Automatically translated.View original post

Alone to get used to

In the heart of people, it hurts.

Therefore changed to the beard

2025/9/21 Edited to

... Read moreการอยู่คนเดียวอาจจะเป็นเรื่องท้าทายในช่วงแรก แต่หากปรับตัวได้ จะพบว่ามันช่วยให้เราเรียนรู้ที่จะรักและดูแลตัวเองได้ดีขึ้น การใช้เวลาว่างไปกับกิจกรรมสร้างสรรค์ เช่น การเข้าร่วมเวิร์คช็อปเพ้นท์ติ้งหรือวาดรูปบนผ้าใบแคนวาส เป็นวิธีที่ดีในการปลดปล่อยความคิดสร้างสรรค์และเพิ่มความมั่นใจในตัวเอง การเข้าร่วมกิจกรรมเหล่านี้ไม่ได้เพียงแค่ทำให้เราได้ฝึกทักษะใหม่ ๆ เท่านั้น แต่ยังช่วยให้พบปะผู้คนที่มีความสนใจคล้ายกัน สร้างเครือข่ายสังคมในแบบที่เราสบายใจได้อีกด้วย นอกจากนั้น การเปลี่ยนแปลงจากการเจ็บปวดในอดีต เช่น การไว้ใจคนผิด ก็สามารถนำไปสู่ความเข้มแข็งทางจิตใจ การไว้หนวดเคราเป็นสัญลักษณ์ของการเปลี่ยนแปลงและการยอมรับตัวเองอีกวิธีหนึ่ง การดูแลตัวเองทั้งทางกายและใจ เป็นหัวใจสำคัญที่ช่วยให้เรามีความสุขแม้ในช่วงเวลาที่ต้องอยู่คนเดียว สุดท้าย การเข้าใจและยอมรับความรู้สึก เจ็บปวด เป็นสิ่งที่ช่วยเปิดโอกาสให้เราได้เรียนรู้และเติบโตขึ้น และเมื่อเราพร้อม การเปิดใจใหม่ก็ไม่ใช่เรื่องไกลตัวอีกต่อไป

Related posts

A person with long braids and a headscarf stands at a city crosswalk, looking towards a park, with the title 'HOBBIES TO START ALONE' overlaid, setting the scene for solo activities.
A woman in athletic wear sits on a Pilates reformer machine in a studio, taking a selfie, illustrating the hobby of joining a Pilates class.
A woman with dreadlocks, wearing an apron, is intently working with clay on a pottery wheel, demonstrating the hobby of taking a pottery class.
Hobbies to start ALONE
1. Join a Pilates class. There are many places that offer the first class free. 2. Take a pottery class. I know it sounds scary but take your time and wear something comfortable. 3. Start knitting. It won’t be easy at first but watch YouTube tutorials or TikTok videos. Also, you can buy afforda
Kierralemons99$

Kierralemons99$

12.3K likes

🌸 Learn to be alone🌸
I’m gonna keep it short, learning to be alone is a must. #becomingher #journalprompts #selflove #chooseyourself
Come Grow With Me🪻

Come Grow With Me🪻

47 likes

things that used to be normal…
It’s honestly crazy when you think about it. The things people now pay extra for, fight to maintain, or label as “healthy living” used to just be… normal life. Fresh food. Playing outside. Home cooked meals. Knowing your neighbors. Eating dinner together. Less chemicals. Less screens.
joelle 💕

joelle 💕

516 likes

A tablet on a stand displays the Mathigon Polypad website, featuring interactive math tools and activities. A pink and white keyboard is in the foreground, illustrating a student's study setup.
A tablet displays the Scite.ai website, an AI research assistant. The screen shows options to ask questions and summarize research, highlighting its utility for writing papers and citing sources.
A tablet displays the Cymath.com website, a math problem solver. The screen shows an input field for problems and options to choose topics, emphasizing its step-by-step explanations for algebra and calculus.
I used these instead of pulling all-nighters ✨
No all-nighters. No burnout. No last-minute panic. This semester was my busiest yet, but somehow…I made it out with a 4.0 GPA. And no, it wasn’t because I studied 24/7 or drank six coffees a day. The real reason? I leaned on 10 underrated websites that quietly carried me through every assignment,
Byaombe •••

Byaombe •••

4789 likes

Sometimes you get so used to being alone that your besties with the sky
#sky pics!🎀
Lemon8er

Lemon8er

2 likes

How I Learned To Enjoy Being Home Alone
There was a time when being home alone made me uneasy..the silence felt too loud, and I didn’t know how to just be with myself. But slowly, I started treating my alone time as something sacred instead of something scary. I began lighting candles, brewing tea, cleaning at my own pace, and noticin
Cianah Monaa

Cianah Monaa

58 likes

Creepy Halloween Movies to Watch Alone
1. Evil Dead, 2013 ⭐Rate: 7/10 🎬Review: We seem to be in a time where the remakes of remakes will be remade, even films like Cabin Fever aren't remaining sacred, the obligatory remake follows. Evil Dead now is a remake with a bit of bite, of course it has every possible cliche under the su
Lily Brown

Lily Brown

27 likes

Little Things I Do When I’m Alone
Being alone used to feel empty. Now it feels like a love story I get to write every day. 🌷 What’s something you do just for you? #embracevulnerability #romanticizeyourlife #coquette #Lemon8Diary #Lemon8
haley baley ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

haley baley ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

196 likes

Everything we used to potty train our toddler! 🚽🧻🤍
Starting potty training soon? Or if you're in the middle of it... save this 🙌🏼🤞🏼you’re not alone! Every child is different & moves at their own pace! What age did your toddler start potty training?? & the real question… when were they FULLY potty trained? 😅 For us personally, my
HK | SAHM Toddler & Home Finds

HK | SAHM Toddler & Home Finds

86 likes

A person in bed, wearing a red light therapy mask and reading a book titled "powerful," illustrating how they learned to enjoy being home alone.
A bathroom sink with skincare products, a glass of water, and a toothbrush, representing a sacred ritual for getting ready for the day or bed.
A person holding a plate with a nourishing meal of salmon, roasted vegetables, and rice, prepared in a kitchen setting.
Do you enjoy being home alone?🥹
I used to hate being home alone. I would feel scared and uncomfortable in my own thoughts so I’d do anything to keep myself busy or distracted! But over the last year living alone I slowly learned how to actually enjoy my own company 🤍 i did that by making routines that I really enjoyed and that
rachel

rachel

68 likes

How I Learned to Love Being Alone 💛
Let’s be real—being alone can feel awkward or even lonely at first, especially when we’re so used to constant noise, people, or distractions. But learning to enjoy my own company turned out to be one of the most empowering things I’ve ever done. Here’s how I made peace with solitude and actually st
Joy 📚

Joy 📚

179 likes

Weird things adhd girlsdo alone👀
#adhd
myADHDJourney

myADHDJourney

103 likes

How not to feel so alone 🦋
I know I haven’t posted in a while and I’m sorry if you were hoping for more spicy book recommendations, but sadly, that is not the case. My partner and I have recently found out that my mother in law has stage four pancreatic cancer. She has been in and out of the hospital the past month or so and
sillygooseontheloose

sillygooseontheloose

50 likes

things to do alone 🍵🌿
i used to be so dependent on other people, feeling depressed whenever i was alone but i have recently found peace in it. of course sometimes it is still hard dealing with fomo but i love doing things alone and like to get to know myself better! 🍒🎀 . . . #peaceful #summer #alonetime #Love
hannah banana 🍌

hannah banana 🍌

6 likes

The Nature of Being Alone: Get Used To It
Feeling alone doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It means you’re on a unique path designed by God. In this season, stay focused and trust Him to unlock your highest potential. 💪🙏 #G3XFitness #GodGymGrind #FaithFitnessJourney #UnlockPotential #StayGrinding
G3X FITNESS®

G3X FITNESS®

1 like

You’re not too much. You’re used to performing 💖
You’re not too much. You’re just too used to performing for love that never really saw you. People don’t change because of Instagram quotes. They change when their pain finally screams louder than their performance. Let me be honest with you. I didn’t start healing just because I saw a qu
Ania Halama | Holistic Mentor✨

Ania Halama | Holistic Mentor✨

6 likes

The back of a person with long, straight, dark hair, with text overlay "PRODUCTS I USED TO Grow my Hair" on a black t-shirt. A Lemon8 watermark is visible.
A bottle of "WILD GROWTH Hair Oil" with product details on the label. Text below indicates "10K+ bought in past month" and options for different pack sizes.
An image showing bowls of rice and rice water, with text "7 Benefits of Rice Water For Skin – Minimalist". Below are thumbnails related to rice water for hair.
Products I used to grow my hair 🌸
✨THE KEY TO GROWING OUT YOUR HAIR IS LOW MANIPULATION✨ I cut my hair in 2017, and it was ear length. I oiled my hair twice a week and kept my hair in a protective styles! Once I took out the style, I would use rice water as a prepoo treatment. I didn’t play with it as much, I left my hair alone
manimuse 🎀

manimuse 🎀

1035 likes

I used to journal to figure things out.
To solve problems. To fix myself. To find answers. But somewhere along the way, the page became something else. Not a place for solutions. A place for company. A quiet space where thoughts can wander and feelings don’t have to make sense. Sometimes you’re not writing to figure everyt
Hannah | journal coach

Hannah | journal coach

36 likes

5 signs you’re not fine you just got used to it
#depressed #sad #mentalhealthawareness
WhyYouFeelLikeCrap

WhyYouFeelLikeCrap

2940 likes

These Karen's need to leave people TF alone
These Karen's need to leave people TF alone #spongebob #comedy #funny #karen #nostalgia
GabesCorner1995

GabesCorner1995

178 likes

How I Learned to Enjoy Being Home Alone
I grew up in a big family. I used to have someone be with me at any time. Even after I got married, my husband and I spent almost every minute together until we encouraged each other to spend some time alone or with your own friends. At the beginning, I felt uncomfortable and was nervous by mys
JustbeJune

JustbeJune

13 likes

A young woman wearing yellow sunglasses in a car, with text overlay asking 'STUDYING ALONE VS STUDYING WITH FRIENDS What's Better?' The image introduces the topic of comparing study methods.
A graphic detailing the pros and cons of 'STUDYING ALONE'. Pros include fewer distractions and learning at one's own pace, while cons mention feeling lonely and difficulty staying motivated.
A graphic detailing the pros and cons of 'STUDYING WITH FRIENDS'. Pros include better memory through explanation and increased motivation, while cons highlight potential distractions and over-reliance on others.
Study Alone vs. Study With Friends: My Experience
I used to think studying with friends was always better — it sounded fun and motivating. But after trying both methods, I realized it really depends on the goal 😅. When I study alone, I can focus completely and go at my own pace. I notice I retain more when I’m in my own zone, especially for re
Kaylin Do

Kaylin Do

24 likes

A place I used to call home
I’m angry Not because I’m spoiled. Not because I’m entitled. Because I’m robbed of something so special. I want to return to you, explore you, experience your excitement but I can’t. So much has happened there I don’t feel like I know if I could ever return to you or look at you the same.
blackintrovert

blackintrovert

9 likes

Scary Movies You Shouldn't Watch Alone
1. The Battery, 2012 ⭐Rate: 7/10 🎬Review: Ben (the director, Jeremy Gardner) & Mickey (Adam Cronheim) are two ex pro baseball players who are eking out an existence while wandering a zombie infested America. Ben is nomadic and doesn't like staying in one place for too long, while Mickey l
Amanda Leigh

Amanda Leigh

1169 likes

A bedroom with a white headboard, dark bedding, and a wall outlet featuring a soft orange night light, illustrating the use of gentle illumination for a calm night.
A white door secured with a door stopper bar, emphasizing a lock-up routine for peace of mind and enhanced security before bedtime.
A hand holding a scented candle, surrounded by other candles on shelves, representing the use of soft lighting to create a calm and cozy evening atmosphere.
How I Sleep Better Living Alone 🌙
When I first started living alone, nighttime was the hardest. I’d overthink every little sound, triple-check the locks, and still lie awake wondering “what if?” Over time, I created a night routine that’s not just about skincare or winding down, it’s about feeling safe, calm, and grounded before
Cianah Monaa

Cianah Monaa

418 likes

I used to think consistency alone would pay me.⤵️
I used to think consistency alone would pay me. I showed up daily. I stayed consistent. But consistency without structure doesn’t create income. Systems do. Follow for simple strategies that remove guesswork. ✨Make sure to follow @laarnitanonlinebiz for proven digital marketing strateg
Laarni Tan | Make Money Online

Laarni Tan | Make Money Online

1 like

A light pink title slide with glowing pink heart outlines and sparkles, featuring the text 'Romantic Little Things I Do When I'm Alone' and 'for the soft girl who enjoys her own company'.
A light pink slide with text stating 'Alone time used to feel empty... now I see it as sacred. These are the little romantic rituals that make my alone time feel full of magic.', framed by decorative ribbon bows.
A light pink slide with text 'Sprtizing perfume before bed' and 'It makes even silence feel like a love letter.', accompanied by a line drawing of a perfume bottle.
Romantic Little Things I Do When I’m Alone🎀
Being alone doesn’t mean you have to feel lonely. It can be soft, sacred, and full of little rituals that feel like love notes to your soul. These are the ways I romanticize my alone time. And now, I crave it. What are some ways you take advantage of alone time? Save this if you’re l
haley baley ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

haley baley ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

70 likes

A person stands in a backyard with pink bougainvillea flowers, with text overlay "GIRL TALK Living alone in your 20s My experience," introducing the topic of the post.
A person gives a thumbs-up gesture, with text describing the challenges of adapting to living alone, including dealing with spiders and household chores.
A wooden oval dining table with four chairs covered in blue and white patterned fabric, captioned as the only furniture in the author's first apartment.
Living alone in my 20’s
For me living alone was really challenging. I lived completely by myself for a year when I was 20- no roommate just me. Going from living with my entire family to just myself was such a hard adjustment for me. I cried every single day for a few months & I was so fearful of something happening t
Anjilia G

Anjilia G

261 likes

A hand holds a white pill next to a prescription bottle for Alprazolam 2 MG, with overlay text discussing feeling ashamed for taking anxiety medication.
A hand holds a prescription bottle for Alprazolam 2 MG, with overlay text expressing guilt and hiding the medication due to perceived weakness.
A hand holds a prescription bottle, with overlay text stating that taking care of one's mind with medication deserves the same compassion as physical health.
I used to feel ashamed for taking alprazolam.. ❤️‍🩹
For the longest time, I felt embarrassed to take my alprazolam. I’d hide it or downplay it like it wasn’t a big deal because I didn’t want to be judged. Society makes it seem like needing medication for your mind is something to be ashamed of — but it’s not. Once I started reframing it as self-c
Caroline 🫶🏼

Caroline 🫶🏼

90 likes

I’m used to doing everything alone
I used to think being independent was my biggest flex — now I wonder if it’s just a coping mechanism. Growing up, I learned not to rely on anyone because disappointment always followed. Now I struggle to accept help, even when I’m breaking down. I don’t ask for support; I just overwork myself and c
therealmichellew

therealmichellew

9 likes

How I’ve Been Romanticizing My Alone Time
Alone time used to make me uncomfortable. Like I had to fill the silence or find something to do. Lately, it’s become my favorite kind of peace. I’ve been learning to enjoy slow mornings with myself, quiet evenings without distraction, and moments that don’t need to be shared to be special. 🌙
haley baley ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

haley baley ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

35 likes

See more