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You need to heal..

You deserve more than half-truths.

You deserve more than a wandering eye.

You deserve more than full-on lies.

You deserve more than someone who is comfortable ignoring your texts and calls until they want something.

You deserve MORE than a man who would carry on an affair with someone else throughout your entire relationship but let you believe you’re the only one.

You deserve more than being abandoned suddenly, again, when you’re in the middle of planning your lives together after giving him a second chance.

You deserve more than apologies without changed behavior.

You deserve more than desperate efforts to reel you back in because you’re now sticking to your guns.

What you actually deserve is someone who knows what he has in you and will do any and everything he can to hold onto you without anyone telling him he should.

If he isn’t doing that, what can he truly offer you?

You don’t need more heartache, girl.

You need to heal.

And you can’t do that when you’re still holding on tight to the one who cut you.

Stop the bleeding.

Glue the scar shut.

Walk away from the one who is branding the knife.

He’s not safe for you…he has already shown you that.

Your safety and healing and wholeness will come with completely letting go.

#relationships #heartache

2025/3/23 Edited to

Healing from heartache is a vital journey for anyone who has experienced emotional pain in a relationship. It's important to recognize your self-worth and understand that you deserve a partner who respects and values you. Emotional scars can run deep, but the process of healing involves acknowledging your feelings and what you truly need from a relationship. In today's world of dating and relationships, too many people settle for less than they deserve, often clinging to toxic connections due to fear or familiarity. Understanding your value can lead to significant changes in how you approach love and intimacy. Take time to reflect on past relationships and the patterns that have caused you harm. Recognize the signs of unhealthy connections to prevent repeating those mistakes. Embracing self-love is essential; it allows you to prioritize your happiness and well-being. Engage in activities that foster joy, surround yourself with supportive friends, and consider professional help if needed. Remember, healing is a process that takes time, but with dedication, you can emerge stronger and more confident. Trust your instincts and allow yourself the grace to heal completely before entering a new relationship.

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