Il m’a cassée.
Il m’a cassée plus de fois que je ne pouvais compter, et je n'arrêtais pas de le choisir. J’ai tenu bon, espérant que l'amour puisse réparer ce que la DOULEUR avait déjà causée. J’ai ramassée les morceaux qu'il a brisés, juste pour qu'il revienne avec les mêmes mains qui m’ont déchirée. Il ne m’a pas seulement blessée, il m’a regardée me battre, sachant qu'il en était la raison. Et le pire ? Il a continué à le faire. Pas parce qu'il ne connaissait pas mieux... mais parce qu'il savait que je resterais. Ce n'est pas de l'amour. C'est utiliser la loyauté de quelqu'un pour continuer à le BRISER.
I've personally experienced the confusing and painful cycle described here. It’s all too easy to believe that love can mend the broken pieces caused by repeated hurt. In my experience, I found myself willing to overlook ongoing pain, hoping loyalty and patience would bring change. But real healing comes from recognizing when love is being used as a shield for abuse or emotional neglect. Understanding this helped me realize that staying in such a relationship isn’t a testament to strength, but rather a barrier to personal growth and happiness. One of the hardest parts was acknowledging that the person causing the pain was fully aware and chose to continue because they knew I would stay. This awareness is crucial—it’s not about ignorance but conscious choice and manipulation. To anyone caught in this cycle, my advice is to seek support and focus on rebuilding your sense of self-worth outside the relationship. Surround yourself with people who truly respect and value you, and allow yourself the space to heal without guilt. True love nurtures and respects your boundaries, not breaks you repeatedly. Sharing this helps me feel less alone, and I hope it offers comfort and clarity to others struggling with similar feelings of being broken by someone they once trusted deeply.