Divorce is a word many people don't want to get involved in. It was seen as a taboo back in the days.  When someone hears the word "divorce", it will immediately be perceived negatively. Over the last 20 years at least, divorce rates keep rocketing, not because no one was taking their m

Civil divorce and Syariah divorce have their differences. I had to go the Syariah route because we are Muslims so he felt it was unfair as he didn't know much about it. I told him he could engage a Muslim lawyer to help him understand better. He took.a civil lawyer instead and when the proceedi

He texted me and told me to wait for him and don't sleep first. I said ok. I went to the study room and waited for him. He came back pretty late into the morning and when he came home, we sat in the study room in silence. I asked him if he has anything to say. He finally confessed what he did.

I was 23 when I met my ex at work. We were both tutors in a tuition centre. He is 15 years older than me. After work, we would hang out together with other colleagues for supper and coffee and chat about work and after that, he would always offer to drive us home and he would drive me home last. I

Last year, I had a random conversation with my partner and he asked me what was the one thing I have not been able to do all these years and i told him that I haven't been able to do my degree. I got married in 2008, gave birth in 2009, separated in 2020, divorced in 2022. Finance was the t

I have always preferred homemade broths instead of store bought kinds or stock cubes. If you throw vege scraps while preparing your meals at home, STOP! Use them for broths! Wash the scraps clean and keep it in a silicon storage bag and just toss it in the freezer. Find a time u can make a pot

Hi I'm Xing and I will be documenting my #lifeinmyforties every now and then! I am a single mom, a psychology undergrad and an independent parent-child family mentor. I was an educator for over 20 years and with all that I have gained over the decades, I want to help other parents (new, experi