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Used to feel jealous of other people's wedding because..

Used to tell in the postShare The Big Sister's Pain EP.1 The BearingThere you go.

Today Comes Per EP.2 The 2nd Mom Who Didn't Get The Attention

Is the eldest sister in another house the same? Especially a house with a 7-year-old little brother like us. There will be moments that feel ignored often. Some things we let go. Because of anyone's life, life is good enough. Today, the word "Don't cook noodles in other people's bowls."

We always tell you not to interfere with each other, not to help each other (because we live on our own very well), just don't bring big problems.

But when we were just married, we saw other people's wedding clips. It was a job that the married sister had to move out. And his brother made a surprise. He wrote a long letter saying greeting that he had hit each other, quarreled. Thank you for helping me like that, along with transferring money as a gift!!

Because we have a brother who lives like we are almost really a mother instead of a mother, even send money to college until the end, solve all the problems that he has built, pay for the medical expenses when he has to go to Admid (he is not working + has no insurance). In total, it is almost bankrupt, haha. Think about it. We have worked for 2-3 years, but have to take responsibility for another person's life, crazy? Fortunately, our financial discipline is very strong, give up something to have enough emergency money, so it has passed that time.

And the most important moment in our lives like "wedding" came, but our younger brother came to be more like a guest to help us with the work, took pictures, kept us a little atmosphere, but didn't have any events, had a little blessing when catching our lucky draw, really a little, hahahaha. Our friends also talked about us more, no pictures, no stories, like hating each other, not close, haha (but the Fanny pictures are juicy). And when you think back, our "graduation party" didn't come too. All day, the day of practice, there are only parents, sisters, no gifts to send. Hahahaha

Come to think and feel upset. It's also annoying. Hahahahaha Our wedding is a small event focusing on family and close friends (my relatives haven't invited yet), but our feelings with our brother have a huge gap. As the eldest brother with only one brother, we don't want you to see us only when it's difficult. We want him to be happy with us when we're happy. That's all.

# Lemon 8 invites # First child # Relationship narrative # Wedding drama # Before having today

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