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Lie for comfort. Who is comfortable? = Liar

/ / / A liar is the most comfortable person because he has protected himself from guilt or immediate consequences. Claiming to "lie for the other's comfort" is often just an excuse to reduce the difficulty of telling the truth, which actually results can be divided into two main points of view.

🪳: 1. The comfort of a "liar" (immediate).

Survive the crisis.

Not to confront anger, disappointment, or quarrel, then take control of the situation: feel self can temporarily maintain a good relationship or self-image, reduce guilt: Thinking "do it for the other" helps the liar not feel like he is mean.

🪳 2. The comfort of "people listening."

(It's just an illusion) Temporarily comfortable:

Listeners are happier on untruthful information than ever before: when the truth is revealed, trust is immediately destroyed and subjected to double pain, both from the hidden and the deceived.# Lie # Why lie # lemon 8 diary # Trending

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