I’ll be the first to admit it but social media and constant access I gave really ruined motherhood for me. In the beginning I was just sharing how cute this little family I created with hubby was and then boom, I felt a constant urge or need to always be connected to my phone. To consume content, to check my engagement, to “stay on top of” things and it honestly made me disconnect from my family and friends and stay connected to online strangers. It wasn’t until this year where I stopped letting the imaginary feeling of being “left behind” flee. We don’t get left behind when we are raising humans, we’re not leaving anything just simply pausing more to live in real time. So here’s to more days unplugging to enjoy the simple pleasures that bring my little family so much Joy. #momlife #momtok #momsoftiktok #toddlerlife #sahmtok

2025/11/16 Edited to

... Read moreMany mothers like me find themselves caught in the endless loop of social media, where the pressure to stay connected can sometimes overshadow the precious moments with our children. Putting my phone on Do Not Disturb (DND) has become a simple yet powerful practice to be fully present with my toddler and family. By silencing notifications and resisting the urge to check engagement or new content, I reclaim the quality time that often slips away unnoticed. This intentional pause allows us to appreciate the simple joys of #momlife and #toddlerlife without feeling the anxiety of missing out or being 'left behind' online. Instead of scrolling through feeds, these moments become filled with genuine interaction—laughing, playing, and sharing real experiences with loved ones. Unplugging doesn't mean disconnecting from the world; it means reconnecting with what truly matters. Social media can be a wonderful tool for community and inspiration, especially within groups like #momtok, #momsoftiktok, and #sahmtok. However, balancing online engagement with real-life presence is key to nurturing our mental health and family bonds. If you're struggling with the constant need to check your phone, try setting it to DND during family time. Notice the difference it makes—not just in your relationships but in your own sense of fulfillment. Motherhood is about embracing every small moment, and sometimes that means unplugging to fully experience the joy our little ones bring every day.

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