I struggle WANTING to even speak to men

am I the only one who feels like this, like I've just had below average experiences with men, are y'all just accepting the bare minimum, looking in specific places, have a lab and are making your own men like what’s the secret 😭 because I’d rather die then be in a rls or even be friends with these men 😭

#GirlTalk #lemon8challenge #Lemon8Diary #shareyourthoughts #opinions

2025/5/8 Edited to

... Read moreIt's common to feel disheartened after numerous disappointing encounters with men, leading many to withdraw from social interactions. Toxic relationships can create a sense of desolation and mistrust, affecting one's confidence in dating and friendships. Understanding this phenomenon is crucial for healing and moving forward. Many individuals report feeling a sense of exhaustion from expectations in romantic relationships, often questioning the intentions and behaviors of men they encounter. It's important to identify dealbreakers early on to avoid heartache, yet this doesn’t mean settling for less. To enhance your dating perspective, consider seeking support through friends or therapy, where openly discussing these feelings could provide relief and new strategies for engagement. Pursuing interests and activities where you meet like-minded individuals can also help shift your interactions in a more positive direction. Remember, building trust takes time, and prioritizing your mental health is essential in navigating the complexities of modern relationships.

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All I have to say is take your time and don't rush it. If you're not interested in dating that's fine

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Girl same I ask my friends where they find the good men and they always respond at church. Bro no guys in my church date

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