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2 Corinthians 6:14 NASB
"Do not be mismatched with unbelievers; for what do righteousness and lawlessness share together, or what does light have in common with darkness?"
Being sanctified, is a journey marked by both challenges and joys.
It causes a myriad of effects to take place in our lives. Many can give a first hand testament as to what that is like in a relationship where one person is a believer and the other person is not.
The effects on us can include discomfort and misery over sin. As we grow closer to God and yield to the Holy Spirit, we become more aware of our own sinfulness and the detrimental effects it may cause in our lives. But on the other side, we have a deepened love for God and neighbors as it motivates us to serve, forgive, and show compassion.
The sanctification process is a beautifully horrendous sight. Mirroring Jesus is not a pretty process! To that, we need believers around us who understand not unbelievers who scoff!
More importantly, keeping a marriage going in an unequally yoked relationship adds a terrific amount of pressure;
One, because it will point out flaws in a relationship where marriage is concerned.
And two because of the manifestation of the fruit of the Spirit: The Holy Spirit's work in our lives produces qualities like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
This may cause weakness in the knees of those witnessing it but not experiencing it!
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If friendship and marriages are to last forever then I would start by asking them to join you, because sanctification is a supernatural effect that receiving the Holy Spirit promises. So it's impossible to achieve for non believers.
Lord, try as I may, and pray as I do, let me never stop trying to lead my circle of influence, my family and my friends to the joy of Salvation found only in You!
Luke 15:7 NASB
"I tell you that in the same way, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous people who have no need of repentance."
The journey of sanctification is crucial for personal and spiritual growth. It shapes our relationships, particularly when navigating through unequally yoked partnerships, where one partner embodies faith while the other does not. This dichotomy creates specific challenges, such as discomfort and awareness of sin, while simultaneously cultivating a broader perspective of God's grace and love. As believers, we experience a transformative process that not only aligns us closer to Jesus but also equips us with the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. These attributes become increasingly significant in relationships, where the contrast between light and darkness can be stark. For those witnessing this spiritual transformation, it may evoke feelings of weakness or inadequacy if they do not share the same faith. The ongoing struggle and beauty of this process reminds us of the importance of surrounding ourselves with fellow believers who can provide support and encouragement—essential elements of a thriving spiritual life. While it is challenging to share sanctification with those who do not have the Holy Spirit, inviting others to explore faith alongside us can lead to a profound impact on their lives. Ultimately, it's vital to remain passionate in our pursuit of leading friends and family toward the joy found in salvation. Reflecting on scriptures such as 2 Corinthians 6:14 and Luke 15:7 helps to illuminate the significance of righteousness and repentance within our communities. Maintaining these discussions encourages deeper understanding, strengthens faith, and fosters a supportive network that celebrates the transformative power of God in our lives.
True. Dr. Kristen Gregg www.KGGM.org