The reason for the shock that "no!" does not work... Solved by brain science! How to tell the 18th year ST teaches

"The more I say no, the more I do... 😭"

"I feel like I say 'no' about 100 times a day..."

Do you reflect on yourself alone at night like that?

Actually, it may be because of the mechanism of the brain, not the selfishness of your child 🧠

As an 18-year speech therapist (ST), I have seen many parents and children,

The negative form is actually hard to reach the child s brain.

When the brain hears a word, it first imagines the action.

When you are told "Don't run!," your brain is filled with the image of running! 💨

As a result, the phenomenon that the body moves is occurring.

The important thing is not to memorize the paraphrases.

Change your perspective to "how you want to move (affirmative form)."

When I can do this,

Mom's irritation decreases and your child's "done!" increases dramatically 🌱✨

At the end of the slide, there is also a [paraphrase list] that can be used from today.

Please save it and use it as a talisman 🔖

[Recruitment]

Where is the scene where you tend to say "no!" the most?

Let me know in the comments! ✨

Let's think about "how to convey to the brain" together!

May your parenting be a little easier 🌱

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