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When did you know your relationship was over ?

For me I know it was over when the memories I had with them brought me more joy than they do now .

#relationshiptips #lessonslearned #next #movingon

If they don’t bring out the best of you and If your friends and family don’t like them maybe it’s Gods way of saying they aren’t for you . The right one maybe out there looking for you but keeps getting distracted lol

Life happens

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