When "good hope" and "expectation" move aside,
My girlfriend and I were married for about 10 years.
I work as a cell, earning quite a bit.
My girlfriend works in the office with a higher income than me.
I personally try to lighten everything.
Everything I can do, I will do it all myself.
Sweeping the house, rubbing the house, flushing the bathroom or whatever, I'll help you get the house done.
The advantage of being a cell is that I have more free time, so I have time to drop off and pick up my girlfriend every day.
We lived together at the condo.
And I have another house, about 10 kilometers away, which is where my mother lived.
So I volunteered to take both of our clothes once a week.
Because intending to help lighten the burden of the girlfriend (front cover machine)
At first, I washed the clothes of two people.
Separate just the shirt and pants
But it was blamed for the fall. The white shirt was tarnish.
I tried to fix it.
From 2 rounds of washing → 3 rounds of separation.
Is white shirt / color shirt / pants
But there's still a problem.
Like the slippery screen pattern, jeans go about thin pants.
So I adjusted again. 😥
Wash it four times.
- White shirt.
- Color shirt
- Jeans
- Thin pants.
I'm trying to be more detailed.
Both waste more time
But even then, problems occasionally arise.
And every time I happen, I'm blamed.
Such as
- Why don't you put your shirt in your bag?
- Why are the buttons off?
- Why is the cloth like this?
Even after, the girlfriend will not speak directly.
But using symptoms, such as a shirt, a facial expression, or a gesture.
And I immediately said, "I'm not doing well anymore."
I lost my feelings many times.
Because in my corner, I was really determined.
And I thought, machine washing is not hand washing.
Something like fall colors, cloth ties, it can be 100% uncontrollable.
Finally, I decided to talk to my girlfriend:
I'm not going to do the laundry.
I'm going to buy another washing machine to set up in the condo.
For the girlfriend to wash himself
So that there are no repetitive problems and no bad feelings.
But the story doesn't end easily
My girlfriend was frustrated and saw me as "getting out of trouble."
Ask why not try to do better
Why not put in a cloth bag before washing?
Do you really think that doing is the best?!
Finally, what I meant to help.
Turns out I was considered not to keep my word.
Both used to say that it would help lighten
But today he chose to retreat
I'm very confused.
Because I really did the laundry. I never wanted my clothes damaged.
But I don't want to face reproach.
And I don't want to feel like "my intentions are worthless."
I just want to know
What should I do in this situation?
