Tips for your 20s🫶

As a girl who’s in the midst of her 20s & still learning, I’m going to give you some of my tips & tricks to surviving your 20s! (Because we all know it isn’t easy)

Life✨:

Learning to love myself is one of the hardest things I have ever done. With so much access to social media, it’s easy to get caught up in comparing yourself to others lifestyles, looks, etc. I’m guilty of it too. As much as I’d like to say that I love myself through & through, I would be lying. BUT.. what I have learned is to give myself grace and patience. Your mindset is your biggest enemy if you’re anything like me. Learn to practice gratitude every single day. Show up for YOURSELF. Build that confidence by challenging yourself by 1% every day.

Relationships🫶🏼:

I’ve had my fair share of situationships, let me tell ya. Especially with our generation, it is slim pickings!! I’ve noticed that everybody wants to give up when times get hard. Or that the grass is greener on the other side. But the grass is green where you water it🌷 Take care of your partner, prioritize your partner, put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Nobody is perfect, and your partner is going to have flaws of their own. But always make sure your cup is being filled, and you’re filling their cup. It’s an equal effort. I like to call people that drain your cup.. vampires. They will drain you. Stay away from these kind of people. Most importantly… take care of yourself.💕

Spirituality🙏🏼:

Everybody has their own beliefs. From my own experience, God has truly changed my life. Trusting in the lord & giving away my anxieties and worries to him, has truly been life changing. My faith has grown over the past couple of years.. and I can say that it has been the best decision of my life. When I have nobody to talk to.. when I’m all alone in my thoughts.. I turn to God. God is ALWAYS there to listen and welcome you with open arms. It used to make me very uncomfortable talking about religion, but believing in a higher power has transformed my life.

Mental Health🧠:

Struggling with your mental health at any age, can be debilitating. I have been there. Some days, I can’t even find the motivation to get out of bed to go to work. One of the biggest things I’ve learned about mental health, is that you’re not alone. I have struggled with anxiety & depression majority of my life. And it can be lonely. I have felt like a burden on many occasions because of my mental health. But there’s always light at the end of the tunnel. You never know what life has in store for you. Don’t give up. Take care of yourself the absolute best that you can. Give yourself grace. And never ever give up. Because you’re worth living this beautiful, crazy, amazing life.

If you got to the end of this, thank you. It is not easy to navigate your 20s. It is the most confusing time of your life. But you are NOT alone. Remember always, you are loved, thought of, and cared for. Let’s all stick together during this time of our lives❣️

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