949 followers

Follow

Follow

Follow

1/2

0 saved

3

1

* staying single has taught me..✨

1. Theres nothing wrong with creating space for personal growth.

2. I’m responsible for internalizing my shortcomings but also for figuring them out.

3. Happiness is what I choose

4. There’s no greater fulfillment than self love.

5. How to spend time with self.

6. Love is a choice not a cure.

7. Mental clarity and stability creates strong unbreakable boundaries.

8. Peace is better than a forced connection.

9. How to walk away.

👏🏽✌🏽😎

2025/11/23 Edited to

Staying single offers a unique opportunity to deeply understand oneself and cultivate personal growth without outside distractions. One of the most important lessons is that creating space for yourself is essential—not only for healing but also for evolving into your best self. This intentional solitude allows you to explore your strengths and acknowledge your shortcomings, becoming responsible for your own emotional development. Choosing happiness is a conscious decision that comes from within, not dependent on any relationship status. When you embrace self-love, you build an unshakeable foundation of fulfillment that no external validation can replace. Learning how to spend quality time with yourself nurtures this self-connection, helping you appreciate your own company as a source of joy. Understanding that love is a choice rather than a cure shifts the perspective from seeking a partner to fix problems to valuing healthy, supportive connections. Mental clarity and emotional stability play crucial roles here, enabling you to establish strong, unbreakable boundaries that protect your well-being. This stability makes it easier to reject forced or unhealthy relationships, prioritizing peace above all. Finally, knowing when and how to walk away from situations or relationships that no longer serve you is empowering. It's a testament to your self-respect and commitment to mental wellness. Overall, these lessons emphasize that staying single is not a state of loneliness but a powerful journey toward self-discovery, growth, and sustainable happiness.

1 comment

Related posts

Being single taught me how to love myself.

Now I’m just waiting for someone who knows how to love too #gettoknowme #singlewomen #singlegirl

170 likes

A woman with long dark hair and glasses, wearing a pinstriped blazer, takes a selfie. The image introduces the topic "10 Things God taught me this year."

A woman in a pinstriped suit sits on a couch, illustrating the text "The beauty of modesty" and finding true style, with yellow flowers in the background.

An overhead view of a table filled with various dishes like tacos, rice, guacamole, and chips, accompanying the text "The body is a temple" and advice on mindful eating.

10 Things God taught me this year!

I would love to hear what the Lord has taught you. Share your revelations below if you are led. #jesusisking #christian

77 likes

5 things the lord has taught me :)

As I’ve grown closer to the Lord, he has taught me many things. We gain His wisdom through prayer and reading the Word, and it guides our lives. The Lord has taught me so much these last couple of years and I can’t wait to continue to learn and grow 🤍 #christiangirl #christianmotivation

456 likes

Things God has taught me

Just wanted to share some few things that i’ve had to reflect on in this past season. So glad that God has allowed me to learn so much and i’m glad i get to share this with you all.🤍 #godsdaughter #godsgreatestgift #unfiltered #jesus #jesuschrist

72 likes

WHAT GOD HAS TAUGHT ME AFTER MY BAPTISM!

#Lemon8 #Lemon8Diary #christian #christiangirl #embracevulnerability #healthylifestyle2024 #unfiltered #jesus #jesuslovesyou #christianlifestyle

106 likes

An overhead view of people on grass, with a camera bag, a camera, and a person holding a purple flower. Text overlay reads "YOUR PASSIONS WILL BECOME MORE CLEAR," with an additional note about changing majors and God's timing.

A plate with scrambled eggs and English muffins topped with peanut butter and banana slices, next to an open Bible. Text overlay states "YOU NEED TO FUEL YOUR MIND AND BODY WELL!" with a note on self-care.

THINGS THAT COLLEGE HAS TAUGHT ME 🎓⭐️❤️

here are some of my takeaways from my experience in college so far. i hope you can something away from what i’m sharing, feel a little bit more inspired, or even just a little less nervous is your unsure about entering this season of life! leave some things you’ve learning in the comments, i’d l

305 likes

✨Day 23: Staying Strong (if you’re a single parent) ✨

Single parenting takes incredible strength—and God sees every sacrifice, every prayer, and every exhausted moment. 🤍 Ecclesiastes 4:12 reminds us that we were never meant to carry life alone. Even in seasons where parenting feels heavy, God remains your constant source of strength and support. 🌿

10 likes

A woman stands on a stone ledge overlooking a vast mountainous landscape with clouds and green terraces. She wears a black jacket, green skirt, and protective leg gear, embodying the theme of solo travel and self-discovery.

A woman stands on a sandy beach at sunset, facing the ocean with boats, illustrating comfort in solitude. The text emphasizes learning to love one's own company while traveling alone.

A woman stands in a doorway looking out at a lush bamboo forest, representing the courage to take risks. The text highlights trying new activities like zip-lining and meeting strangers during solo travel.

what solo travel has taught me about myself✈️

Solo travel has absolutely changed my life, and I’ve learned so much about myself through it. I absolutely recommend it to anyone. Here are just a few things it has taught me! 1. Comfort in solitude 2. Courage to take risks 3. Appreciating uncertainty If you’re interested in learning mo

22 likes

A hand holds the black cover of the book 'the tears that taught me' by Morgan Richard Olivier, featuring a white leaf design. A lit candle and decorative items are visible in the soft-lit background.

An open page from 'the tears that taught me' displays text about protecting one's peace and recognizing that no one is owed access or power over you.

An open page from 'the tears that taught me' by Morgan Richard Olivier discusses listening to and supporting others in pain without offering unsolicited advice.

The tears that taught me 📖

The tears that taught me by Morgan Oliver ❤️ #bookwormsoflemon8 #booksoflemon8 #books #book #poetry

1168 likes

A laptop screen displays the Wasabi website's 'Materials: Self-Learning Japanese' page, offering resources for independent Japanese study, with a blurred background of a room and Christmas tree. An overlay reads 'when you want to learn JAPANESE on your own'.

The Wasabi website on a laptop screen shows 'Wasabi's Online Grammar Reference' and 'Japanese Grammar with Instantaneous Composition Method' for self-learners. A Maneki-neko illustration is visible, and an overlay states 'access self-learning materials on the Wasabi Learn Japanese platform'.

A laptop screen displays Wasabi's 'Read-Aloud Method with Easy Japanese' and 'Read-Aloud Method with Radio Programs' sections, featuring illustrations of children and a radio. An overlay reads 'free reading, writing, and audio materials + additional tools to help you study efficiently'.

FREE self-taught Japanese online

As always, Japanese always has the most organized and comprehensive online lessons than any other language that I have seen. on Wasabi Japanese Lessons, navigate to Self-Learning Japanese and there you will find all the materials you need whether you want to read or listen, while also having access

219 likes

What Being 25 Has Taught Me

I love reflecting and being self-aware! Being in this realm for 25 years has taught me: 💭My prefrontal cortex has fully developed. 🧠 💭Therapy is a blessing! 💭 Making new friends as an adult is HARD! 💭 My goal isn’t to be married, have kids, or be a homeowner right now and that’s OKAY. 💭

253 likes

A smiling woman with dark curly hair and earrings, wearing a black t-shirt, with text overlay 'Things God has taught me through parenting ABOUT Double-Mindedness'.

Text on an orange background defines double-mindedness as being torn between two masters, beliefs, or ways of thinking, quoting James 1:8 AMP about being unstable.

Text on an orange background explains double-mindedness through an analogy: a child receiving conflicting commands from parents, leading to confusion and instability.

Things God has taught me through PARENTING 🧡👶🏽

He allowed me to see visually how double-mindedness can look in us by highlighting the moments my child may receive an instruction from their dad, and at the same time receive an instruction from me. I saw a visual confusion in my child that convicted me in 1) giving instruction against her father’

22 likes

The Real Skills I Wish They Taught in School

When I started college, I thought acing exams and turning in assignments on time was enough. But real success came when I learned skills they never taught in class — like managing my time, networking with professors, and staying disciplined even when motivation was low. It wasn’t easy at first.

30 likes

Being single taught me that it's ok to be single

#singleandstillhopeful #atpeacewithmyself

0 likes

A serene beach scene at sunset with gentle waves, sand, and boats in the distance. The text overlay reads: "5 THINGS THE SEA TAUGHT ME."

A rocky shoreline with waves crashing against the rocks and a sandy beach in the background. The text overlay states: "Lesson #1: Patience Wins Every Time."

A shallow river or stream with a line of rocks forming a path. The text overlay reads: "Lesson #2: Flow>Force. The current always knows where it's going."

Things the Sea Has Taught Me🌊

There’s something about the sea that humbles you without trying. It doesn’t yell. It doesn’t rush. It just is. These are the 5 things the ocean taught me—quiet truths I try to carry on land. Let me know which one you needed to hear today. Save this for when the world feels too loud. #thegr

30 likes

A white birthday cake with purple icing that reads "old enough for you and your daddy". The cake is decorated with purple and gold sprinkles and white frosting swirls. Overlay text says "Cheers To 35 years" with champagne glass emojis, celebrating a 35th birthday.

What 35 years around the sun has taught me ☀️✨

Im walking into my 35th year peaceful, and with much gratitude, wisdom, and grace. 🧘🏾‍♀️I feel like I’ve finally culminated into exactly who I’m supposed to be. I used to dread hitting my mid 30s 😩. If I can offer advice for anyone younger than me, it would be to… ✨Never sacrifice your peace

3 likes

A woman with dark hair and sunglasses squats against a stone wall, wearing a black babydoll dress, fishnet tights, and black platform boots, with a red shoulder bag. Text overlay reads 'ELDER EMO OOTD'.

A woman with dark hair squats against a stone wall, looking down. She wears a black babydoll dress, fishnet tights, black platform boots, and carries a red shoulder bag.

A woman with dark hair and sunglasses poses against a stone wall, lifting one leg to show her black platform boots and fishnet tights. She wears a black babydoll dress and carries a red shoulder bag.

Thrifted alt OOTD & 6 lessons Hawaii has taught me

6 lessons Hawaii has taught me: ✖️ Slow tf down. ✖️ Be content doing nothing. ✖️ Be happy with less. ✖️ Be grateful for what you already have. ✖️ You have everything you need. ✖️ Do whatever brings you joy. I know we all say these are values we hold, but how many of us actually practice

213 likes

A person in a white robe sits on a wooden chair, looking at a lake and trees, with a bowl of berries on a table. The title 'The Financial Benefits of Staying Single' is overlaid.

Over a serene landscape with a person on a chair, text boxes describe 'Living with Parents' and 'House Hacking' as financial benefits of being single.

A hand holds a champagne flute at a table setting. Overlaid text boxes detail 'Communal Living' and 'No Judgment Dinners' as financial perks of being single.

The Financial Benefits of Staying Single

Let's explore the financial perks of flying solo. Being single isn't just about swiping left or right—it can also boost your bank account. Here are some friendly insights tailored for the 20 to 30-year-olds who are rocking the single life: Disclaimer: These tips are for fun and inspirati

38 likes

A woman in an olive green ribbed dress and colorful heels sits at a counter, with the title "I Decided To Dress Better Regardless Of My Size Here's What I've Learnt" overlaid.

A woman in an olive green ribbed dress and colorful heels sits at a counter, with the text "1. Wearing baggy clothes, hides nothing!" overlaid.

A woman in an olive green ribbed dress and colorful heels sits at a counter, with the text "2. Black is not the only colour you can wear for a slimmer appearance." overlaid.

What Dressing My Body Size Has Taught Me

We won’t always have the body we want overnight especially if you losing some weight is your goal, but we can learn to love and dress the body we currently have until we achieve our desired body size. Personally, I decided to dress my body size and these are some things I’ve learnt; 1. Wearing

1036 likes

What 2023 taught me ✨🫶🦋

Let's talk about comparison. Comparing ourselves to others, their progress, their journey, and their experience is detrimental to our mind, body and soul. What makes you think that someone else has had the same journey as you? And what makes you think you can give another soul the power to judg

10 likes

Obedience Didn’t Look Like What I Was Taught

I used to wear the title of “wife” with pride. Not because anything was healthy or whole—but because I believed holding the position meant I was doing the right thing. I thought keeping the peace, staying agreeable, and enduring quietly was how a faithful woman honored her vows. But over time

156 likes

Everything turning 30 taught me

I was sooo nervous turning 30. I thought everything was gonna change. I felt so old 😭 And it really wasn’t like that. 30 opened my eyes to a lot. A literal lightbulb went off in my head and I felt like I woke up. Here are some things I learned: -If you have good parents, cherish them; life i

76 likes

Three smiling young women in white dresses pose together, with the overlaid text 'WHAT BEING IN A SORORITY IN COLLEGE TAUGHT ME', highlighting the overall theme of sorority experiences.

Three smiling young women wear white Delta Gamma tank tops and striped bottoms, illustrating 'The Power of Sisterhood' and supporting each other through thick and thin.

Four young women in white outfits pose on outdoor stairs, some holding phones, representing 'Leadership Skills' learned through taking initiative in a sorority.

WHAT BEING IN A SORORITY IN COLLEGE TAUGHT ME 🌸

Being in a sorority has truly shaped my entire college experience! From forming lifelong friendships to learning the importance of leadership, community, and giving back, it’s been such a rewarding journey. The sisterhood, the hard work, and the connections have made these last two years unforgetta

318 likes

What my fitness journey has taught me

#lifting 💪🏼 #embracevulnerability #christiangirlies #blackgirlcreator #blackgirllifestyle #christianwomen #christianlifestyle #liftingmotivation #mindsetiseverything #Lemon8Diary

15 likes

5 thing college HAS TAUGHT ME

As I’m wrapping up my sophomore year in college, I’ve learned a lot of things over the past two years. Stress is normal in college. Learning how to manage time is essential for college and your future. Don’t forget to have fun while you’re in college. Change is OK and lots of times we change our pl

37 likes

the best things therapy has taught me

i've been in therapy for 3.5 years now and it has changed my life. it has made me the biggest advocate for mental health care and increasing the accessibility of therapy. i would not be who i am today if it weren't for my therapist so! these are a few of the biggest lessons i've l

48 likes

Bible Study With Me🌿✝️

“Remain in me, and I will remain in you.” — John 15:4, NLT This verse has been sitting heavy on my heart. I had to pause and ask: What does it really mean for me to remain in Jesus every single day? It means staying faithful and worshipping even when I’m having the worst day or feeling a

38 likes

what solo traveling has taught me about myself 2

Solo traveling has taught me SO much more about my personal growth than school ever could. I recommend it to anyone who wants to try it, and even to those who are unsure about it. It truly gives you so much insight on who you are as a person. Though solo travel I’ve learned things like: 1. There

50 likes

What running on the treadmill has taught me🛣️✨👟

The treadmill. Everyone hates it. It’s boring, long, and nobody wants to use it! Treadmills are super convenient for when you don’t have time to go outside & run or find a safe trail. After running thousands of miles on the treadmill here’s everything it has taught me✨ Discipline over motiva

96 likes

A man proposes to a surprised woman with a red gift box against an orange background. Text overlays read "Marriage with Purpose" and "LESSONS GOD HAS TAUGHT ME ABOUT MARRIAGE," indicating the article's theme.

A couple reviews documents and uses a calculator at a table, symbolizing unity and partnership. The text overlay states, "Marriage is about unity and building God's Kingdom," aligning with the article's focus on purpose-driven marriage.

A smiling couple sits at an outdoor cafe, with the man's arm around the woman. The text overlay explains that "Building the Kingdom" through marriage involves raising children, starting ministries, and creating Kingdom businesses.

Lessons God has Taught me about Marriage

After being in an unequally yoked realtionship, I began to ask God, “How did I get here”? I thought for sure that I was on the right track with waiting until marriage and weeding out the guys who weren’t trying to be serious, but guess what… pride comes before the fall and boy did I fall. I’m o

11 likes

What Therapy Has Taught Me

I have had only three sessions and I have learned so much. I am constantly thinking and finding new things about myself. The soul has a HUGE part to play in our Christian walk and our relationship with God. These are just some of the tid-bits I have gathered already. I am sure there will be many

6 likes

A young woman with long, wavy brown hair and light blue nail polish looks to the left, wearing a light blue hoodie. The image has a text overlay that reads "Ways to stay in touch with your Feminine Side."

Staying in Touch With Your Feminine Side

💗YOU💗 Keeping up with your physical appearance can seem like a chore, but if you make it about YOU it can be fun! I love to take “EVERYTHING” showers once a week, this included exfoliating, shaving, taking a bath, hair masks, etc. It is my FAVORITE time of the week. I have a 🍃sesh beforehand &

3021 likes

Textbook Tips That A Math Major Taught Me!

Whenever I feel lost reading from a textbook, I use these strategies and it instantly get's easier! Stick to One Textbook: Avoid the urge to switch between books. Sticking with one source builds consistency and keeps you focused on the material assigned. Skim Each Section First: Get a big

73 likes

A book page displays "THE TEN RULES OF SUCCESS" highlighted in pink, with several rules like "Definiteness of Purpose" and "Master-Mind Alliance" underlined in various colors. A snowflake icon and "Lemon8" watermark are at the bottom left, with a bookshelf in the background.

The man who taught millions how to success.

#Lemon8 #lemon8bookclub #Lemon8Diary #travelwithme2024 #lemon8creator

154 likes

A woman stands on a rooftop parking lot at dusk, with text overlay "things fitness taught me" and "4 take aways," introducing the article's fitness lessons.

A hand holds an acai bowl from "NORTH SHORE Cafe" with fruit toppings, illustrating the lesson about enjoying food for sustainable results.

A man and woman pose in a gym with artificial turf and equipment, illustrating the benefit of having a workout or accountability partner.

Important lessons fitness taught me

Fitness has taught me so much but 3 major take aways have been... 1) eating foods you enjoy and avoiding restriction will benefit you more in the long run and will provide more sustainable results 2) Having a workout partner can help you push yourself. You don't necessarily need to workou

20 likes

What Life has Taught me Lately 🗣️

Life is Hard & sometimes we get so caught up in the moment. It’s okay to take a step back just to breathe and enjoy the present Your life isn’t over it going to be okay. Everything will work out 💕. You will be just fine ☀️☀️☀️ #lately #embracevulnerability #Lemon8Diary #life

8 likes

A close-up of an open book page displays the title 'the tears that taught me' at the top. Below, a quote reads: 'My expectations, ignorance, and imagination have hurt me more than any human ever has.' A Lemon8 watermark with username is visible at the bottom left.

the tears that taught me

This book is a must read… #bookshelf #tbrlist #healingjourney

205 likes

Life Lessons My Service Dog Prospect Taught Me

Life lessons can come from the most unexpected places—even a dog in training. Vex has changed the way I see the world, and I’m forever grateful for her. 🐾 What’s the best lesson your furry friend has taught you? #dogsoflemon8 #servicedog #vexingwithvex #beauceron #Lemon8Diary

46 likes

School Has Not Taught You This

#businessfunding #shareyourthoughts

14 likes

See more