I have an obsession with this song. I’ve been listening to it for a couple months now on repeat. It’s definitely about a relationship but it reminds me so much of motherhood - no matter how much you do, you never feel like you’re doing enough. As a SAHM I feel that a lot 💕 have you listened to it?
... Read moreHave you ever had a song just *stick*? Like, really stick, playing on a loop in your head and on your speakers? That’s exactly how I feel about Lola Young’s "Messy." It’s become my ultimate 'on repeat' track, almost like my personal motherhood anthem. It’s funny how a song initially about a relationship can completely transform its meaning when you filter it through your own life experiences. For me, as a stay-at-home mom, "Messy" perfectly articulates those moments where you give everything but still feel like you’re not doing enough. It’s a raw, honest feeling, and hearing it put to music is incredibly validating.
What makes a song a 'current obsession'? I think it’s when the lyrics or melody tap into something deeply personal, something you might not even realize you needed to hear. It’s more than just liking a tune; it’s an emotional connection that helps you process, reflect, or just feel understood. Sometimes it's the rhythm, sometimes it's the specific words, but when it clicks, it just *clicks*.
I find myself wanting to share "Messy" with every mom I know, hoping they’ll find the same comfort and understanding in it. Music has this incredible power to engage us, not just individually but collectively. Sharing a song can be a way to say, 'I get it,' without having to say a word. It builds a connection, a kind of shared emotional space. What songs have you found yourself engaging others with lately?
And speaking of listening on repeat – there’s a real phenomenon to it, isn’t there? It’s not just about enjoying the song; sometimes, for me, it’s about processing emotions, or finding a moment of catharsis. When life gets 'messy' (pun intended!), having a soundtrack that understands can be incredibly powerful. It’s like a musical hug, reminding you that you’re not alone in those challenging moments. Whether it’s "Messy" or another track, finding that perfect song that speaks to your soul is a special kind of magic.
Beyond just Lola Young’s "Messy," I’ve noticed a pattern in the songs that become my 'current obsessions.' They often have lyrics that feel like they were written just for me, or a melody that perfectly captures my mood. It's not always about upbeat tunes; sometimes, it's the raw, vulnerable ones that truly resonate, especially when you're in a stage of life like motherhood where emotions run high and low. These songs become an emotional outlet, a way to acknowledge feelings that might otherwise go unspoken. They give voice to the unspoken struggles and joys, making us feel seen and heard.
Think about all the iconic songs that become anthems – whether it's a classic like 'Skinny Love' by Birdy (a great example of a deeply emotional track) or a more upbeat tune. Each one has the potential to grab hold of us and not let go. It's a testament to the power of music to connect us to our own inner world, and often, to connect us with others who feel the same way. So next time a song gets stuck on your personal 'repeat effect,' pause and consider what it truly means to you – it might be telling you something important about your current journey. I’d love to hear what songs are your current obsession and why!
So true…. Being a mom is tough.