REAL TALK
We’re just about 2 full months in to being a family with 2 girls under 2 years of age!
What I’ve learned so far:
💕leave your house every day if you can! go for a walk (our favorite is through target 🤣), go visit family or friends, get to a park, etc. just leave your house! I’d go completely insane if we stayed home
💕don’t expect your routine to stay exactly the same from one day to the next - flexibility is key (both for your babies but also you as mama!)
💕ask for help! help with diaper changes, prepping bottles/feeding, cleaning your house, cooking a meal! your pride isn’t worth the stress that comes with trying to do it all yourself!
💕pay attention to who shows up in your corner. now that you have 2, those who you thought were part of your tribe can potentially show true colors by not showing up for you (and now your babies) - it’s ok to step back from those who don’t make the effort
💕you don’t need all the cutesie outfits 😂 between changing 2 diapers and feeding 2 mouths (3 if you count yourself! Don’t forget to eat!), my girls live in their pj’s - even when we leave the house! Don’t fret if they aren’t in the matching outfits - as long as they’re clothed!
💕mama bear don’t play about her babies - my girls come first and if you don’t agree or like the way I do things as their mama, buh-bye!
Mamas! What advice do you have to share?? #momsadvice #momtips #2under2 #girlmama🎀
As a mom of 2 under 2, the journey is incredibly rewarding yet challenging. Balancing the needs of two small children means adaptability is essential. One of the most vital pieces of advice I can share is to embrace spontaneity; making daily outings—whether to the park or visiting friends—can significantly boost everyone’s mood. Additionally, don’t shy away from asking for help. Family and friends are often eager to support, whether it’s with diaper changes or simply lending an ear. A strong support network can be invaluable during those hectic early years. It’s also crucial to manage expectations. Some days will go according to plan, while others may not; flexibility is key here. Prioritizing self-care is equally important—don’t forget to take a moment for yourself amidst the hustle. Finally, trust your instincts as a mother. Each child is unique, and what works for one family may not work for another. Stand firm in your choices and surround yourself with those who uplift and support your parenting journey. Sharing experiences with other moms can also be a great source of encouragement. So to all the mamas navigating this beautiful chaos, what advice do you have? Let's share our stories!
