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Ask Yourself These 2 Online Questions

This might hurt a bit,

but it might also help your online goals

These 2 questions can

change your online life

And it starts right now by

looking straight in the mirror

Here’s the question

Who is your highest self?

I’m not talking about your highlight reel

I mean the actual person you want to become online

What kind of work do they do?

What kind of relationships do they have?

What traits do they carry with them every day?

What are their hobbies?

Interest

And how do they move through the world?

Grab a piece of paper

pause this video if you need to

and write down what comes into your mind

Because I want you to see them so clearly,

you could sit across the table from them

you to feel their energy

Because they’re not a fantasy

They’re you

Without all the bullshit

Now

The second question is this

That person You just created

They didn’t start off as that person,

right?

They had to fight through a lot of shit to get there

Probably the same stuff you’re trying to fight through right now

Imposter syndrome

Tons of self doubt and self sabotage

Not enough money

Not enough time

And trying to make everything perfect before you take the leap online

Does that kinda sound familiar?

That version of you

They didn’t wait

They didn’t Stall

They didn’t keep saying

“Someday”

So here’s the second question

If that person had your exact life right now

Your time

Your resources

Your situation

What would they do today to get closer to who they are now?

Not tomorrow

Today

That is your homework for today

Every time you hit a wall That seems to be holding back

Every time you’re overthinking or spiralling in your head

Ask yourself that question

What would that person do?

Then do it

Because if you keep making decisions from your current situation and Identity

You just keep creating your current Reality

But if you make decisions from the future,

you

That gap starts to close fast

One day you’ll look in the mirror and realize

That you have become that person

If you don’t know me,

my name is Robert

I live in British Columbia Canada

And I help complete beginners build a sustainable online business from scratch

Even if you never done anything online before

Because the only thing holding you back from your goals

Is you?

Because we are all

@bournetobefree

British Columbia

2025/6/29 Edited to

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