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When you can't appreciate it, spit it out first✨

Lucky constitution with thanks note ✨

That being said,

"I can't thank you..."" "

"I can't be positive..."" "

Positive is impossible..."" "

Such to you 💌

That's fine

you don't have to overdo it.

Instead of saying "I have to thank you!"

Let's spit it out first 💭

The pressure of "I have to thank you"

Even if you say "three thanks"

Nothing comes to mind 🌀

Rather, only complaints and complaints

And I think

"I can't be grateful 😣"

But it's different

What I can't appreciate is

You're no good.

I'm just tired ❤️‍🩹

[Order is important]

Actually, the gratitude diary

What people with a good mind do

When my heart is not in order

Suddenly looking for gratitude

Insanely tough 💦

That's why the order is important

❌ wrong order.

Suddenly thank you diary

Spicy, can't write

Self-esteem falls (I can't thank myself)

⭕️ correct order

1. First exhale (purification)

2. Mind becomes a little lighter

3. Then look for thanks

4. Mind is ready

Start by spitting it out ☝️

[How to spit notes]

▷ What to prepare

Note (cheap enough)

・ Pen

▷ How to do it

Write as you think

▷ Writing

・ Complaining

- dissatisfied

Anger.

・ Sadness

Annoyed

・ Moyamoya

・ What I couldn't say

・ That I was patient

Spit it all out 💭

Rules

・ Do not show it to anyone

You don t have to write beautifully.

・ It's good to be messy

· Typographical errors OK

・ It's okay even while crying

You can break it.

This will be the cleansing ✨

Example)

"I can't do it anymore."

I'm tired.

Why is it just me?

"That person is annoying"

"No one will understand."

"I want to disappear"

"I hate everything."

Anything is fine

Can I write it all 👌

Your feelings are all right.

Why does it feel easier to spit it out?

Psychologically

✴ ︎ Suppress emotions

to accumulate in one's heart

to be heavy

Painful

✴ ︎ Exhale emotions

come from the heart

Become lighter

It will be easier

This is called writing therapy 🪻

By writing, emotions can be organized and objectively viewed

Reduces stress by catharsis (purification),

My heart becomes lighter

This has been scientifically proven effective ✨

[After spitting out]

Leaving it out is NG

Finally, always

"You did well"

"It was painful, wasn't it?"

"It was tough, wasn't it?"

"But I've come this far."

"That's great."

Say kind words to yourself.

Then close the notebook and breathe deeply

This is complete

[Notes]

Note 1: Don't blame yourself.

"I'm the worst at writing this."

You don't have to think

Exhaling emotions is healthy.

Note 2: Don t do it every day.

Only when it's hard is OK

Do not make it mandatory

Note 3: Do not act to hurt anyone.

Writing in a notebook is OK

However, it is NG to actually attack

Note 4: When it is too hot

Talk to an expert.

you don't have to hold it alone.

Spit it out and feel a little lighter

For the first time,

Looking for a little happiness 🍀

Try to find gratitude ⭐

Don't overdo it

At your pace ✨

[The order in which the mind is arranged]

Step 1: Exhaling (Purifying)

Express negative emotions.

Step 2: Take care of yourself.

"You did well."

Step 3: Rest a little

→ Rest your mind

Step 4: Find a little happiness

Find gratitude.

Step 5: Your mind is ready.

to be satisfied.

Don't rush. One by one 😌

[Important thing]

You are

It's okay if you can't thank me ♡

It's okay not to be positive ♡

It's okay to have negative emotions ♡

It's okay to cry ♡

It's okay to complain ♡

Everything seems human

Everything is correct

You don't have to keep your emotions in check.

Can I spit it 🌷

Save and remember when it's hard 😉

May your heart be a little lighter 🫧

On this account.

▷ Tips for changing "strictness" to "kindness"

▷ How to regain your axis

▷ Psychology × Self-care that can be practiced immediately

We are sending out such 🕊️

 

Let's spend a peaceful day together 🧸🫶

Self-acceptance

# mental _ health

Care of the heart

# comment _ challenge

My time alone.

2025/12/22 Edited to

... Read more感謝の心を育むには、まず自分のネガティブな感情を受け止めることが大切だと感じます。私も以前は、感謝しなければと自分を追い込んでしまい、ますます心が重くなってしまいました。しかし、この吐き出しノートを始めてから、自分の感情を否定せずに書き出すことで心が軽くなるのを実感しました。 具体的には、ノートに愚痴や不満、怒りなど思いつくままに書くことで感情の浄化が行われます。このプロセスは心理学的に「ライティングセラピー」と呼ばれ、感情を抑え込むのではなく外へ出すことでストレスが減り、心が楽になると科学的にも証明されています。 また、吐き出しノートを書くときは誰にも見せないこと、字が汚くてもいいこと、感情のままに自由に書くことがポイントです。私も涙を流しながら書くことがありましたが、それも癒しの一つでした。 吐き出した後は、自分を責めず「よく頑張ったね」と優しい言葉をかけることで自己肯定感が高まります。これを繰り返すことで、少しずつ感謝できる心の余裕が生まれてきます。 重要なのは焦らず、自分のペースで進めること。感謝は心が整ってから見つけるものであり、無理やり感謝しようとせず、まずは自分の気持ちに寄り添う時間を持つことをおすすめします。 専門家に相談するのも一つの手です。一人で抱え込まず、吐き出すことで心の回復につなげていきましょう。

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