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It's been 30 years to know. Letting go and doing good things instead of wasting time.✨

In our working lives, we always like to encounter questions with ourselves.

Why does that person, this person, do that or this?

Why can't we succeed like him? Why can't we think?

Thinking around until one day I heard a voice in my head.

How long can we think of this? Think enough?

With unanswered questions until the age of 30.

It's not bad to know that you don't have to find an answer.

Better to take time to think of doing merit

At least it's useful to keep the dog and cat full.

# Grow up and know that # lemon 8 diary # Let go # Stress # Love yourself more

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... Read moreเมื่อเข้าสู่วัย 30 ปี หลายคนอาจจะเริ่มตั้งคำถามกับชีวิตและการทำงานของตัวเอง เหมือนที่ฉันเคยทำ หลายครั้งที่รู้สึกท้อถอยเพราะไม่ประสบความสำเร็จเหมือนคนอื่น หรือไม่เข้าใจว่าทำไมบางคนดูเหมือนจะทำอะไรก็ราบรื่นกว่าตัวเอง สุดท้ายสิ่งที่ฉันได้เรียนรู้ก็คือ การปล่อยวางไม่ได้หมายความว่าต้องละทิ้งความพยายาม แต่เป็นการหยุดตั้งคำถามที่ไม่สร้างสรรค์และไม่เป็นประโยชน์ เพื่อเปิดพื้นที่ให้ตัวเองได้ทำสิ่งที่มีคุณค่าจริง ๆ แทนการจมอยู่กับความเครียด ฉันเริ่มเปลี่ยนเวลาที่เคยนั่งคิดวนไปวนมาว่าทำไมชีวิตไม่เหมือนคนอื่น มาเป็นเวลาทำบุญทำทานและช่วยเหลือสัตว์เลี้ยง เช่นการให้อาหารน้องหมาแมวที่ต้องการความช่วยเหลือ ซึ่งเป็นประสบการณ์ที่ทำให้รู้สึกเติมเต็มและผ่อนคลายใจอย่างไม่น่าเชื่อ การได้ทำดีเล็ก ๆ น้อย ๆ ทำให้มุมมองชีวิตเปลี่ยนไป จากความเครียดกลายเป็นความสุขที่แท้จริง นอกจากนี้ การเรียนรู้ที่จะปล่อยวางเรื่องที่ควบคุมไม่ได้และยอมรับความไม่สมบูรณ์แบบในชีวิต เป็นกุญแจสำคัญที่ช่วยให้เรารักตัวเองมากขึ้น และจัดการกับความเครียดในแต่ละวันได้อย่างมีประสิทธิภาพ ลองตั้งคำถามกับตัวเองบ้างว่า "เราจะมัวแต่คิดแบบนี้อีกนานแค่ไหน?" และเมื่อรู้สึกว่าเริ่มเหนื่อยกับความคิดลบ ก็ลองหยุดพัก ปล่อยวาง แล้วทำสิ่งดี ๆ แทน เช่น การทำบุญ หรือการช่วยเหลือเพื่อนร่วมโลกที่ต้องการความรักและเอาใจใส่ เช่นสัตว์เลี้ยงต่าง ๆ สุดท้าย การปล่อยวางคือการให้โอกาสตัวเองได้เติบโตและเดินหน้าต่อไปอย่างสงบ และนี่คือบทเรียนที่ดีที่สุดที่ฉันได้รับในวัย 30 ปี และอยากแบ่งปันให้ทุกคนได้รู้สึกเหมือนกัน

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