Name 10 Dating-icks of All Time

Helena
2/24 Edited to

... Read moreFrom my own dating experiences, encountering these 'icks' can be a real dealbreaker. Excessive phone use during dates, for instance, not only makes you feel ignored but also suggests a lack of interest, which can quickly kill any romantic vibe. I once went on a date where my companion was more focused on scrolling through social media than engaging with me, and it felt quite disrespectful. Playing hard to get might seem like a strategy, but when taken to extremes, it often comes off as confusing or insincere. Genuine connection grows from clear communication, not artificial delays. I learned this after a frustrating few dates with someone who was hot and cold, leaving me disheartened. One-sided conversations are another frequent issue. It's important to show curiosity about your date's life rather than dominating the talk with your own stories. This balance fosters mutual interest and respect. Chronic lateness without apology sends a negative message about valuing others’ time. In my experience, punctuality shows respect and sets a positive tone. Similarly, financial entitlement early on can complicate interactions—relationships thrive on compatibility and shared values, not material expectations. Lastly, honesty about intentions is crucial. Whether seeking something casual or serious, clarity helps avoid misunderstandings and ensures both parties are on the same page. Recognizing these dating icks and consciously avoiding them can greatly improve your dating life, creating more meaningful and enjoyable connections.

Related posts

My icks as a first time mom 🤢🚩
Having any of these red flags will make me NEVER bring my precious angel around you!! #youngmommy #theick #momicks #momlife #mom #momsoflemon8 #icks #momworries #lemon8moms
Kei'ora Shanae

Kei'ora Shanae

1957 likes

My ICKS as a first time mom…
I saw another girl do this and I love this idea. Lowkey it helps me get a little of my anger about these comments out lol. #Lemon8Diary #momlife #babygirl #icks
Kassandra

Kassandra

4262 likes

Travis Kelce’s Dating Rule… ICK or No?
So apparently people are once again talking about Travis Kelce’s “dating rule.” You’ve probably seen it making the rounds… it’s from like 9 years ago, way before the whole Taylor Swift thing, but every few months the internet digs it back up like a bad reality TV subplot. Basically, in this old
tasiaa

tasiaa

763 likes

Two hands, adorned with various bracelets and rings, hold each other over a display of jewelry. The image features an overlay text that reads, 'Let's Talk About Dating Icks,' introducing the topic of dating turn-offs.
✨🚩 Dating Icks I CAN’T IGNORE | How About You?! 🚩✨
✨ What are your icks? These are the little, or not so little 👀, things that instantly make you lose interest when dating someone. For me, a major ick is when someone is disrespectful to people in service roles, like custodians, waitstaff, or anyone just doing their job. That kind of behavior te
Margarita

Margarita

124 likes

he gave me the ICK!!
After nearly five years of dating my boyfriend, I’ve come to appreciate and accept his quirky, sometimes embarrassing, and even gross habits. However, there’s one particular quirk that gives me the ultimate “ick”: he goes to bed with socks on! Discovering this was a jaw-dropping moment for me
alisha🪽💐🎀

alisha🪽💐🎀

2581 likes

The image features a person with curly hair and glasses, shown in four quadrants, with the title "Black Girl Icks From a Black Girl to Black Girl" in pink text. The Lemon8 logo and username are visible in the bottom left corner.
The image displays a person with curly hair and glasses in four quadrants. Overlaying the image is text that reads: "When LightSkin Black Girls say they experience colorism No, you don't. & Reverse Colorism is not a thing." The Lemon8 logo is in the bottom left.
The image shows a person with curly hair and glasses in four quadrants. Text overlays read: "Calling Other Black Girls Names For Wearing Bonnets Outside" and "If Durags became literal fashion and socially acceptable in public, so is my bonnet. I'll wear it whenever I want to." The Lemon8 logo is present.
Black Girl Icks as a Black Girl 🙃
These are things I see as a problem in the Black Girl community that just give me the ick so bad! Obviously, not all Black girls don’t do this but the ones that do are 🗑️ #lemon8challenge #girlpov #blackgirllemon8 #icks
L a n a i s Li 🧚🏽‍♀️

L a n a i s Li 🧚🏽‍♀️

1025 likes

A young woman with long brown hair, wearing a peach-colored shirt and a white smartwatch, holds a newborn baby wrapped in a white blanket. The text overlay reads "My ICKS as a FTM."
A newborn baby with light skin and a white onesie is sleeping peacefully on a dark green blanket. The text overlay states "WHEN PEOPLE SAY 'MY BABY'."
A baby with light skin, wearing a striped onesie and white mittens, is secured in a gray car seat with a pacifier near its mouth. The text overlay reads "WHEN THEY DON'T WANT TO GIVE HIM BACK AFTER I ASK THEM TO."
My ICKS as a first time mom 🩵
These are my personal opinion!!!🤍 1- I can’t stand when people call him “my baby” like excuse me i don’t remember you going through 33 hours of labor and pushing him out! 2- when they don’t want to give him back even if i have specifically asked or if he’s crying. i’m his mother and i can calm
Addison J.

Addison J.

1407 likes

A woman in a pink sweater holds a baby over a white vanity table with cosmetics. The text overlay reads: 'My ICKS As a first time mom'.
A baby in a brown outfit lies on an adult's lap, wearing a white sweater. The text overlay reads: 'You hold him too much'.
A baby in a dark blue outfit with an orange fox design lies on a brown leather couch. The text overlay reads: 'Why aren't you breastfeeding?'.
My icks as a first time mom 😅
Here are the top 5 things people told/ask me that give the ickkkkkk as a first time mom. 1. "You hold him too much" Hearing that I hold my baby too much as soon as I pick him up is sooooooooooooo annoying! Yes, Karen, I do have to pick my baby up to meet his basic needs! When he is cry
Narjisse 🍋✨

Narjisse 🍋✨

2526 likes

A hand displaying manicured nails with light pink bases, black and white zebra print tips, butterfly designs, and rhinestones. The image features the text "My icks as a nail tech" with an emoji.
A hand with long, square-shaped, matte light purple nails. The text overlay discusses the nail tech's frustration with "super picky clients" and refusing to work with them.
A hand with manicured nails featuring pink bases, white French tips with gold beads, and leopard print with a pink 3D flower. The text overlay expresses frustration about clients "not reading policies."
My icks as a licensed nails tech🫡
It actually was harder than I thought to think of these. I know it sounds mean, but these are a few bads out of 100 goods!! I love my job SO BAD & I can’t imagine doing anything else!! #nailtech #nails #nailtechlife
Your Nail Fairy🧚🏼‍♀️

Your Nail Fairy🧚🏼‍♀️

2881 likes

My icks as a FTM
#firsttimemom #babyboy #icks #breastfeedingmomma
Lexie Hahn

Lexie Hahn

684 likes

A baby in a brown outfit lies on an adult's lap, with text overlay "My ICKS As a first time mom SWIPE" indicating the post's theme.
A baby's hand clutches a light green shirt, next to a white blanket, with the text ""He's a flirt"" overlaid.
A framed white cast of a baby's handprint, dated "HARGUM 22.4.2023", with the text ""Just wait until he's a toddler ..."" overlaid.
My ICKS as a first time mom 😵‍💫
1. Oh he's a flirt Ehhhhhh no my 4 month's old son is not flirting with you girl, he is just being a baby. I can't stand when people say this, it gives me the biggest ickkkk like what do you mean he's a flirt 😭 2. "They're really cute at that age but just wait until he
Narjisse 🍋✨

Narjisse 🍋✨

3616 likes

A hand is submerged in a bath filled with white foam and bubbles, with a faucet and a bottle visible in the background. Overlayed text asks, "Ladies, what are your biggest physical 'icks' in men?" The Lemon8 logo and username @lilybrown0669 are at the bottom left.
Ladies, what are your biggest physical icks in men
Honestly, I’ve noticed a few physical things in men that instantly turn me off. Poor hygiene is a big one—like no skincare routine, greasy hair, or bad breath. I also can’t get past a scruffy, poorly maintained beard or facial hair that looks unkempt. Other subtle things, like untrimmed nails or di
Lily Brown

Lily Brown

345 likes

Billionaire/Fake Dating/ Enemies to Lovers 📚✨
My favorite billionaire fake dating romance!! 😍📚 The tension/enemies to lovers vibes makes it hit that much harder when they finally start denying what they both want! You can read it as a standalone but I'm currently unaliving waiting for the next book! 😂 #BookTok #bookworm #Book
BookinBritt📚🖤

BookinBritt📚🖤

16 likes

Dating ❌❌🙅🙅❌❌❎
#datingadvice101 #datingtipsforwomen #datingstruggles #fyp #lemmon8challenge
Let’s be real

Let’s be real

8 likes

A woman with dark hair pulled back, wearing a black long-sleeved shirt, looks to the side. Overlay text asks, "Women to women What is the ICKIEST ick a man have ever gave you?" A "lemon8" logo and user handle are visible at the bottom.
What’s a ick a man ever gave you?
Getting a ick from a man is like the most 2nd hand embarrassment thing you can experience😂 #boyfriendproblems #datingadvice101 #datingideas #funnyrelationships #adviceforwomen
The feminine formula

The feminine formula

331 likes

My icks as a first time mom
I could go on and on about things that I hear all the time especially from the older generation and all the time it’s unsolicited advice 🤦🏽‍♀️ Things that are outdated now. I think that the one I hate the most it’s the passive aggressive comments especially after having a difficult day and bein
Lifestyle | Motherhood 🥥🤎

Lifestyle | Motherhood 🥥🤎

513 likes

My ICKS as a pregnant first time mom
If I'm being honest, everything gave me the ick during my pregnancy. What do you have to add to the list? #pregnancy #motherhood #lemon8challenge #letschat #firsttimemom
Marilynn Davis

Marilynn Davis

1695 likes

10 Questions to Spark Honest Conversations
Looking for a new way to connect on date night? Try turning deep questions into an activity to help you get even closer. Write these questions on pieces of paper, put them in a jar, and take turns answering. It’s an easy way to spark meaningful conversations and learn more about each other.
Lindsay Goeler

Lindsay Goeler

170 likes

Will Dating Affect Your Studies?
Will Dating Affect Your Studies? #datingadvice #datingtips #datingstorytime #datingcoach #datingcoachformen #datingcoachforwomen
SpamNueves

SpamNueves

10 likes

A bookshelf displaying multiple books from the 'A Court of Thorns and Roses' series by Sarah J. Maas, with a text overlay stating 'MY BOOK iCKS'.
A hand holding the book 'Twisted Love' by Ana Huang, with a text overlay criticizing the phrase 'he purred/growled' in books.
A hand holding the book 'Beautiful Venom' by Rina Kent, with a text overlay criticizing the phrase 'he looked at her hungrily' in books.
my personal bookish icks
Here’s just some book words that give me MAJOR ick LOL 📚 “he purred/growled” girl…if ur man growls or purrs one more time, im calling animal control on him LMFAO 📚 “he looked at her hungrily” sir this is NOT a chipotle line please back away from her and please do not eat her… 📚 using the w
Readers.archive

Readers.archive

765 likes

My ICKS as aFirst time mom❌
What are your ICKS?? Here are some of mine: ❌You hold him too much No. No I do not hold him too much. I hold him as much as I want to and that’s okay! He wants to be held and I’m going to hold him😭. He plays a lot too and has independent play time but when he wants to be held I’ll hold him.
Kayla:)

Kayla:)

348 likes

10 Turn-offs a Man sees 👀 in a Woman he's dating.✨
Navigating the early stages of pursuit is often about momentum. While every person has individual "deal-breakers," there are several common behaviors that tend to kill the chemistry for men when they are interested in someone. Here are 10 of the biggest "icks" or turn-offs for men
Relationship Coach & Therapist

Relationship Coach & Therapist

12 likes

NaME UR BIGGEST ICK! 🌸 (part 2 coming soon)
#ick #dti #layering #gigi #cute #baddie #trendsetter #runwaydiva #amazing #part2soon COmment!
dtiigirl

dtiigirl

118 likes

Internet dating? There is NO such thing.
This is directed to whoever it fits. Women, STOP letting these jokers scam you in the name of dating. These dudes come with saying , " Let your guard down and think about the good, not the bad. They say I'm looking for friendship. Some send a message telling you to smile. They talk a bunch
Just Talya! 🙃

Just Talya! 🙃

12 likes

Things that give me the ICK
The best creator on Lemon8 is back!!! I now for a fact yall missed me. ❤️ Tomorrow I’ll be making a video about weird food combos, please tell me in the comments any weird combos you would like me to try. Love you xoxo. -Maia 💋 #ick #ickculture #grwm #makeup #unfiltered
Maia Mendez ♥️

Maia Mendez ♥️

1201 likes

A poll on a bright background asks 'Which one's the biggest ick?' with options: A. Slow Texter (phone), B. Loud Eater (cutlery), C. Bad Driver (red car), and D. Oversharer (skull). The Lemon8 logo and username are visible at the bottom.
Biggest ick?😵‍💫🫣🙅🏻‍♀️
Oversharer killss me 😒😒😒 #cozychats #lemon8challenge #couples #relationship #dating
🧁💐jadey💕🎀

🧁💐jadey💕🎀

14 likes

A man in a white t-shirt eats a wrap at an outdoor restaurant, with text overlay stating "I don't date Any mama's boys," highlighting a dating 'ick' related to men who rely on their mothers.
Various cuts of raw, vacuum-sealed meat are displayed, with text overlay criticizing men who eat vegan alternatives like oat milk or veggie burgers, implying a loss of 'testosterone'.
A man sits at an outdoor restaurant table, with text overlay discussing cussing, especially when first meeting someone, describing it as 'barbaric' and lacking dignity.
The biggest dating icks as a woman 🤢
Luckily I found a man who does none of these, but these are my biggest icks. When I see men doing any of these around my girl friends, I’m immediately not a fan. Ultimately, anything that demonstrates a lack of testosterone is an ick to me. Anything that shows vulgarity is an ick to me. A man w
Delaney

Delaney

16 likes

LEMON 8 ICKS 🍋
#politics #icks #Lemon8Diary #honestreview #2025
Livy🪐✨

Livy🪐✨

663 likes

My ICKS as a first time mom! Part 2!
1. Is he sleeping through the night? What are we expecting from a 4 months old BABY? He is a good sleeper that wakes up twice every night to eat. Good sleepers still wake up! It's 100% normal and doesn't make him a bad sleeper. I think it's very rare for babies to sleep 12 hours in a
Narjisse 🍋✨

Narjisse 🍋✨

71 likes

A smiling mother in a hospital gown holds her tiny micropreemie baby, who is connected to medical tubes, in a hospital room. The image is overlaid with the title 'My Icks As a Micropreemie Mama'.
A mother takes a mirror selfie in a hospital bathroom, showing her flat stomach. The text overlay reads, '"You're lucky! It doesn't even look like you had a baby!"', highlighting an insensitive comment.
A micropreemie baby lies in an incubator with numerous medical tubes and wires. A gloved hand gently touches the baby's foot. The text overlay states, '"At least you didn't have to push out a big baby."', an insensitive remark.
My Icks As A Micropreemie Mama😵‍💫
As the mama of a tiny baby girl born at only 1lb 1oz, we had a 5 month NICU stay where I lived in the hospital the entire duration. My daughter Dove, due to her severe prematurity, was unfortunately born with many critical health issues, some of which will affect her for the rest of her life. 5 mon
Ella Armstrong

Ella Armstrong

607 likes

red flags in dating
these are the few of MANY and can be grey areas if you over think it into being complicated. the shortest piece of advice is if you are confused, getting a little depressed, and feel yourself acting out of character they’re probably not good for you! #dating #datingadvice #datingadviceforw
lynn

lynn

341 likes

Leg Waxing Prep with Sliick
Get summer-ready with @sliickwaxofficial ! 🌞✨ Check out the Buff + Brighten Ingrown Rescue Kit, featuring an exfoliating mitt and dark spot serum packed with wu-bai complex, vitamin C, shea butter & coconut oil. Plus, the Ingrown Rescue Solution treats and prevents bumps, ingrown hairs,
Kelsey Dworchak

Kelsey Dworchak

337 likes

The Spiritual Side of Dating: The Prayer- Part 4
Always fast when asking God something this important. #christiandating #christiansinglewomen #godlydating #christiandatingadvice #prayers
BcsHolySpirit

BcsHolySpirit

10 likes

My Biggest ICKS In Motherhood 🚩
Motherhood is already hard enough without these icks making it harder. As a millennial mom of 2, here are the things that instantly rub me the wrong way: 1. Moms who “already know it all.” Parenting is always evolving. Safety standards, research, and resources change constantly. If you stop lea
QuelleChaos|SAHM🍄

QuelleChaos|SAHM🍄

131 likes

Lock Icks 🤢👎🏾
What’s your loc icks ?? #locs #locstyles #blackgirlhairstyles #blackgirlmagic #selflove
Ginaaa 💋

Ginaaa 💋

427 likes

Long-Term Dating Advice from a married lesbian 💗
✨Ask about everything, multiple times!! Get to know everything about your #significant other . Never assume you know everything about them, because you don’t! ✨Be #vulnerable , when (not if) you make mistakes own up to it! ➡️Ask questions about hypotheticals together (example: what would y
Aurora’s Room

Aurora’s Room

32 likes

THE ICKEST BOOK ICKS
#currentlyreading #lemon8challenge
AMA B. | tastemaker 🎬📚📺

AMA B. | tastemaker 🎬📚📺

30 likes

Alright day one of using lemon8 as a dating app
Hey single women is Las Vegas Nevada. Accepting applications to take my last name! I may not be the handsomest man but I will out work any pretty boy or “influencer” type and I will gladly sit in the back of a cop car handcuffed, covered in blood and smiling if someone ever hurt you.
Vegas_Shadowss

Vegas_Shadowss

10 likes

Pregnancy Icks As A First Time Mom
Pregnancy is a beautiful thing but there are a few things that will bother you the most! Here are a few things that bothered me. 1.) People Touching Me Without Asking It’s like some people forget simple manners when a person is pregnant. It doesn’t matter if you’re family or a stranger. If you
Carolyn Young

Carolyn Young

381 likes

My ICKS as a FTM❌🐣
1) When I ask for my baby back that means I want him back. He is my baby not yours 🙄 2)When my baby cries I need him as much as he needs me. My anxiety shoots up when I hear his little cry. So of course I want him back so I can help him. 3)I get that they might just want to help but asking o
Kayla:)

Kayla:)

2382 likes

· who · KrypticKannoli
#gettoknowme
Kryptic Kannoli

Kryptic Kannoli

17 likes

Sugar Dating 101✨🌸
Sugar Dating 101: Mastering the Art of Getting Spoiled💕 Sugar dating is more than a trend it’s a lifestyle built on mutual benefits, genuine connections, and high-value communication. Whether you’re new to the scene or looking to refine your approach, here’s your ultimate guide to thriving in th
Lux Empire💎

Lux Empire💎

26 likes

A bouquet of red, orange, and yellow flowers with the text 'Dating myself 2026' overlaid, set against a background with Lemon8 UI elements.
A movie screen displaying a scene with characters in medieval attire, viewed from a dark cinema with rows of empty seats.
A close-up of a snack tray containing tortilla chips, red spicy chips, sliced jalapeños, and a cup of yellow cheese dip.
Dating myself 2026
#lemon8challenge #lemon8badgehunt Vulnerability 🤍 My Story: Dating myself in 2026 because I don’t need someone to take up my time and attention to do the bare minimum 🤍 have you been on any solo dates ? What do you recommend 🤍 My Takeaways: it’s healthy to do what you need done for yours
Sourlemon Diary

Sourlemon Diary

2 likes

Online dating and your digital footprint.
KillerBeeTac

KillerBeeTac

53 likes

My icks as a FTM🤮🩵
Just some silly little things I’ve been told since having my baby☺️ Friendly reminder: DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR BABY🫶🏻 @Lemon8Parenting #firsttimemom #lemon8parenting #lemon8parent #momsoflemon8 #parentsoflemon8 #lemon8challenge
karls🖤

karls🖤

1700 likes

ICK FACTOR IS OUT NOW!!!
#Lemon8 #lemon8creator #lemon8bookcommunity #lemon8bookclub #bookaesthetic #romancebooks #booktok #bookwormsoflemon8 #bookstagram #BookReview
MorganElizabeth

MorganElizabeth

77 likes

See more