This can make your work more hopeful and inspiring, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique glow-up journey amidst external pressures.



















