what we think people see vs Reality

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expectations vs reality: being in my 30’s
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A white banner on a chain-link fence reads: 'SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO STOP SEEING THE GOOD IN PEOPLE AND START SEEING WHAT THEY SHOW YOU.' A person on a bicycle and cars are partially visible, illustrating the article's message about focusing on actions.
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