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so i have this complicated relationship with food because when i was younger my mom really hated my weight. like she would make me get up at five am to run on the treadmill for two hours and only let me eat like, one apple a day. these days i eat a little more but even eating a small bowl of fruit like the one pictured above just makes me feel disgusted with myself. like when i eat more than two dumplings or whatever i feel greedy and want to throw up. i always thought this was normal but my friend who’s taking med classes (like me) with a more healthy eating/nutrition oriented perspective says that i need to eat more. what do i do?

tldr: im having trouble eating food and i don’t know what to do. help!!

2024/7/30 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating challenges with food can be particularly difficult, especially when past experiences shape our current relationship with eating. Many individuals struggle with food guilt as a result of restrictive childhood diets or negative body image messages. It’s essential to recognize that feeling disgusted after eating can be linked to deeper psychological issues, such as emotional eating or an unhealthy relationship with food instilled during formative years. Consider seeking guidance from a registered dietitian who can provide personalized advice tailored to your needs. They can help develop a balanced meal plan that includes a variety of foods while fostering a positive relationship with eating. It might also be beneficial to engage in mindfulness practices during meals, such as eating slowly and focusing on the flavors and textures of the food, which can enhance your enjoyment and reduce feelings of guilt. Additionally, joining online communities or forums where sharing and discussion about eating struggles and recovery is encouraged can be a valuable resource. Many people find comfort in hearing others’ stories and knowing they are not alone in their journey to develop healthier eating habits. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and taking small steps towards a healthier relationship with food is essential for your overall well-being.

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You should try and eat protein yogurt maybe that would be a good start but I am sure you are beautiful.

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