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👀 What is the first thing people look at when they see your face?

Research Response: Eyes! (But There's More Interesting)

Eye Tracking (Eye Movement Tracking) found that when we see other people's faces, the brain instructs the eye to look at the "golden triangle" on the face.

📐 what is the "golden triangle" on the face?

Interconnected areas:

1. Left eye

2. Right eye

3. Mouth

This area is where the brain is most focused on perceiving faces, because it is an important source of communication.

🔎 Data from the research.

Research from UC San Diego (2008)

❇ People tend to look a little below the eye or the center of the nose first.

❇ With two fixed points, you can recognize your face.

❇ More than two dots of trimming does not help to remember better

Research from PNAS (2012)

❇ The best position to recognize the face is a little under the eyes.

❇ If you look elsewhere, the ability to remember will be much reduced.

Cultural Comparative Research (2008)

Western people:

❇ Look at the eyes first and then at the mouth

East Asian people:

❇ Look at the middle of the face, the nose area, and sweep across the face.

ðŸ’Ą Why is the eye the most important?

1. Social information

❇ Tell emotions (glad, sad, angry)

❇ Tell intention (interested, bored)

❇ Tell me the direction of attention

2. Brain evolution

□ The human brain evolved to focus on the face, especially the eyes.

❇ Since babies, we will automatically stare at other people's eyes.

3. Non-verbal communication

❇ Eye contact = attention, trust

□ Iris size = attention, excitement

❇ Sight direction = Tell what the person is thinking

👁ïļ Big Eye vs Small Eye: Does it Really Affect Attraction?

The research answered clearly: Big eyes have the advantage!

Study from Scientific Reports (2025)

□ The eye is the part that best predicts attractiveness, superior to the rest of the face.

❇ When only the eyes are visible, people exaggerate the attractiveness of their entire face.

❇ Shows that the eye has the greatest influence on the judgment of attractiveness.

A Study from Frontiers in Psychology (2024)

Test for 15% enlarged eyes:

❇ Big eyes make emotions seem more intense → Others perceive emotions more clearly

□ Big eyes are more attractive than small eyes in every expression.

❇ But don't grow too big! If grown over 15%, it will look strange. Not attractive (Uncanny Valley)

Research from Asia (2023)

❇ Big eyes = important hallmarks of an attractive face

□ Asian women with big eyes have higher beauty scores.

❇ Eyes are associated with neoteny femininity (child trait = youthfulness)

Why do big eyes look attractive?

1. Evolutionary signals

❇ Big eyes = children = cute, youthful

❇ Caretaking behavior

❇ Linked to fertility signal

2. Clear communication

□ Big eyes show conspicuous emotion.

❇ Easy to read facial expressions → Create connections

❇ Seems open, transparent, approachable

3. Clearly visible

□ Big eyes prominent in the face

❇ Attracting attention early

□ Unforgettable

💋 Plumping Mouth: Attractiveness with "The Limit"

The latest research says: plump mouth fits well, but too plump becomes a penalty!

A study from the University of Sydney (2025) - just released on Feb 2026!

Interesting gender differences:

Man looking:

❇ Like the most natural size mouth

❇ Plump mouth from filler → looks unattractive

❇ A little thin mouth → Still okay

Woman looking:

❇ Prefer plump mouths than men

❇ Plump female mouth → attractive look

❇ Thin Mouth Men → Looking Good

Key findings:

"Women may plump their mouths for women together, rather than for men!"

□ Media, social, trends affect women's perspectives

Study from Plastic & Reconstructive Surgery (2025)

Golden Ratio of the Mouth:

❇ Best ratio: upper mouth: lower mouth = 0.618: 1 to 1: 1

❇ Plump mouth fit → attractive

□ Too plump mouth → unattractive. Look artificial.

Interesting information:

□ People who use social media often do not like plump mouths.

❇ Both many and few social viewers rated the filler mouth too low.

❇ Show that "nature" still wins!

Research from Scientific Reports (2023)

Hyaluronic Acid Filler Test:

❇ Thin Mouth Fill Filler → Looks More Attractive. Very

❇ Plump mouth already, and then fill again → more attractive, less or worse

□ There is a limit to plump that, if too, is not beautiful.

Conclusion: The secret of an attractive mouth.

✅ plump mouth fit → good

✅ Symmetry → very important.

✅ Cupid's Bow Clear (Curved Center Upper Mouth) → Attractive

✅ Bright lip color → Healthy looking

✅ Smooth, unbreakable skin → youthful look

âœĻ makes the eyes attractive?

1. Care for eye health

Bright eyes:

❇ Enough sleep (7-8 hours)

❇ Drink lots of water

❇ Eat Fruits and Vegetables with Vitamins A, C, E

❇ Avoid too much screen light

Swollen eyes / black eyes:

❇ Fix with cold water. Iced green tea

❇ Eye cream

❇ Rest your eyes often

2. Make your eyes look "grown"

Makeup Techniques:

❇ Eye angle highlights in → Bright eye, wider look

❇ Dark eyeliner only upper eye rim → deep look

❇ Lower eye rim uses light / flesh color → eyes look big

❇ Upper eyelash mascara → wide eyes

Lifestyle Techniques:

❇ Open eyes a little wide when taking pictures

❇ Raise a little eyebrow → eyes look big, clear

❇ Lighting fit → dilated iris, eyes look big

3. Eyelashes

❇ Beautiful touchy lashes make the eyes look prominent

❇ Use mascara to fit. Not clump.

❇ False eyelashes / eyelash extensions, enhancing prominence (but don't exceed it to look fake)

4. Eyebrow

❇ Neat eyebrows highlight the eyes

❇ Eyebrow fit for face

❇ Slightly high arched eyebrows → eyes look grown

5. Eye contact

According to the research:

❇ Eye contact fit = trustworthy

❇ Eye contact for too long = invasive, pressure

❇ No eye contact at all = ignore, no confidence

Tip:

❇ Eye contact 60-70% of the conversation time

□ If you feel uncomfortable, look at the nose cone (near the eyes).

❇ Smile a little while making eye contact → Friendly, Warm

💄 makes your mouth attractive?

1. Care for mouth health

Hydrating mouth:

❇ Drink lots of water

❇ Frequently apply lip balm

❇ Avoid licking your mouth often

❇ Gently scrub your mouth once a week

Bright mouth:

□ Eat fruits containing vitamins

❇ Avoid cigarettes

❇ UV Protection (Sunscreen Lip Balm)

2. Makeup technique

Make the mouth look plump in nature:

❇ Use lip liner to draw a slightly clearer line

❇ Highlight Middle Upper Mouth-Lower Mouth → Plump Look

❇ Use light color in the middle of the mouth. Dark lip color → Gradient Lip

❇ Choose Glossy Lipstick → Look Full

Cupid's Bow highlighted:

❇ Draw the liner that curves the upper mouth clearly

❇ Use edge blur concealer → See fine

3. Lip color

Attractive-looking colors:

❇ Natural Colors (Nude, Mauve, Light Pink)

□ Color that matches the skin tone

❇ Not too dark or soft

Avoid:

❇ Colors that make it look pale

❇ Dry lipstick

□ Too flashy color in everyday life

4. Filler - Be Careful!

According to the research:

❇ Fits people with very thin mouths

❇ Don't overfill → Look artificial

❇ Goal: Natural fit, not super plump

❇ People with plump mouths do not need to fill

ðŸŽŊ Things to avoid

For eyes:

❌ Very long false eyelashes → look exaggerated

❌ Eye contact, not flashing → scary

❌ Avoid eyes all the way → Not confident. Hide what?

❌ Black Eye / Swollen Eye → Looking Tired, Not Bright

❌ Red eyes → Not looking strong

For mouth:

❌ The dry mouth is broken. → Look, don't take care of yourself.

❌ greasy lipstick → botched look

❌ The color doesn't match the skin tone → looks pale or showy.

❌ The upper mouth is much bigger than the lower mouth → Inproportional.

📊 More information from the research.

Study from Scientific Reports (2023)

❇ In real life, people look at other people only 14% of the time.

❇ But when you look, the eyes are the first point and the longest look.

❇ There is a "T-shape" pattern = left eye-right eye-nose-mouth.

Differences between individuals

❇ Each person has a different way of looking at the other person's face.

❇ But everyone values the "Golden Triangle" the same.

Research from the Mayo Clinic (2025)

When assessing attractiveness:

❇ Men → staring at a woman's mouth

❇ Women → Staring at men's eyes and hair

💎 Summary

Eyes = Door to Mind

Not just empty words, but scientific truths! Big eyes have an advantage because:

□ Look young. Cute.

❇ Communicate emotions clearly

❇ Attracting attention early

❇ Build good connections

Mouth = fertility symbol

But must fit! From the research:

❇ Plump mouth fit → attractive

❇ Too plump mouth → unattractive

□ Symmetry. More important than size.

□ Nature also wins the trend.

The most important points:

Having bright, healthy eyes and proper eye contact, together with a well-groomed mouth, will give you a look:

❇ Trusting

□ Friendly

◆ Confident

❇ Interesting

Remember: People will remember the feeling of making eye contact with you and your smile rather than remembering how big your eyes are or how plump your mouth is! Confidence and balanced self-care are the most important things. ðŸ’Ŧ

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You treat people how to treat you #gettoknowme #friends #friendship #relationship
Mark Nichols

Mark Nichols

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A hand in a clear glove holds a wooden stick dripping dark purple wax into a wax pot. The image introduces how to prepare for a first Brazilian wax, advising consultation with healthcare professionals and wax specialists.
A list of Brazilian wax prep routine tips on a checkered background, including exfoliating, staying hydrated, hair length, not shaving, and using a tampon if on a menstrual cycle. A pink heart-shaped cake with 'GET WAXED' is visible.
A list of tips for trusting the Brazilian wax process on a checkered background, emphasizing researching specialists, asking questions, and taking breaks. A pink 'NO SHAVING ZONE' sign is at the bottom.
First Brazilian wax tips! âœĻðŸŦķ
Hi there! I’m a licensed CT esthetician and here’s your sign to get a Brazilian wax if you haven’t yet 😌 Also to note, please consult with your healthcare professional/dermatologist if you are any medications that might contraindicate with your skin. Also please refrain from using retinol when you
Edda Mora

Edda Mora

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An illustration contrasting 'WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE NEW' (a neat woman) versus 'WHAT YOU THINK YOU LOOK LIKE' (a disheveled woman with perceived flaws like crazy hair, booger, stains, and frowning, highlighting anxiety and overthinking about appearance).
HOW PEOPLE SEE YOU VS WHAT YOU THINK THEY SEE ðŸŦķ🏞
Your brain can play tricks on you causing you to overthink. Next time you meet or see someone new, focus on knowing you look fine and everything is all in your head. It’s time for some #selflove ladies!! I love this book on anxiety workbook I got off of Amazon. Look up “The Big Activity Book For
Caroline ðŸŦķ🏞

Caroline ðŸŦķ🏞

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I LANDED MY FIRST BIG GIRL JOB < 6 MONTH
I still can’t believe I was able to land my first big girl in less than 6 months of applying!!! Was it pure luck, magic, hard work, or a combination of all three? ðŸŒļ💕âœĻ now, I pass on EXACTLY what I did to land my job within 6 months. Right now, the average time candidates are experiencing before
Baki Izzat

Baki Izzat

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THINGS I DID NOT EXPECT WHEN GOING TO COLLEGE
okay okay okay, i could make this list way way longer but those were just a few. now let’s dive a bit deeper :) ðŸĐĩ cost of living i go to a school in pittsburgh so it’s a pretty big city & campus is in a really nice area. the cost of living in the city compared to back home is crazy!!
morgan

morgan

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A laptop screen displays a LinkedIn profile with an "Open to Work" banner, featuring Hannah Shirley. Overlaid text asks, "Does your LinkedIn 'Open to Work' banner make you look desperate?" The image is set against a blurred indoor background.
Text on a dark green background discusses mixed perceptions of LinkedIn's "Open to Work" banner, listing factors like fear of judgment and a competitive job market. A small plant in a white pot is visible on the right.
Text boxes overlaid on an image of a modern office building explain why publicly seeking a job does not make one look desperate. Reasons include societal understanding of vulnerability, proactive networking, and recruiter assistance.
Job seekers: You might look desperate doing this..
ðŸ—Ģïļ Spoiler alert: publicly discussing your active job search does NOT make you look desperate. That includes: - Making posts about being laid off, looking for work or your struggles around the job search. - Cold messaging people asking them to refer you for roles or connect you with others wh
hannah 💟

hannah 💟

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If you think people won’t like you read this!!
I literally cannot tell you the last time I walked into a room & thought, “they probably won’t like me.” At this stage, it’s a normal, programmed belief for me that when I meet people, they will probably like me! And if they don’t, that’s okay, because I still like me. #anxiety #th
S H A Y áĨŦá­Ą

S H A Y áĨŦá­Ą

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How I survived my first semester of college
As a former “gifted” kid, I never knew how to study. I never learned proper techniques, and would run myself into the ground in high school looking for academic validation. Here’s how I survived my first semester of college: 🏷ïļ Academics: 📝 The Pomodoro Study Method: I usually do th
abby ðŸŒē

abby ðŸŒē

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my first time annotating!
any tips for my first time annotating? i’m so excited to reread powerless! 💜💜 #annotatingbooks #books #bookwormsoflemon8 #reading #readingaesthetic #readersoflemon8 #booktok #bookstagram #readwithme #annotate
joline

joline

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A screenshot on a dark background displays a YouTube payment notification. It shows a payment of $268.95 received on May 21, 2024, for the earnings period of April 1 to April 30, 2024. The text 'My first YOUTUBE CHECK!!' is highlighted in pink.
First YouTube Check!!
I’m i’m very grateful for getting this far with this channel that I’ve made. Where I create skits, relatable fun Mom content and couples relatable . Just like any regular check you just wait a period time before you receive it. I wanted to update you on how the first payment process works.
Lizmarieugccreator

Lizmarieugccreator

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for the girls who think they don't have a voice ðŸ˜ķ
the no. one reason i procrastinated on making the content ‘I’ wanted to see was.. thinking i didn’t have anything valuable to say i have always felt like the odd one, constantly misunderstood and ashamed of being both of those, so much so, i’d shut down and those negative thoughts wo
R Y E S I A

R Y E S I A

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5 Signs You’re a People-Pleaser & How to Stop It
Let's be real-being kind is great, but when you're constantly bending over backward for others at your own expense, it's time to hit pause. Drop a 🙌 if you're done saying 'yes' to everyone but yourself! #setboundaries #wellnesstips #putyourselffirst #healthyboun
Alpha Queens Club

Alpha Queens Club

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What I wish I knew before my first big girl job
the career advice I wish I had gotten before I landed my first big girl job!!! ðŸ‘ĐðŸ―â€ðŸ’žðŸĪðŸ―âœĻ I know the job search process can be both exciting and horrifying at the same time, so here are three things I wish someone had told me before i landed my first big girl job! ðŸĪŦ 1. Always negotiate salary b
Baki Izzat

Baki Izzat

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why dead apps might be a good thing
i see people on here all the time talking about how this is a dead app and they can’t become an influencer or blow up, blah blah. personally i find this app super relaxing and lowkey, similar to pintrest or tumblr in it’s prime (some of you oldies might remember it lol) 1) lower stimulation apps
claudia

claudia

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A desk calendar for April 2024 is shown on a wooden desk with a Stanley cup and pen holder. The image has text overlays "Calendar Hacks" and "ADHD-Friendly," highlighting organization tips.
A close-up of a desk calendar for April 2024, featuring various stickers and handwritten notes. The text overlay "USE A DESK CALENDAR" emphasizes its benefits: "always visible" and "readily accessible."
A close-up of a desk calendar for April 2024, with a sticker book titled "amy tangerine" placed on it. The text overlay "USE PLANNER STICKERS!" suggests using them to "make it attractive," "make it fun!," and as "motivation to keep a cleaner desk."
This is the only thing that works for me!
ðŸ—ĢïļðŸ—ĢïļðŸ—Ģïļ DESK CALENDARS ðŸ—ĢïļðŸ—ĢïļðŸ—Ģïļ Let me preface by saying that YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL BAD if an organization hack doesn’t work for you!! You’re different than me!! But I spent years completely unorganized and drowning and forgetting everything until I tried this. 💚 Desk calendars do not require y
Liz ðŸŒļ💚☀ïļ

Liz ðŸŒļ💚☀ïļ

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An open Spanish textbook with a green sparkling water can on it, featuring text overlays "ONE WORD DIFFERENT LANGUAGE SWIPE" and "SPARKLING".
A hand holds a green sparkling water can over an open book, with text overlays indicating "WATER" and its most and least similar translations in other languages.
A hand holds an open book displaying large English words, with text overlays indicating "BOOK" and its most and least similar translations in other languages.
Same thing in 9 different languages
Different languages have different roots. You can usually tell when you find words (non-borrowed) that are similar in multiple languages. This post will include some that are the same, and not so much. I find these interesting, hope you do too! Here are the examples below: 1. Water
Study Seal

Study Seal

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What They Don't Tell You About Content Creation
I have been taking content creation seriously for about a year now, and there have been many misconceptions about creating content for social media that I've learned. I've seen the "How to go viral" posts, and "How to grow your account" posts and to be honest with you, wh
Voleer ♡

Voleer ♡

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BUILD MY FIRST CHARM BRACELET WITH ME 💎🍋
I’ve been thinking about starting a jewelry business, but I am trying to figure out what it is I want to do! I used to making friendship bracelets when I was younger and I remembered loving it! So I wanted to step it up and try my hand at charm bracelets! My original idea was “A Garden of Butter
lee ⭐ïļ

lee ⭐ïļ

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A spacious living room featuring a light-colored sectional sofa, a cat tree, and a large wall-mounted television. Two cats are visible on the floor, and the room has light-colored walls and a textured rug. The image includes a text overlay about a first luxury apartment.
A balcony with outdoor wicker seating, offering a view of a serene body of water surrounded by trees and lush greenery under a partly cloudy sky.
A deer stands gracefully in a grassy area near a reflective body of water, with a backdrop of various trees and foliage, showcasing the natural surroundings of the apartment.
My bf & I’s first luxury apartment at 20 + tips!
We love it here! One week in, we still need more decor but im satisfied for now. Florida 🧚🏞How can we afford & maintain this?🧚🏞 ðŸĶ‹we are both college students that work for $22+ an hour each and split the rent 50/50 which makes it so much cheaper. (He works in fraud prevention and I work
Day W

Day W

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The cover of the book 'Twisted Love' by Ana Huang, featuring the tagline 'HE HAS A HEART OF ICE...BUT FOR HER, HE'D BURN THE WORLD.' and text 'Worth the Hype'.
An open book displaying page 157 of 'Twisted Love', with highlighted text revealing an intense and possessive interaction between characters, including dialogue about desire and control.
An open book displaying page 158 of 'Twisted Love', with highlighted text continuing a dominant and possessive dialogue where one character claims ownership over another's body and soul.
Twisted love teaser DO NOT LOOK IF HAVENT READ‾ïļâ€žïļ
Alex - “when I’m not with her, I wish she were there. When I am with her. I want that moment to last forever” ðŸĨēðŸŦĒðŸĐ· Alex you gorgeous son of a gun😭ðŸ˜Đ I felt that and you ain’t even real!!😭 Ms, Ana why would you make me cryðŸĨē #embracevulnerability #springbreak #Lemon8Diary #shareyourthoug
Kaory Sorcia

Kaory Sorcia

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