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How do I get over this man? Yโ€™all donโ€™t understand how bad this man did me but all my mind thinks about is all the good times. Itโ€™s been almost three years and somehow my mind always thinks about him. There is no pictures in my phone, his number is deleted, thereโ€™s no contact but SOMEHOW I donโ€™t hate him. If he were to call me from a textnow number I know I would be happy, but the thing is I donโ€™t want to be. I wanna move on I want to be with other people but this shit is holding me back. I canโ€™t have a simple conversation with a man because my heart dont be in it. I hate that I let this control that part of my life but it does. What is making me stay behind and cling to this man that wants nothing to do with me? #viral #adviceforyour20s #helpmeout #fresh

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... Read moreBreakups can be incredibly challenging, inciting a whirlwind of emotions that often leave us feeling stuck. One key aspect is understanding that healing does take time and it's normal to reminisce about the good moments shared with an ex. To help facilitate your healing process, consider setting aside time for reflection. Journaling can provide clarity and help you articulate your feelings, which is an essential step in the healing journey. Additionally, engaging in activities you enjoy or exploring new hobbies can redirect your focus. Surrounding yourself with supportive friends and family is crucial; they can provide perspective and distraction when memories become overwhelming. Itโ€™s also advisable to establish boundaries with your ex, including limiting contact, to help foster your independence. Moreover, seeking professional guidance through counseling can offer personalized strategies and coping mechanisms tailored to your situation. You deserve to move forward and engage in meaningful relationships. By taking proactive steps, you can eventually transcend the past and embrace new opportunities for love and happiness. Remember, it is okay to seek help and allow yourself the time necessary to heal.

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You gotta look at it like this baby girl the bad really did overweigh the good because itโ€™s the hurt the reason yaw not together trust me he will miss you if he doesnโ€™t already but donโ€™t go backwards because you in whatโ€™s already ahead if you do trust and believe you better off without him youโ€™re wounds will heal

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