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avoidant girly’s guide to healthy relationships

I know that there’s a lot of stigma around avoidant attachment. pop psychology on tiktok and instagram have painted people with avoidant attachment as malicious and evil, and while their actions can cause harm to others, it’s rarely, if at all, intentional. what people with anxious or secure attach

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avoidant girl’s guide to healthy relationships

I know that there's a lot of stigma around avoidant attachment. pop psychology on tiktok and instagram have painted people with avoidant attachment as malicious and evil, and while their actions can cause harm to others, it's rarely, if at all, intentional. what people with anxious or secur

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save this if you love an avoidant 🤍

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