Why you’ll never look like me (and that’s okay)

So many people tell me I’m their body goals or ask how I accomplished my shape and to a certain extent it makes me feel bad. Yes I’ve worked out for years and it’s helped but genetics play a large role in how you are built. When first entering the gym it is better to set a goal of loving your body itself and working out because you love your body rather than setting someone else as your goal because you’ll never truly look like them and that’s okay 💖

2024/12/31 Edited to

... Read moreIn a world filled with social media 'body goals', it's crucial to recognize that every body is different. While influencers may showcase their fitness journeys, remember that genetics significantly influence your shape and size. Instead of striving to replicate someone else's body, aim for a healthy mindset that focuses on your well-being. Celebrate your body's unique traits and capabilities. Engaging in fitness should stem from a desire to enhance your health, increase your confidence, and appreciate yourself. Positive affirmations and self-love practices can help you cultivate a supportive inner dialogue. Surround yourself with uplifting communities that value authenticity over unrealistic standards. It is essential to understand that everyone has their own struggles and successes, which are rarely visible on the surface. So, when you step into the gym, let love for your body guide your workouts, fostering a culture of inclusivity and self-acceptance. Remember, it's perfectly okay to not look like someone else — you are enough just as you are!

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