I had to step away… not because I didn’t love what I do, but because I was stretched too thin trying to be everything for everyone.

Closing my dream salon.

Moving out of state.

Balancing being a mom, a gf,having clients,working with trouble youth, starting to many business, and being an influencer… it was a lot. The light I had in my eyes turnt into darkness

And truthfully? I needed a break. Thank God, I don’t look like what I’ve been through!

This off-season wasn’t a loss—it was necessary.

I took time to pour back into me.

My mental health. My craft. My vision and the work isn’t over! Doing hair is my minstry and my beautiful gift to the world.

This summer I’m coming back stronger, clearer, and more intentional.

Content. Clients. Creativity. ALL loading…

This isn’t a restart—it’s a reset! Who going to be my first clients, I will have crazy deals!!!! #braids #columbia #columbiasc #columbiascbraider #columbiaschairstylist

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... Read moreStepping back from a passion you love can feel like a major setback, but often it's the crucial step needed for growth and renewal. In my experience, balancing multiple roles—mom, partner, stylist, influencer, and entrepreneur—can stretch anyone too thin. Like many, I found that when the weight of so many responsibilities piled up, my creative light dimmed and my mental health suffered. Taking a deliberate break from the daily grind allowed me to reconnect with what truly fuels me: the craft of hairstyling and the joy of connecting with clients. This ‘off-season’ was far from a loss; it became a transformative period where I could pour energy into healing and creative exploration. It’s important to recognize when you need to reset—not just restart—and honor that without guilt. Returning refreshed, I’m focusing on delivering skilled braid services in Columbia, SC, emphasizing quality and client satisfaction. From xsmall knotless braids to intricate styles down to the calf length, I’m committed to meeting every client’s unique vision. If you’ve felt hesitant about trying braids, now is the perfect time—my comeback includes special deals for first clients eager to experience fresh, personalized styles. For fellow stylists or anyone juggling many hats, take heart: mental health and self-care are essential parts of sustaining your passion and career. Embracing your journey, including pauses and resets, can lead to a brighter, more intentional path forward.

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