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Always think first

The word "to grow up" is not just to age, but to think about what should or should not be.

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... Read moreในชีวิตประจำวัน เรามักจะได้ยินคำว่า 'โตแล้ว' ซึ่งส่วนใหญ่คนจะเข้าใจว่าหมายถึงการมีอายุมากขึ้น แต่ในความเป็นจริง ความโตที่แท้ไม่ได้หมายถึงแค่การมีอายุสูงขึ้นเท่านั้น แต่หมายถึงความสามารถในการคิดก่อนตัดสินใจ หรือที่เรียกว่า "คิดก่อนเสมอ" การ "คิดก่อนเสมอ" เป็นทักษะที่สำคัญอย่างยิ่งในทุกวัย แต่ยิ่งถ้าเราโตขึ้น การคิดรอบคอบมากขึ้นจะช่วยให้เราตัดสินใจได้ดีและรับผิดชอบต่อตัวเองและผู้อื่นได้มากขึ้น เช่น การรู้ว่าอะไรควรทำ และอะไรไม่ควรทำในสถานการณ์ต่างๆ สำหรับฉันเอง การเข้าใจในความหมายของการเป็นคนโตนั้นทำให้ผมเปลี่ยนแปลงวิธีคิดและการกระทำในชีวิต ไม่จำเป็นต้องรอให้มีอายุเยอะถึงจะรู้จัก "โต" แต่สามารถฝึกฝนคิดอย่างมีเหตุผลและยับยั้งชั่งใจได้ในทุกช่วงเวลา นอกจากนี้ คำว่า "โต" ยังสะท้อนถึงการยอมรับความผิดพลาดและพยายามแก้ไขให้ถูกต้องมากกว่าการอายุมาก คนที่โตจริงๆ คือคนที่กล้ารับผิดชอบและพยายามพัฒนาตัวเองอย่างต่อเนื่อง ดังนั้น หากเราตั้งใจ "คิดก่อนเสมอ" ไม่ว่าจะอยู่ในวัยใด ก็สามารถเป็นคนที่โตทั้งในด้านจิตใจและการกระทำได้อย่างแท้จริง

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