Three things I did in 2024 that brought me peace

Struggling with ocd and an eating disorder my whole life has not been easy but I’ve been trying for the last decade to help myself feel more free in my body. This is just a small look into some of my daily practices that help me feel more connected to my body, mind and spirit! What may work for me may not work for you but I do hope this post reaches at least one person who needs it.

1. Allow myself time to be in the moment

My anxiety and ocd sometimes makes me feel like time is leaving me, like I can feel it running out. It has brought my mind great peace over the last 5 years to really stop. Take it all in. I make my cup of tea in the morning and stare at my dog & home and take the first moments of my day thinking and feeling grateful I get to live right here in this moment. I’ve had some losses through the years and this method has helped my grief tremendously, allowing me to feel whole and as if I didn’t take anything for granted.

2. Taking time to understand my emotions both negative and positive

Two words about three times: SHADOW WORK SHADOW WORK SHADOW WORK!

Giving myself grace to feel negative emotions as well as positive emotions has sure taken practice! It can be so hard when we grow up in environments where positive emotions are held as the only “right” way to feel. Allowing yourself to feel these negative emotions and understand they’re just as important as the positive emotions is an essential part of healing and growth.

3. Taking self care to the next step

This year I’ve really started to understand a shower is not SELF CARE, it’s just basic hygiene!

Instead I’ve looked more into booking massages and facials or doing my own at home, but not in the easy “throw on a sheet mask” way, more like in the slow careful “really spending time with my body” kind of way!

#healthyhabits #selfcare #shadowwork #lifestyleinfluencer #mentalhealthawareness

New York
2025/1/6 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's fast-paced world, finding peace can often feel elusive, especially for those battling mental health challenges like OCD and eating disorders. It's essential to approach healing holistically, embracing both positive and negative emotions. One effective method is mindfulness, which encourages living fully in each moment. Simple acts like savoring a cup of tea while appreciating your surroundings can significantly impact mental well-being. Moreover, recognizing the importance of shadow work allows individuals to confront and process their feelings, leading to deeper self-awareness and emotional growth. Self-care goes beyond superficial treatments; it includes nurturing your body and spirit. Consider scheduling regular massages or creating a serene spa-like experience at home. The practice of self-compassion through understanding and accepting your emotions is paramount for those on a healing journey. Additionally, surrounding yourself with supportive communities can provide the encouragement needed to navigate tough times. Remember, every small step toward self-acceptance and mindfulness counts in creating a balanced and peaceful life.

Related posts

2024 Best Reads✨
I didn’t manage to read the whole Bible in a year (even though I attempted), but I did read all of these amazing books that got me super excited to dive into certain chapters in my Bible. Because of that, I read more of the Bible than I ever have before this year! 1) Get Out Of Your Head by Jenn
lexi wolff ramirez

lexi wolff ramirez

3062 likes

A couple laughing and embracing on a couch, with text overlay asking "Is He From God? Or A Lesson? Find out" to introduce the article's theme.
A list titled "THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE COMMITTING..." detailing questions about aligning values, schedules, future desires, trust, lifestyle, conflict resolution, views, sexual preferences, finances, and feeling safe.
A list titled "Attributes of a Good Man" describing qualities such as loving you as you are, being sensitive, spending time, being attentive, reliable, protective, honest, resilient, appreciative, supportive, and respectful.
How To Know God Brought You The One?🤨
How do you know if he’s the one God has for you? How do you know if you should marry him? After spending years being single and praying for God to bring you your future husband, you think this guy could be the one. Here are some signs to know if He Is The One For YOU: 1) God Has Confirmed He’s t
Angelina

Angelina

1480 likes

A woman models a fall outfit featuring a white off-the-shoulder top, dark baggy jeans, and platform boots, reflecting a trendy early fall style.
A woman showcases an early fall outfit with a grey crewneck sweater, light wash baggy jeans, and sneakers, suitable for transitioning into winter.
A woman poses in a white off-the-shoulder top paired with dark baggy jeans and platform boots, highlighting a fashionable fall look.
Fall 2024 outfits 🧸🍂
I’m so ready for fall outfits. I put together some outfits that could be worn early fall transitioning into winter. These are super easy to recreate with pieces from your closet! 🍂 outfit details: outfit one - basic grey sweater + baggy Levi jeans and basic addidas sneakers! Really good for e
Kendrawilson

Kendrawilson

2533 likes

A book page with text, overlaid with the title "All of the WLW Books I read in 2024 Part 1" and a comment "winners love winning, amirite chat?". The image introduces a list of books.
A hand holding the book "Gideon the Ninth" by Tamsyn Muir, featuring a skeletal figure on the cover. Overlay text describes it as the "funniest book" and mentions "necro lesbians but no romance."
The book "An Education in Malice" by S.T. Gibson, with a dark cover adorned with white and yellow floral designs. An overlay comment states, "it does the job."
All of the WLW Books I read in 2024 Part 1
i know what you are 🫵🤨 - - #booktok #2024books #wlwbooks #sapphicbooks #wlw
Emiko

Emiko

319 likes

STATES TO VISIT IN 2024 ✈️🌅🫶⛰️🗺️
If you need Travel inspiration then here you go!! 1. Montana: If you like hiking, I recommend visiting Glacier National Park. There are many hikes for both beginners and experienced hikers 🥾⛰️ 2. Arizona: This place holds a special place in my heart, there’s so much to do here. You can visit
Arlene 🍒✨🍓

Arlene 🍒✨🍓

1027 likes

Non-Traditional Things We Did At Our Wedding 💍
My husband and I are two very untraditional people and we really wanted to show that in our wedding day to make it TRULY about us. We both could not be happier with the decisions we made. 🤍 Bridesmaid Dresses: I LOVE adding color to my daily life so of course my wedding day had to reflect that.
lexi schmeltz ✨

lexi schmeltz ✨

297 likes

my FALL 2024 PLANNING SYSTEM! 🧸🎧💻
my FALL 2024 PLANNING SYSTEM! 🧸🎧💻 - notion - google calendar - bullet journal (from notebook therapy) - study planner (a new but worthy addition) #lemon8partner #collegeplanner #studywithme #productivitytips #planwithme
lia 💗

lia 💗

381 likes

A young woman sits on a couch, looking at a laptop, with text overlay "HOW TO PLAN 2024 FOR THE BEST YEAR THIS IS THE YEAR YOU REACH YOUR GOALS." The Lemon8 logo and user handle @fromsarahjolie are visible.
A graphic outlining the first three steps for 2024 planning: "Outline your dream life and be VERY specific," "Break down 2024 into quarters," and "Write general goals for each quarter."
A graphic outlining the final three steps for 2024 planning: "For Q1, write more concrete goals," "For Q1 goals, write out immediate and repeating action steps to take," and "Monitor your progress and adjust as needed."
plan for a successful 2024!! ⭐✍🏻
I canNOT believe it’s almost the new year!! This year simultaneously felt like forever but also flew by. With that being said, 2024 planning is in FULL FLIGHT!! Here’s exactly how to plan for the BEST year yet. 1. Outline your dream life. Start by breaking down your life into categories (i
Sarah Jolie 🌸

Sarah Jolie 🌸

694 likes

A young woman takes a mirror selfie, holding a drink, with the title 'Christian Girl Habits I'm Implementing into 2024' overlaid. She wears a beige sweater vest over a white long-sleeve shirt and blue jeans.
An open Bible with a yellow highlighter rests on a metal outdoor chair, with a building and trees in the background. The text overlay reads 'Reading the Bible before my phone in the AM'.
A young woman in a white beanie, grey hoodie, and black vest takes a selfie while walking outdoors, holding a drink. The text overlay says 'Prayer Walks'.
Christian Girl Habits for 2024 ✨
These are some of my top habits that I am implementing into my life in 2024!! ✨ Bible before Phone - This one is important to me because of how intertwined in our phones and social media we are. Our phones are an immediate connection to worldly things rather than Holy. Try to limit the Wordly
Lexi Hess

Lexi Hess

355 likes

Reflection Journal Prompts For 2024 Into 2025 ✨
As the year comes to a close, there’s no better time to start reflecting on your life. Journaling is a process where we can connect with ourselves, unpack our thoughts, and set the tone for what’s next. Reflecting on 2024 helps you acknowledge your growth, celebrate your wins, and learn from cha
Mood Ring Mentality

Mood Ring Mentality

8 likes

The image displays the title 'THE TOP 10 BEST BOOKS I READ IN 2024!' in bold, stylized text against a sunset background with palm trees. It includes the Lemon8 logo and the user handle '@ivythegeekgoddess' with an arrow pointing right.
This image features book recommendations: 'The Dead Romantics' (Book 10) by Ashley Poston, described as a light-hearted book about a woman who sees ghosts, and 'A Court of Wings and Ruin' (Book 9) by Sarah J. Maas, a Beauty and the Beast retelling for adults. Both have star ratings.
This image presents two book recommendations: 'Still Beating' (Book 8) by Jennifer Hartmann, a dark romance about escape from a serial killer, and 'The Whispering Dead' (Book 7) by Darcy Coates, a cozy horror story. Both books are shown with their covers and star ratings.
The Top 10 Best Books I read in 2024!
This year has been an incredible reading journey—I’ve read more books than ever before in a single year: a staggering 100 books! That’s right, 100 entire stories filled with suspense, magic, love, and spine-chilling moments. I dove headfirst into a variety of genres, including Horror, Romantasy, Sc
TheGeekGoddess

TheGeekGoddess

64 likes

The Gates I am careful about in 2024
As believers, we are called to be vigilant and intentional about what we allow into our lives. In today's digital age, where information and influences surround us, it is crucial to be mindful of the three gates that can shape our thoughts, words, and actions: the Eye gate, the Mouth gate, and
🎀Solange🎀

🎀Solange🎀

548 likes

Rating things I did in Salem, MA
I loved my trip to Salem last year so much, I’m going again this year! Looking for any recs on where to stay, sleep, or play? Drop a comment below! #salem #salemthingstodo #travelwithme2024 #massachusetts #hauntedplaces #hauntedtravel #salemmassachusetts
Victoria

Victoria

52 likes

tips for protecting your peace 🌿
Protecting your peace involves doing activities that benefit your mental and physical health, as well as wellness. Here are some tips to help you protect your peace! -set boundaries in your life and know that it is ok to say NO (this applies to friendships, relationships, work settings, socia
Cleo Natalie

Cleo Natalie

48 likes

A woman sitting on a bench with text overlay promoting supplements for a gym journey, specifically for "Hot Girl Summer 2024" fitness goals.
A hand holding a bottle of liquid chlorophyll, with text explaining its use as a natural supplement for daily greens, skin health, and as a deodorizer.
A hand holding a container of creatine monohydrate, with text detailing its benefits for muscle recovery and toning, emphasizing daily intake and water consumption.
Supplements I’m taking in 2024 to be snatched!
Hey hey! This is my supplement/ Gym stack for my new gym journey. Although this is not my first gym journey, this is my first time taking advantage of supplements and what they can provide me this time around. So I thought I’d introduce my new babies to you guys 1.chlorophyll 2.creatine 3
Africa Gaddis

Africa Gaddis

79 likes

Hobbies in 2024 that brought me internal joy:
I can’t wait to see what 2025 has to offer. I am working on getting better and better at my current hobbies🤍 #bakewithme #sourdough #hobbies #2025goals #homesteadliving
Kyles

Kyles

14 likes

Dark Romance Books Coming In 2024!
Some of the books already came out but a majority of them are getting ready to come out within these few months. #darkromance #darkacademia #stalker #booksoflemon8 #books #booktok #bookrecommendations #2024 #darkromancebooks #darkromancereaders
Darrk_luv

Darrk_luv

18 likes

Books of the Bible I have read in 2024 pt. 1
I have also read Hebrews but I couldn’t fit into this post. Comment below what book of the Bible y’all are currently reading and which book of the Bible is your favorite. I’m currently on the book of Matthew 😊 #yearlybible #readingthroughmybible #2024bible #readthebiblewithme #rea
Cami Sanders

Cami Sanders

10 likes

A clean, organized white desk setup with a monitor, laptop, and office supplies. Overlaid text reads "my 100-item bucket list for 2024 :)" and "self growth, productivity, fun," with a checklist graphic.
A desk setup featuring the first 60 items of a 100-item bucket list for 2024. Annotations highlight "going to vermont in february!" and show a graphic of three people hugging.
A desk setup displaying the remaining 40 items (61-100) of a 100-item bucket list. Annotations point to "watch the sunrise" and "strengthen my relationships with friends," with a checklist graphic.
my 100-item bucket list for 2024 :)
my bucket list for this year (and maybe next year too!) i have a busy (but super fun) year ahead of me, and now that i’ve written out my mental bucket list, i’m even more excited for 2024 :) i don’t plan on being able to do all of these things this year, but a lot of the things included are thin
lia 💗

lia 💗

201 likes

2024 brought a lot of changes
2025 going to bring even more. #fypシ #bodytransformation
Rydermaddox47

Rydermaddox47

300 likes

A vibrant sunset over a field of colorful flowers, including red, orange, and pink blooms. Silhouetted trees line the horizon under the fiery sky. The image features the title "Things I did as a first year flower farmer."
A vibrant bouquet of fresh-cut flowers, including a large sunflower, pink zinnias, and feathery yellow and pink celosia, arranged in a glass jar with a dried orange slice, sitting on a wicker table.
A hand holds a large, colorful bouquet of various celosia flowers in shades of yellow, red, and cream. The background shows a blurred garden with green foliage and a white shed.
Things I did as a first year flower farmer
I have been dreaming of becoming a flower farmer for years. Years of research and praying we would find a house in the country so I could make my vision reality. I think it was around Christmas time in 2023 when I brought up the idea of starting a small scale flower farm in our backyard to my hu
Madison Ambrosius

Madison Ambrosius

7 likes

A collage titled 'My Top 9 Reads in 2024' featuring nine book covers, each with a 5.0 rating. The books include 'A Month of Sundays,' 'Losing Control,' 'Courage to Love Again,' 'For The Night,' 'Jump Ball,' 'Curvy Girl Summer,' 'Pardon My Frenchie,' 'A Love Song for Ricki Wilde,' and an abstract cover.
The book cover for 'Pardon My Frenchie' by Farrah Rochon, depicting a couple and a French bulldog on a bench with a pink castle. Text highlights themes like 'Perfect for dog lovers,' 'Opposites attract,' 'Slow burn,' 'Very funny,' 'Spicy scenes,' and 'Reppin Black businesses,' with a 5-star rating.
The book cover for 'For The Night' by Rae Lyse, showing a person's head with purple smoke forming the title. Text lists themes such as 'Age gap,' 'Single parent,' 'Slow burn,' and 'Opposites attract,' accompanied by a 5-star rating.
#ReadingWrapUp 2024 - My Top Romance Books
I’ve read 116 books this year. By the end of the year, I’ll probably read 4 more for a total of 120 books. It was so hard to make this post but here it is - my top 9 books of 2024. This year I really fell in love with slow burns and sought more to enjoy, so many of my favorites from the year ar
Shanae 📚

Shanae 📚

63 likes

A brown paper note with "COMING SOON October 24'" is centered on a dark surface, surrounded by lit candles, red roses, and a small framed picture. A "Swipe" indicator is at the bottom right.
The book cover for "No One Will Know" by Rose Carlyle features a woman's silhouette on a beach with a sailboat on the water against a vibrant sunset sky.
The book cover for "Society of Lies" shows a building covered in ivy with multiple windows glowing pink, revealing silhouettes of people inside.
Coming Soon… October 2024
(Kindle Edition) ⭐ No One Will Know- Rose Carlyle The perfect couple. Perfect plan. Are you their perfect victim? Shocking and seductive twist Release Date: October 1st ⭐ Society of Lies- Lauren Ling Brown The perfect on campus crime hidden by the most expensive social club at Princeton. T
Cassidy R.

Cassidy R.

44 likes

Making 2024 that girl 😌
Y’all I spent the last month looking at my budget, spending habits and bills to see if there were any areas where I could cut back in order to save more money💸. Now that we’re in 2024, I’m starting a savings binder to ensure that my financial goals are on track ☺️. I brought this savings binder on
Queen Misfitx3

Queen Misfitx3

175 likes

Romance Booms I loved in 2024
This isn’t the full list by a long shot but all of these books I would highly suggest. 1. Under your scars by Ariel Anderson-Probably my top read of the year. I will be honest, when I heard the end type of ending, I almost didn’t read it. I am so glad I did even though it shook me to my core. I
Vampire_Obsessed_Shop

Vampire_Obsessed_Shop

3 likes

Things I Learned in 2024 (Part 2)
Sit with me on my bathroom floor as I share more things I learned in 2024. Make sure to watch part 1!! #thingsilearned #astoldbyrilee #2024recap
astoldbyrilee

astoldbyrilee

3 likes

A couple holds hands in front of an antique red tractor decorated with fall flowers and pumpkins. The image has a text overlay that reads "HOW TO DATE in 2024" and includes the Lemon8 logo with the username @its.alliemac.
The text "BE OPEN AND HONEST" is prominently displayed over a background of a patterned armchair. A white text box below provides advice on being open and honest in dating, with the Lemon8 logo and @its.alliemac at the bottom.
The text "BE DIRECT" is displayed over a background featuring a wooden dresser with a mirror and a plant. A white text box below offers advice on being direct in dating, with the Lemon8 logo and @its.alliemac at the bottom.
Ladies, How Do We Date in 2024?!
#datingtips I feel like it's been very hard lately for those who are trying to date in 2024. I think there are many reasons as to why, such as.. people staying inside more, people being more anti-social after 2020, and of course... social media. I do think however, that there are a
Allie Mac

Allie Mac

27 likes

My prayer Board 2024
Sometimes I I don’t need the glue sticks and glitter to pray here are three ways I get ready. 1. 🙏 Embrace Serenity: Find a quiet space to disconnect from the digital buzz. Take a few deep breaths, clear your mind, and let the peace within guide your thoughts. 2. ✏️ Journal Your Heart: Grab
Dessy Dess

Dessy Dess

25 likes

2024’s Latest Book Releases ✨📖🍋
2024 has brought us a ton of great new books. My latest haul is all books that have been released within the past couple of months. Here's what I'm excited to read, including their GoodReads summary and rating. The Cemetery of Untold Stories, by Julia Alvarez: 3.79 Alma Cruz, the cele
Emily 📚✈️📍

Emily 📚✈️📍

229 likes

An elevated night view of Country Club Plaza, showcasing buildings adorned with colorful holiday lights. A prominent tower glows yellow, and string lights illuminate rooftops and awnings, with people visible on the streets below during the holiday lighting event.
Part Three of Country Club Plaza Thanksgiving 2024
Here are the last couple pics from the view my husband and I had for the holiday lighting in Country Club Plaza this season. #lemon8christmas
BCBadAss24

BCBadAss24

7 likes

A collage titled 'My Top 9 Reads in 2024' displays nine book covers, each rated 5.0. The books cover themes of self-help and personal growth, including titles like 'You're Overthinking It,' 'This Is How You Heal,' and 'Emotional Detox.'
📚✨ My Top 9 Reads of 2024! ✨
This year has been a journey of growth, healing, and self-discovery, and these books were my companions along the way. Each of them brought something unique to the table, and I highly recommend them to anyone on a similar path. 🌟 💛 Top 9 Reads of 2024: 1️⃣ You’re Overthinking It – A perfect rem
IAMSASCHAT|UGC

IAMSASCHAT|UGC

44 likes

A person is shown from the waist down, holding an open book on their lap, with text overlay "my year in Books" and decorative stars. The person wears shorts and a light blue top, sitting outdoors.
A hand holds Emily Henry's "Happy Place" book, featuring a pink cover with beach illustrations. Text overlays include a 4.5-star rating, "must read for every 20 year old woman!!", and review comments.
A hand holds Ana Huang's "Twisted Love" book, featuring a light blue cover. Text overlays include a 3.5-star rating, "loved the story line", and comments on the plot and writing.
my 2024 reads 🫶🏼
lots of good reads this year!! 🩵📖 Happy Place - Emily Henry Twisted Love - Ana Huang Good Girl Complex - Elle Kennedy Twisted Games - Ana Huang The Housemaid - Frieda McFadden The Housemaid’s Secret - Frieda McFadden Things We Never Got Over - Lucy Score Twisted Hate - Ana Huang #2024b
Katie

Katie

32 likes

Lessons I Learned in 2024 ✔️📋💖
things 2024 has taught me…. • relationships matter more than being right. • people are flawed including myself. • it’s okay to let go of childhood friendships that are no longer aligning with you. • happiness is an inside job. • growth is uncomfortable. • therapy is not a weakness. and l
tabby

tabby

7 likes

Me and my sisters all had babies in 2024!!!
Here’s the story of how my sisters and I all had babies at the same time! (Just a little shortened up) ;) I hope you guys enjoy this one! A little back story though, everyone who knows Me and my family knows that growing up, Me (Kenzie), Megan, and Katlyne never did anything alone. We always d
McKenzie🤎

McKenzie🤎

294 likes

An aerial view of a New Orleans street with buildings, cars, and lush green trees, serving as the title image for "THREE THINGS TO DO IN NEW ORLEANS."
The ornate exterior of Cafe Beignet in New Orleans, featuring its illuminated sign and green-and-white striped awnings, highlighting the recommendation to "GET BEIGNETS."
Multiple orange jellyfish with flowing tentacles swimming gracefully in dark water, illustrating the recommendation to "GO TO THE Aquarium."
THREE THINGS TO DO IN NEW ORLEANS 🌆
Three fun activities I did while in New Orleans: 🧁eat beignets at Cafe Beignet (better than cafe du monde) 🐠go to the aquarium (the jelly fish were my favorite) 💐visit the Vincent Van Gogh Immersive Museum #travelwithme2024 #travel #neworleans #neworleansweekend #travelusa #ci
Genevieve

Genevieve

77 likes

Sunny Citrus Spring Salad : Healthy Lifestyle 2024
10 Wildly Creative Salad Recipes That Break Out of the Lunchtime Rut BUT FIRST: Sunny Citrus Spring Salad A light and nutritious salad bursting with fresh flavors! Ingredients: • Mixed greens • Avocado • Chickpeas • Mandarin oranges • Carrots • Lemon juice • Olive oil
Lifestyle Babe

Lifestyle Babe

7 likes

Best Saga I’ve read in 2024 (so far) ✨🧝🏼‍♀️👩🏻‍🎤🍎
I will miss Jacks and Evangeline so much! This is one of those sagas where you want to finish and see the outcome, while at the same time you want to read slowly to not say goodbye to the story and the characters. I think the ending wrapped up the story well. Is it the best book of the three? No
Karen Aldrigui

Karen Aldrigui

17 likes

Things that broughtMe joy this week
#joyinlife #romanticizeyourlife #solodateideas #2025
JessyJen

JessyJen

1 like

A close-up of a pregnant woman's belly with her hand and a man's hand resting on it, showing connection. Text overlay reads: "HOW PREGNANCY HAS BROUGHT My husband and I closer."
A smiling pregnant woman in a pink dress and a man stand in front of a pink and red balloon arch, with the man's hand on her belly. Text overlay reads: "Priority Time."
A smiling pregnant woman in denim overalls and a man stand in a stadium, with the man's hand on her belly. Text overlay reads: "He talks to her."
How pregnancy brought us closer
Pregnancy and having a baby can bring you closer or further apart and it’s mostly up to you (I understand there are certain situations that are harder to control). But my husband and I did a few things I believe helped bring us closer even when things have been hard through this pregnancy. We ha
Lizzy | Christian author

Lizzy | Christian author

107 likes

4 Books That Changed My Life in 2024📚
1. A Court of Mist and Fury by Sarah J. Mass Everyone raves about this book, and for good reason. When everything you’ve read finally ties together, the overwhelming feeling is immaculate and beautiful. 2. The Women by Kristin Hannah This book is an emotional read with so many underlying them
Liv Marie🤍

Liv Marie🤍

17 likes

See more