When you can't appreciate it, spit it out first✨
Lucky constitution with thanks note ✨
That being said,
"I can't thank you..."" "
"I can't be positive..."" "
Positive is impossible..."" "
Such to you 💌
That's fine
you don't have to overdo it.
Instead of saying "I have to thank you!"
Let's spit it out first 💭
The pressure of "I have to thank you"
Even if you say "three thanks"
Nothing comes to mind 🌀
Rather, only complaints and complaints
And I think
"I can't be grateful 😣"
But it's different
What I can't appreciate is
You're no good.
I'm just tired ❤️🩹
[Order is important]
Actually, the gratitude diary
What people with a good mind do
When my heart is not in order
Suddenly looking for gratitude
Insanely tough 💦
That's why the order is important
❌ wrong order.
Suddenly thank you diary
↓
Spicy, can't write
↓
Self-esteem falls (I can't thank myself)
⭕️ correct order
1. First exhale (purification)
↓
2. Mind becomes a little lighter
↓
3. Then look for thanks
↓
4. Mind is ready
Start by spitting it out ☝️
[How to spit notes]
▷ What to prepare
Note (cheap enough)
・ Pen
▷ How to do it
Write as you think
▷ Writing
・ Complaining
- dissatisfied
Anger.
・ Sadness
Annoyed
・ Moyamoya
・ What I couldn't say
・ That I was patient
Spit it all out 💭
Rules
・ Do not show it to anyone
You don t have to write beautifully.
・ It's good to be messy
· Typographical errors OK
・ It's okay even while crying
You can break it.
This will be the cleansing ✨
Example)
"I can't do it anymore."
I'm tired.
Why is it just me?
"That person is annoying"
"No one will understand."
"I want to disappear"
"I hate everything."
Anything is fine
Can I write it all 👌
Your feelings are all right.
Why does it feel easier to spit it out?
Psychologically
✴ ︎ Suppress emotions
↓
to accumulate in one's heart
↓
to be heavy
↓
Painful
✴ ︎ Exhale emotions
↓
come from the heart
↓
Become lighter
↓
It will be easier
This is called writing therapy 🪻
By writing, emotions can be organized and objectively viewed
Reduces stress by catharsis (purification),
My heart becomes lighter
This has been scientifically proven effective ✨
[After spitting out]
Leaving it out is NG
Finally, always
"You did well"
"It was painful, wasn't it?"
"It was tough, wasn't it?"
"But I've come this far."
"That's great."
Say kind words to yourself.
Then close the notebook and breathe deeply
This is complete
[Notes]
Note 1: Don't blame yourself.
"I'm the worst at writing this."
You don't have to think
Exhaling emotions is healthy.
Note 2: Don t do it every day.
Only when it's hard is OK
Do not make it mandatory
Note 3: Do not act to hurt anyone.
Writing in a notebook is OK
However, it is NG to actually attack
Note 4: When it is too hot
Talk to an expert.
you don't have to hold it alone.
Spit it out and feel a little lighter
For the first time,
Looking for a little happiness 🍀
Try to find gratitude ⭐
Don't overdo it
At your pace ✨
[The order in which the mind is arranged]
Step 1: Exhaling (Purifying)
Express negative emotions.
Step 2: Take care of yourself.
"You did well."
Step 3: Rest a little
→ Rest your mind
Step 4: Find a little happiness
Find gratitude.
Step 5: Your mind is ready.
to be satisfied.
Don't rush. One by one 😌
[Important thing]
You are
It's okay if you can't thank me ♡
It's okay not to be positive ♡
It's okay to have negative emotions ♡
It's okay to cry ♡
It's okay to complain ♡
Everything seems human
Everything is correct
You don't have to keep your emotions in check.
Can I spit it 🌷
Save and remember when it's hard 😉
May your heart be a little lighter 🫧
On this account.
▷ Tips for changing "strictness" to "kindness"
▷ How to regain your axis
▷ Psychology × Self-care that can be practiced immediately
We are sending out such 🕊️
Let's spend a peaceful day together 🧸🫶
感謝の心を育むには、まず自分のネガティブな感情を受け止めることが大切だと感じます。私も以前は、感謝しなければと自分を追い込んでしまい、ますます心が重くなってしまいました。し かし、この吐き出しノートを始めてから、自分の感情を否定せずに書き出すことで心が軽くなるのを実感しました。 具体的には、ノートに愚痴や不満、怒りなど思いつくままに書くことで感情の浄化が行われます。このプロセスは心理学的に「ライティングセラピー」と呼ばれ、感情を抑え込むのではなく外へ出すことでストレスが減り、心が楽になると科学的にも証明されています。 また、吐き出しノートを書くときは誰にも見せないこと、字が汚くてもいいこと、感情のままに自由に書くことがポイントです。私も涙を流しながら書くことがありましたが、それも癒しの一つでした。 吐き出した後は、自分を責めず「よく頑張ったね」と優しい言葉をかけることで自己肯定感が高まります。これを繰り返すことで、少しずつ感謝できる心の余裕が生まれてきます。 重要なのは焦らず、自分のペースで進めること。感謝は心が整ってから見つけるものであり、無理やり感謝しようとせず、まずは自分の気持ちに寄り添う時間を持つことをおすすめします。 専門家に相談するのも一つの手です。一人で抱え込まず、吐き出すことで心の回復につなげていきましょう。



































































