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Not hurt because of others. It hurts because of yourself...

Nobody hurts me, I just DIY'd my own pain. ❤️‍🩹🩹

The 2025 Junk Journal hopes the hands and fingers are still intact. Amen.... 🙏🏻🫶🏻

2025/11/1 Edited to

... Read moreการที่เราเจ็บปวดจากตัวเองนั้นเป็นเรื่องที่หลายคนอาจไม่เคยพูดถึง แต่ในความเป็นจริงมันคือบทเรียนที่สำคัญสำหรับชีวิต โดยเฉพาะเมื่อเราทำสิ่งต่างๆ ด้วยตัวเอง เช่น การสร้าง Junk Journal ที่ต้องใช้มือและนิ้วในการจัดการและสร้างสรรค์งาน ถึงแม้จะดูเหมือนเป็นงานอดิเรกแต่ก็มีผลต่อสุขภาพของเราอย่างชัดเจน การดูแลตัวเองเป็นสิ่งจำเป็นอย่างยิ่ง โดยเฉพาะการใช้มือและนิ้ว เพื่อให้เรายังสามารถทำกิจกรรมเหล่านี้ได้อย่างต่อเนื่อง การพักผ่อนและการยืดเหยียดมือจึงเป็นสิ่งที่ควรปฏิบัติ นอกจากนี้การรับรู้และยอมรับความเจ็บปวดที่เกิดจากตัวเองจะช่วยให้เราเข้าใจและเติบโตขึ้นทั้งทางร่างกายและจิตใจ ในบริบทของ Junk Journal ปี 2025 ซึ่งเป็นกิจกรรมสร้างสรรค์ที่ผู้เขียนมุ่งหวังว่าสภาพร่างกายจะยังสมบูรณ์ นับเป็นการตั้งเป้าหมายที่ดีและแสดงถึงความตั้งใจจริงในการดูแลตนเอง และการใช้ความเจ็บปวดนี้เป็นแรงบันดาลใจในการพัฒนาตัวเองต่อไป สุดท้ายนี้ การเจ็บตัวเองหรือที่เรียกว่า "DIY pain" นั้น ไม่ใช่สิ่งที่แย่เสมอไป เพราะมันเป็นโอกาสให้เราได้เรียนรู้วิธีดูแลตนเองอย่างจริงจัง และเข้าใจความสัมพันธ์ระหว่างร่างกายและจิตใจอย่างลึกซึ้งมากขึ้น ดังนั้นไม่ว่าจะเจ็บเพราะคนอื่นหรือเพราะตัวเอง การดูแลและฟื้นฟูตัวเองคือกุญแจสำคัญสู่ชีวิตที่ดีขึ้น

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