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A person who is still, not a person.

Someone who looks calm.

Doesn't mean he never found anything.

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But he's "been through it."

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Through the chaos.

Through the confusion.

Through a period of not knowing who you are.

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Until today

He doesn't have to explain himself to anyone much.

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Because he's "already clear to himself."

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Stillness

So it's not emptiness.

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But it's power.

Of people who understand life.

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Life is better every day.

When you stop proving

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Howtoo cane. Life is better every day.

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# Self-improvement # Psychology # Cane Howtoo, life is better every day # Knowing yourself

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