I hate pregnancy. But love it and miss it at the same time.

Hyper Emesis Gravidum ruined evey single pregnancy. I lost 28lbs with my first baby girl and it rocked my world. I would do it hundreds times over again for them. #hyperemesisgravidarum #pregnancy #babymama

2025/7/28 Edited to

... Read moreHyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of nausea and vomiting during pregnancy that goes beyond common morning sickness. It can lead to extreme weight loss, dehydration, and significant physical and emotional distress, as described in the article where the author lost 28 pounds with her first pregnancy. This condition affects roughly 0.3% to 3% of pregnant women worldwide and requires medical attention to manage symptoms and prevent complications. Managing HG often involves hydration therapy, medications, dietary changes, and close monitoring by healthcare providers. Despite the hardships, many mothers like the author express a complex mix of emotions—disliking the pregnancy experience due to HG’s debilitating effects while deeply loving and missing their children and the unique bond formed during pregnancy. Support is crucial for women facing HG. Emotional encouragement from family, friends, and support groups can alleviate feelings of isolation. Additionally, awareness about HG is growing, leading to better diagnosis and treatment options, allowing women to endure pregnancies with more comfort and safety. Understanding the physical and mental impacts of HG helps validate the experiences of many mothers. Sharing these stories raises awareness, reduces stigma, and fosters a supportive community for those navigating pregnancy challenges. The author's candid reflection—"I say I don’t miss it, but that’s a liar"—captures the paradox of pain and love intertwined in the journey of motherhood.

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