... Read moreAs mothers, we often wear many hats, and our days can feel like a whirlwind of endless tasks, tiny hands, and constant demands. It's truly amazing how, even surrounded by the beautiful chaos of our children, a deep sense of loneliness can still creep in. We pour ourselves out for everyone else, and sometimes, our own spiritual cup feels completely empty.
That's why carving out even 'a little God time' each day isn't just a suggestion; it's a lifeline. I used to think I needed an hour of quiet reflection, which, let's be honest, felt impossible. But I’ve learned that consistency, not duration, is key. Just five, ten, or fifteen minutes can make an incredible difference in how I approach my day, my children, and even my own self-worth.
One of the most practical ways I've found to cultivate this habit is through a dedicated daily devotional for mothers. Books like "A Little God Time for Mothers: 365 Daily Devotions" are absolute gems because they're designed with our busy lives in mind. They offer bite-sized readings, often paired with a relevant scripture and a short prayer, making it easy to absorb spiritual nourishment without feeling overwhelmed. I've found that having a physical book, like that teal one I keep on my nightstand, serves as a gentle visual reminder to pause.
Setting aside this time helps me remember the profound truth from Hebrews 13:5: "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." When toddlers are testing my patience, or I'm up late with a sick child, clinging to that promise brings an unshakeable peace. It fills the void that no amount of clean laundry or perfectly packed lunchboxes ever could.
It’s not always easy to find the quiet. Sometimes my 'God time' looks like listening to an audio devotional while doing dishes, or reading a verse on my phone during naptime. Other days, I manage to sip my coffee in silence for a few precious minutes before the house wakes up. The goal isn't perfection, but presence.
This daily practice also helps me to embody the wisdom and strength we admire in Proverbs 31:26-28 NIV: "She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her." While I'm certainly not a perfect Proverbs 31 woman, spending time with God helps me draw closer to those virtues, giving me grace to respond to my family with more patience and love. It reminds me to seek His wisdom in daily decisions and to nurture my household with intentionality.
Prioritizing 'a little God time' is truly an act of self-care that recharges my spirit and allows me to show up as a more present, peaceful, and joyful mother. If you're feeling overwhelmed or alone, I encourage you to try it. You might be surprised at the peace it brings to your heart and home.
When you blindly put your faith in God, you know that everything takes place in his perfect timing. 🩵