Things you can't put in the corner these days. Part 8.
The previous article, "Recent Corners. Part 8.," was reported as a violation of the Community Guidelines and will not be restored even if you file an objection.
It does not violate the deletion guidelines at all, but I thought that something stimulated someone's complex and rewrote it... I want the report to be a method that describes the basis of the deletion request in about 200 characters... To prevent a thoughtless report saying "I don't like this guy, so I'll report it!"
Well, aside from that, I haven't heard from my grandfather, and I don't need to contact my grandfather anymore, so I'm playing comfortably with my male friend Haru-chan.
Haru-chan has gentle eyes and is relieved because there is no unpleasant light to explore here in the back of the pupil.
Since the background is also clear, we exchange phone numbers with LINE, and once a week we go out to eat or talk at home.
Yesterday, when I was chatting with Haru-chan, I received a delivery from TEMU that I do not remember from SAGAWA, and when I opened the seal, it was all ordered by a different personality K.
"What is this!" When I was angry, Haru-chan also said, "DID is also difficult." I got words of sympathy.
Although the deceased Kakkun was burning his hand to DID, that person hugged me who was confused and gently whispered "Sumi... Sumi...?" and stroked my head, and I returned from the alternate personality I cried a lot in his arms.
The shock of losing an important person has increased my personality again, but I am in the middle of making peace now.
"K" is an 18-year-old girl who loves to shop.
Moreover, because I buy a lot of Gothic Lolita clothes and accessories that do not match the appearance of the 49-year-old, I wasted a terrible amount of living expenses the other day, leaving two skirts and a pair of accessories, but I sold it The amount that came back is really 1 / 40...
On top of that, I want clothes of 30,000 yen, so I said, "It's okay, but please earn it yourself and buy it." When I showed a job application, I was shaken by the severity of reality, whether the low hourly wage of the world and the clothes of 30,000 yen can be reached if I work tens of hours in total.
With regard to food, if you actually calculate it with a calculator and carefully list the price of goods whether the cost of food is a month or not, K seems to understand the seriousness of how much living expenses he lost due to his waste, and at first he was only repulsive, but he became obedient, so I want to believe that from now on I will be able to prevent thoughtless actions.
DID is a mental illness that calms down in its own way when the environment and experience become calm, but there is no remission.
Among the personalities are those with PTSD, those with dysthymia disorders, and me with severe depression, so it is essential to go to a psychiatrist, but I am a life geek who breaks my heart every day so that I can live as calmly as possible.
I wrote this post carefully so as not to violate the Community Guidelines, so the user reporting this... may have a grudge against me... but I'm not that tolerant.
Users who are using the report with a light feeling because individuals can not be identified should be aware that they will see painful eyes.
私自身も、DIDに関わる家族を持つ者として、日常の葛藤や調整の難しさを実感しています。投稿者のように、複数の人格がいるとそれぞれの性格や価値観が異なり、生活スタイルや金銭感覚も大きく違うため、統一的にコントロールするのは本当に大変です。 特に「K」のように若くて買い物好きな人格が出てくると、経済的な問題が表面化しやすいのですが、具 体的な数字や計算を示し生活費の限界を分かりやすく伝える方法は効果的だと思います。これにより人格間での共感や協力関係が築けることも増え、衝突を減らしやすくなると感じます。 また、精神疾患は寛解が難しくても、日々の環境整備や適切な支援、理解ある友人や医療機関との連携が心の安定に繋がることも多いです。投稿にもあるように、周囲の理解があることで本人の安心感が増し、多くのストレスを軽減できます。 私の経験上、DIDの当事者やその周囲にいる方は、焦らずゆっくりと人格どうしの関係性を理解・調整しながら、自分らしい幸せの形を見つけていくことが大切だと思います。投稿者のように生活の細部に気を配り、心穏やかな毎日を目指す努力は、多くの人にとって参考になる貴重な実体験です。
