Automatically translated.View original post

Thoughts in their 30s. 💭

🍃, what I just understood... at 30 +

30 + years old, to begin to understand...

✅ we don't have to be good at everything. Just know what's important in life.

✅ self-care is not a luxury, but a necessity.

🏡 a break doesn't mean lazy, it's a power charge.

🤘🏻 people who are comfortable. More important than those who look good in other people's eyes.

🩵 happiness doesn't have to be great. Just wake up and don't get tired.

🌱 grow up, choose to live a lighter life.

Choose people, choose things, choose time... for your own heart.

What about yours?

Is there anything you just understand at 30 +? 💬

# 30 plus # Take care of yourself # Grow together # Simple life # Lemon 8TH# AunGarden

1/31 Edited to

... Read moreในวัย 30+ หลายคนเริ่มสัมผัสถึงความเปลี่ยนแปลงทั้งทางกายใจและทัศนคติในการใช้ชีวิต ที่ผมอยากแชร์คือประสบการณ์ที่เห็นว่าการรู้จักจัดลำดับความสำคัญของชีวิตนั้นมีผลมากกว่าการพยายามทำทุกอย่างให้เก่งไปหมด การดูแลตัวเองไม่ได้เป็นแค่คำพูดที่ฟังดูดี แต่เป็นสิ่งจำเป็นที่จะช่วยให้เรารับมือกับความเครียดและความท้าทายในชีวิตประจำวันได้ดีขึ้น การพักผ่อนอย่างแท้จริงไม่ใช่แค่การหยุดทำงานเท่านั้น แต่เป็นช่วงเวลาที่เราได้ชาร์จพลัง ช่วยส่งเสริมให้ร่างกายและจิตใจฟื้นฟูอย่างเต็มที่ กลับมาพร้อมแรงจูงใจใหม่ๆ ในการพัฒนาตัวเอง นอกจากนี้ การเลือกคนที่อยู่ด้วยแล้วรู้สึกสบายใจแทนที่จะยึดติดกับภาพลักษณ์ภายนอกหรือคำชมจากคนอื่น ก็นำมาซึ่งความสุขเล็กๆ ที่มีความหมายอย่างยิ่ง จากการสังเกตพบว่าการใช้ชีวิตอย่างเรียบง่าย มีการคัดกรองสิ่งที่เข้ามาในชีวิต เช่น การเลือกใช้เวลา เลือกของที่ใช้ และคนรอบข้าง นอกจากช่วยลดความวุ่นวายแล้วยังทำให้รู้สึกสงบและเต็มไปด้วยพลังบวกมากขึ้น สำหรับผู้ที่สนใจในเรื่องการสร้างรายได้และพัฒนาตนเองผ่านแพลตฟอร์มออนไลน์ อย่าง TikTok การเรียนรู้วิธีการสร้างยอดขายในรูปแบบง่ายๆ ที่เสริมความเข้าใจด้านการทำแบรนด์และการขายก็เป็นอีกแนวทางหนึ่งที่น่าสนใจ ถึงแม้จะดูแตกต่างจากบทเรียนเรื่องการดูแลตัวเอง แต่ก็ช่วยให้เข้าใจได้ว่าการพัฒนาทักษะในด้านต่างๆ แม้ไม่จำเป็นต้องเก่งทุกเรื่อง แต่การรู้ว่าควรโฟกัสกับสิ่งใดมีค่ามากกว่า สุดท้ายนี้ การเข้าใจตัวเองและเรียนรู้ที่จะดูแลใจตัวเองให้ดีที่สุด คือกุญแจสำคัญที่จะทำให้ชีวิตในวัย 30+ เติบโตอย่างมั่นคงและมีความสุขในทุกวัน

Related posts

A hand holds an orange prescription bottle filled with pills. An overlay reads "adderall side effects i didn't expect," with an arrow pointing to the bottle.
A hand holds an orange prescription bottle. An overlay lists ADHD medication side effects: suppressed appetite, higher heart rate, and feeling wired/too awake.
A hand holds an orange prescription bottle. An overlay describes the benefits of ADHD medication: improved focus, task completion, and feeling in control.
Does anyone else lose their appetite on ADHD meds?
Okay besties… let’s talk ADHD meds. I’ve been on Adderall, and while it’s been life changing for my ADHD, it definitely comes with side effects. For me, the biggest ones are a suppressed appetite (sometimes I forget to eat), a higher heart rate, and feeling a little too wired/awake at times. But
Caroline 🫶🏼

Caroline 🫶🏼

366 likes

30 Day Anxiety Challenge 🌻
Week1️⃣ Awareness and Mindfulness 🤗 Week2️⃣ Healthy Habits💦 Week3️⃣Congnitive Techniques💭 Week4️⃣ Social and Emotional Support🫂 Week5️⃣ Self Compassion, & Reflection💞 Post And Pic Created by @Anxiety Diary #growthmindset #lemon8challenge #mentalhealth #anxiety #Lem
Anxiety Diary

Anxiety Diary

735 likes

For the girls who wants to get their life together
finally found a habit tracker that actually makes me WANT to be productive 🏙️✨ you build your own little city by completing tasks, tracking your mood, journaling, and unlocking cute citizens 🐻💌 lowkey obsessed with how cozy it feels 🎀 #unfiltered #girlapps #productivity #selfcare #
Selfcity

Selfcity

20 likes

Questions All Women Should Be Asking Their Doctors
Walking into a doctor’s office can be a daunting experience. Whether it’s for a routine checkup or a specific concern, many people find themselves unsure of what to ask or how to respond to a diagnosis. As a biology pre-med major studying communications, I recognize the crucial role effective c
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

1037 likes

How to Become Rich Before Your 30s or In Your 30s
No, this is my path to becoming a millionaire, and I’m excited to share my journey with you. I hope you enjoy my story and post! Don't forget to leave a comment because I want to hear your thoughts and what you’re eager to learn. I promise to respond to every single comment, so if you’re not al
Financebabe

Financebabe

520 likes

By age 30, you should be smart enough to
BY AGE 30 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS: 1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work. 2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain. 3. You shouldn't take advice from peo
🎀Solange🎀

🎀Solange🎀

204 likes

So what’s your thoughts on this?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on Victoria’s Secret and Bath & Body Works fragrances. Some people say they’re not “real” perfumes and feel juvenile or kiddie—what do you think? Personally, I like them but see them more for casual moments like running errands, hitting the gym, or going to bed. I
GlowWithTia

GlowWithTia

1862 likes

What is 12•3•30?
* 12 incline * 3 speed * 30 mins * This is a great treadmill workout for beginners in the gym that are not sure where to start or gym rats that wanna switch up their routine * I personally do 12•3•30 when I’m needing a quick 30 min workout usually early before work or in the afternoon wh
Keestan

Keestan

11 likes

Their ego thoughts have nothing to do with YOU! 🥰
Lemon8er

Lemon8er

117 likes

Join me in celebrating yourbias for BTS! 🎉 Their i
#BTS #jimin #jungkook #Jhope #namjoon #SUGA #jin #taehyung Random Thoughts 💭What's on my mind:u Current Mood: ⭐Rate:
OT7_loVer_💜

OT7_loVer_💜

109 likes

A woman with long wavy hair, wearing a light dress, stands in a field of purple flowers, holding a straw hat. The background shows trees and hills under a warm sky. The image has a text overlay: "30 Bible Verses To Encourage Single Women."
30 BIBLE VERSES TO ENCOURAGE SINGLE WOMEN
https://clothedwithdignityco.com/30-bible-verses-encourage-single-women/ Dear all single women, I understand that it can be hard and lonesomeness when you don’t have a boyfriend or spouse. I understand that it can make you feel sad and insecure. I understand that it can make you feel impatie
✨💕𝔽𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕟💕✨

✨💕𝔽𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕟💕✨

24 likes

30 day self-esteem challenge 🫶
Taking on a 30-day self-esteem challenge is for boosting self-awareness, forming positive habits, and nurturing a confident self-image for yourself,paving the way for lasting personal growth . You can download and print this checklist out if you like 🤗 Post/pics Created by @Anxiety Diary
Anxiety Diary

Anxiety Diary

1703 likes

Does anyone do this with their digital planner?
This year I’ve taken my journal game to a whole new level! I am using a digital planner as a journal and let me tell you babes… I AM LOVING IT! Here is a quick breakdown of how I use it like a journal. Meaning I complete each page/section at the END of the day. It has worked wonders to: ✅ i
Kels

Kels

99 likes

An office scene shows a box of "Signature Select" donuts on the floor. A sign reflected in a window reads, "Hi! I'm JOCELYN Grab a donut and say hi!" The image is overlaid with the text "My mgr is soooooo cute 🥺".
What are your thoughts on dating a coworker?
Multiple scenarios: Same company, same team Same company, different team Same company, same team, on their notice period At a much higher work level than you At a much lower work level than you Considering that you’re really into the person- would you consider dating them in these situation
Lulu

Lulu

104 likes

quiet habits that anyone can add into their lives
to live a more gentle, more intentional lifestyle #romanticizeyourlife #selflovejourney #gentlehabits #fypシ
jess

jess

181 likes

Thoughts on Roans controversial take on parenthood
Singer Chappell Roan Called Out For Saying All Her Friends With Children 'Are In Hell' “I literally have not met anyone who's happy," While yes she’s entitled to her own opinion, mothers and parents in general have a right to be upset by this statement. Parenthood is not for ever
Madi

Madi

126 likes

A collage featuring the author at different ages: as a baby with a white bow, a young child, and an adult with blonde braids and sunglasses. The Lemon8 logo and username are visible.
A collage showing the author as a young child with braided hair and as a teenager/young adult in ripped jeans and a patterned shirt. The Lemon8 logo and username are present.
A collage of the author as a young person with braids giving a thumbs up, and another image of her in a white patterned dress. A sign with 'SSAXONS IN AC' is in the background.
30 things I wish I knew before 30.
I swear my lemon8 will not be centered around how I’m no longer in my 20s. However, recently I’ve noticed a change in me. In a previous post I mentioned how I would no longer take mediocrity in my romantic relationships. But I have to say across the board I’m in a stage where I don’t want mediocrit
Yaa

Yaa

22 likes

Thoughts on AI…
So. I stumbled across an account that was using Ai images, more specifically the type where you like, Idfk, take a picture and it “makes you into an anime character” or whatever and they claimed it was art. I know the topic has such heavy debate. Part of why I left twitter was the debates, etc.
˚☆💊𝔻𝕖𝕒𝕕𝔹𝕠𝕪𝔻𝕪𝕣🌈𖤐.ᐟ

˚☆💊𝔻𝕖𝕒𝕕𝔹𝕠𝕪𝔻𝕪𝕣🌈𖤐.ᐟ

1050 likes

Three personal care products are displayed on a counter. Two bottles, one light pink and one dark pink, are labeled for intimate hygiene. A light pink jar is a body scrub for skin appearance. Text overlays indicate trying new items and a diary entry.
Share your thoughts on the SALT.X0 products ?
I have been searching for something new that was natural and came across SALT.X0. I purchased the Yoni Gel, Seedless Yoni Gel and the Dark Spot Corrector. Have you tried their products and what are your thoughts? #hygiene #selfcareroutine #yonicareproducts #womenhealthy ⭐️Overall ra
Misha_MiMi

Misha_MiMi

548 likes

A natural outdoor scene featuring a dense arrangement of trees and green foliage. Tree trunks frame the view, with branches and leaves filling the foreground and midground. A lighter, open area is visible in the background, suggesting a clearing or field.
Day 6/30
Day 6. I gotta confess it is 10:09pm and I gotta think/reflect on today and use some brain power to think of what I’m grateful for or what thing I indulged in today that brought me joy…. Today we celebrated my Dad’s 70th birthday! It was celebrated with my husband and I, my parents obviously, my tw
Priscilla Marie

Priscilla Marie

23 likes

PART 2: 5 TRUTHS YOU SHOULD NEVER IGNORE AFTER 30 ⚠️
✨ Once you turn 30… some lessons become too expensive to ignore ✨ 💭 One painful reality? Your 30s often reveal: the consequences of the choices ignored in your 20s. ⚖️ Some people waste years: chasing people… while neglecting: their future peace discipline and self-respect. Then
Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

7 likes

Thoughts?
So a video just released of Polo G mama sh@@ting at her daughter 🥴 some moms really don’t like their daughters and it shows! A mother should never do this. #Lemon8 #Lemon8Diary #lemon8challenge
Kira

Kira

592 likes

A green play table filled with sand, dirt, and various toys, including an orange bucket and a red shovel. A text overlay reads: 'The 30 second rule for toddler parents'.
A green play table with sand and toys, featuring text that advises parents to count 30 seconds before repeating a question to a child, asking 'Why?' with a yellow arrow.
A green play table with sand and toys, overlaid with text explaining that a child's brain processes information slower, requiring more time to hear, process, consider, and provide a response.
30 Second Rule for Toddler Parents
I can’t remember where I read this, but it made so much sense to me when I did. I started trying it out and realized 2 things: 1. 30 seconds can feel like forever! 2. My child almost always responded when I slowed down and gave her more time. Something to keep in mind: Another thing I noticed
Kris

Kris

183 likes

My thoughts working in HR
I currently work in corporate HR and support over 1000 employees (including leadership). These are my own thoughts/opinions on working in this field. You absolutely are not obligated to agree. - Be prepared to be in one of the most thankless roles. In my role i’m often not thanked or highlighte
Kathryn 🌹

Kathryn 🌹

42 likes

Tomodachi Life Demo & 30mins of gameplay 😭 smh
#lemon8challenge #lemon8badgehunt Okay so the Tomodachi Living the Dream demo dropped and of course I loved it 👀🎮 30 minutes of gameplay is not a lot of time but it was enough to form some opinions. There were things I really liked, things that left me a little unsure, and a lot of thoughts
Nina Gabriella

Nina Gabriella

23 likes

An iPad displays the CapCut Pro subscription page, highlighting "Subscribe now and get 7 days of free Pro" and describing its AI-powered video editing capabilities. The screen shows an example of a video editing interface.
An iPad screen shows CapCut Pro features, including "Pro AI features" and "Space 100 GB space storage." The user indicates they primarily use the cloud storage feature, not the AI effects.
An iPad screen displays "natasha's space" within CapCut, showing 4.6GB of 100GB cloud storage used. The interface includes options for projects, brand kit, and media, with the user noting it stores collaboration videos.
I bought CapCut Pro and these are my thoughts…
I’ve been contemplating on buying the CapCut Pro subscription  for a while. I tried it for a month first before committing, but took advantage of their Black Friday discount. The main key feature that made me buy the subscription is their cloud space feature. It makes it so easy to edit on my PC
studywithnali

studywithnali

26 likes

A hand holds a heart-shaped plate featuring a breakfast dish of avocado hashbrown with cheesy egg and chives, presented on a kitchen counter.
A single rectangular hashbrown, prepared in an air fryer, rests on a heart-shaped plate on a kitchen counter.
A hashbrown on a heart-shaped plate is topped with smashed avocado seasoned with salt, pepper, and parsley.
Thoughts on Breakfast💭🤔
I decided to try a new variation on one of my fav breakfast meals (Avocado toast & eggs) sooo I thought why not put it on a Hashbrown! Here’s why not 😂 That bad boy crumbled by the weight after the first bite. It was not sturdy and I only had 1 egg with some egg whites & cheese. So not a
Alicia💕

Alicia💕

43 likes

When Their Anger Isn’t About You 🍋✨
Proverbs 11:12 reminds us that wisdom doesn’t always respond to foolishness. Sometimes people speak from places of hurt, insecurity, frustration, or internal battles we know nothing about. Their reaction may not truly be about us at all. Our responsibility is not to match their anger, but to guard
Jonesie's Journey

Jonesie's Journey

0 likes

PART 1: 5 TRUTHS YOU SHOULD NEVER IGNORE AFTER 30 ⚠️
✨ Once you turn 30… some lessons become too expensive to ignore ✨ 💭 One painful reality? Your 30s often reveal: the consequences of the choices ignored in your 20s. ⚖️ Some people waste years: chasing people… while neglecting: their future peace discipline and self-respect. Then
Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

1 like

One of my thoughts 🫧
So have you ever thought of the reason that you are the person you are today is because of what you went through as a child? 👀 Well today I did some self therapy on myself today and thought about how bad I react to a person that shows me bad communication I could completely turn my emotions off t
D.colee

D.colee

30 likes

A printable savings tracker for a 30-day challenge to save $100. It features 30 light blue piggy bank icons, each containing a dollar amount from $1 to $8. Fields for 'Start Date', 'Finish Date', and 'Notes' are included, designed to help track daily savings progress.
Savings Challenge: Reach Your $100 Goal in 30 Days
Savings Challenge: Reach Your $100 Goal in 30 Days! Who's ready to take on a financial challenge and boost their savings? I'm excited to invite you to join me in a 30-day Savings Challenge where we'll work together to reach a $100 goal. This is the perfect opportunity to get inte
Anthony Doty

Anthony Doty

109 likes

See more