Hygiene is hard for some of us

I’m chronically ill from psychiatric conditions.

My executive dysfunction is debilitating.

But I do what I can to feel better.

In the pictures above are the main products I use as care of my hygiene. There are a few things I forgot to show like my spray deodorant I keep by the bed.

I also have a really hard time showering and bathing so I use hygiene wipes! I’m currently using wipes I got at my last hospital stay. But in the section of Walmart with butt wipes, near the isles of shampoo and such, are body wipes. They can be used after working out or just for wiping yourself down if a shower is not in question. I believe they have waterless shampoo in that section as well.

I also recommend in the tooth brush section they have bags of little tooth brushes that have toothpaste already on them and you don’t need water. Great to have at your bed side!

You’re not disgusting or lesser of a person if you don’t shower daily. You don’t deserve less love and respect if you don’t brush your teeth regularly. If splashing water on your face and taking your meds is the most you can do today then that’s amazing! I am so proud of you for taking care of yourself.

Take your meds, drink water and eat something for me.

❤️You got this❤️

#mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #neurodivergent #borderlinepersonalitydisorder

2024/2/18 Edited to

... Read moreIt's so validating to know others struggle with hygiene when chronic illness or executive dysfunction makes daily tasks feel monumental. When showering feels like climbing Everest, finding gentle ways to care for ourselves is a true act of self-love. I really wanted to expand on some of the low-effort strategies, especially when it comes to areas like intimate hygiene, which often gets overlooked but can make a huge difference in how you feel. Those hygiene wipes I mentioned are absolute lifesavers, not just for a quick refresh but also for intimate care. When a full shower isn't an option, using a gentle, unscented, pH-balanced wipe can help you feel clean and comfortable. You can find these in most drugstores or the 'feminine hygiene' aisle, but many general body wipes are also perfectly suitable. The key is to be gentle and ensure they don't contain harsh chemicals or strong fragrances that could cause irritation. Just a quick wipe down can help prevent discomfort and keep you feeling a bit fresher throughout the day. Remember, it's about doing what you can to feel better, not striving for perfection. Beyond intimate care, let's talk about other areas where a little effort goes a long way. For facial care, I’ve found that having a simple routine helps. Keeping things like a micellar cleansing water and a hydrating gel right by your bed can make a huge difference. On days when washing your face seems impossible, just a quick swipe with cleansing water on a cotton pad can refresh your skin. And if breakouts are a concern, those little acne patches are fantastic for targeted treatment with minimal effort. Hair care can also be simplified. Dry shampoo, as highlighted in the images, is a non-negotiable for me. A quick spray at the roots can absorb oil and add volume, making your hair feel much cleaner without any water. Sometimes, a little hair oil on the ends can also help tame frizz and add a touch of shine, making you feel more put-together with hardly any effort. And let's not forget oral hygiene! Those pre-pasted disposable toothbrushes are brilliant for keeping by your bedside. Even without water, a quick brush can make your mouth feel so much better. Following up with a quick swish of mouthwash can also help, especially if brushing feels too daunting. The main takeaway here is kindness to yourself. Having products like spray deodorant, body wipes, and these other gentle care items easily accessible makes a world of difference. Break down your routine into tiny, manageable steps. Maybe today it's just using a wipe, tomorrow it's adding some dry shampoo. Every small act of self-care counts and is a victory. You deserve to feel comfortable and cared for, no matter what challenges you're facing. Keep going, and remember you're doing great!

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Lezlie Hammer

It's so nice to see that I'm not the only one. I have PTSD, major depression, anxiety disorder and I'm being tested for an autoimmune disease because I'm in all over body pain most of the week. On top of those, I'm perimenopausal and a newly single mom (broke away from my toxic and abusive marriage of 23 years).💕

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✰unfocusedzen✰

Her Fantasy Box Body Magic - so I don’t smell when I’m in an episode. I have the C-PTSD, ADHD, BPD, and PDA autism so I def relate to this post very much. I love body wipes. Lume changed my life too btw

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