Why is it so hard to find a decent person who doesn’t try to sucker me on here for money?

2025/8/15 Edited to

... Read moreIn today’s digital age, connecting with new people online can be both rewarding and challenging. Many individuals find it difficult to encounter genuine people who have no ulterior motives, especially financial. This issue stems from the rise of online scams and deceptive practices, which have unfortunately become widespread across social media, dating platforms, and messaging apps. Financial exploitation frequently manifests in requests for money under various pretenses such as emergencies, investments, or personal hardship stories. These deceptive tactics prey on users’ trust and goodwill, making it essential to be cautious when building online relationships. To avoid falling victim, users are advised to look for red flags such as unsolicited money requests, inconsistent personal stories, and reluctance to meet or speak outside the platform. Moreover, utilizing platform security features, reporting suspicious profiles, and maintaining privacy settings can significantly reduce exposure to such scams. Understanding the complexity of online interactions helps set realistic expectations when seeking meaningful connections. Genuine relationships, while less common online, can be fostered through patience, verification, and clear boundaries. Ultimately, awareness and informed strategies empower users to navigate the online social landscape more safely and find authentic, trustworthy people.

15 comments

TuesdayL63's images
TuesdayL63

I ask myself the same question. When you find the answer, please share.

Sabrina's images
Sabrina

I know.. there r alot of them on here and it is quite sickening to be honest

See more comments

Related posts

Why is it so hard to Pray?
📝My notes from: Why Is It So Hard to Pray? by Burk Parsons #prayerjournal #prayerlife #prayerwarrior #prayeradvice
NB 🤍

NB 🤍

267 likes

Why is it so hard to get interaction on here
Im genuinely confused. I struggle so badly to keep posting when i love this app because of the lack of interaction #lemon8 #embracevulnerability #unfiltered #lemon8challenge #unaesthetic #storytime
Venus

Venus

594 likes

Why is it so hard to make new friends in your 20s?
As someone who’s worked from home since graduating, it’s been HARD to make new friends. I would consider myself a pretty extroverted person, but meeting new people has been draining. It’s so different than it was going through school where everyone was in the same life stages as you and it was incr
Sarah Jolie 🌸

Sarah Jolie 🌸

62 likes

Why is this so hard to make friends in college?
#edit
Michelle

Michelle

4104 likes

30 Day SelfCare Challenge or 75 Hard
So, tomorrow marks Day 1 of my 30 day self care challenge, but this time I'm taking things up a notch. I'm going to be doing the 75 hard self care challenge using my digital planner from herevolvement. Now, I know what you're thinking - "75 days? That's a lot!" But trust
Minnielist✨✨✨

Minnielist✨✨✨

1876 likes

A vase of yellow daffodils sits on a windowsill, with a blurred outdoor view. The image features the text "Faith" at the top and "Why do I struggle with it?" at the bottom, addressing common faith challenges.
Faith, why is it so hard?
For anyone recovering from trust issues, faith… is the hardest thing to have. God says so many times DO NOT FEAR, but instead have faith. TRUST IN ME my child. Yet we question. When? Why? How? Giving it all up, including the worry… well it’s easier said than done. What gets you through? What’s
Sydney

Sydney

37 likes

GOING HARD ON THIS FUPA
The abs on the top are coming in real niceee like (taking their time but they are otw 😆) But this hangtime needs some more work ! A big focus over the next few weeks for me is going to be my abs with a emphasis on the lower ab area so feel free to send me some workouts to add to the regimen!
Kalias Queen

Kalias Queen

1302 likes

Why vlogging is so hard
#fitspo #ootd #outfits
Bri

Bri

189 likes

Trauma Bonding 101: Why It’s So Hard to Leave
If you’ve ever said: “I know they’re toxic, but I still miss them.” “It wasn’t all bad… sometimes they were amazing.” “Why can’t I just walk away?” You’re not weak. You’re trauma bonded. Toxic relationships often use a cycle of abuse ➡ apology ➡ affection that keeps you stuck, second-guess
adiosnarcissist

adiosnarcissist

318 likes

A smiling blonde woman in a pink top with text overlays that read "ONE LESSON GOD IS TEACHING ME RIGHT NOW." A Lemon8 logo with the username is in the corner.
God is teaching me a hard lesson…
i know us Christian’s struggle with this at some point in our lives. even non-Christians do! i ain’t singling yall out! because we are HUMAN! the past few months, i’ve been battling the enemy with rage, self comparison, unworthiness, jealousy, doubt, insecurity, and so much more. 📌FOR CONTEXT
tay🪽🧸🪩⚡️

tay🪽🧸🪩⚡️

648 likes

A person with glasses and curly hair, wearing a denim jacket over an orange top, sits in a car. Text overlays read "WORK FROM HOME JOBS I'M OVER IT!!" and "Lemon8 @greaatest".
Why is it so hard to get a work from home job?
I am so over trying to get on with a remote job.🫠 I apply to every single one and I don’t understand why I never get to the interview process. I have a lot experience in customer service, admin, Human Resources, and etc.😩 It would be so much easier to be apart of a work from home company because I
Havilyn Elisabeth

Havilyn Elisabeth

85 likes

A person wearing glasses and a dark blue shirt with a pill bottle graphic holds a tablet. Text reads 'scriptures to meditate on when you're... PART TWO'.
Text 'feeling angry' with James 1:19-20 is displayed above a person in sunglasses and a green tank top, sitting outdoors.
Text 'feeling exhausted' with Galatians 6:9 is displayed above a person in sunglasses and a green tank top, looking up and gesturing.
scriptures for when life gets hard 🫶🏽
honestly, i didn’t want to post this because these feelings are quite heavy but then, that’ll be me doing a disservice to those who need to see it. it gets hard sometimes and that’s why we gotta take it God. i hope these scriptures help you as they have helped me. with all the love, R .
R Y E S I A

R Y E S I A

282 likes

Why it’s Hard to Put Yourself First 🥺🎀
The reason why it’s hard for you to put yourself first is because of guilt. It has nothing to do with the time. It has nothing to do with lack of money or resources has everything to do with guilt. You feel there’s something else or someone else better you could be doing with your time, energy or m
Princess 🎀

Princess 🎀

63 likes

A bouquet of white and blue flowers in the foreground, with a white sofa in the background. Text overlay introduces tips on 'How to Have Hard Conversations in a Relationship'.
A woman in pink loungewear sits on a sofa, holding a pink instant camera, next to a tall plant. Text overlay details the first tip: '01. Invite a Safe Space'.
An indoor scene with a large window overlooking greenery, featuring a small plant on a wooden table. Text overlay presents the second tip: '02. Seek to Understand Before Assuming'.
How to Have Hard Conversationsin a Relationship
It can be difficult to have a tough conversation. We never know what the person is going to say or react. Here are a few tips to handle these conversations in a relationship. 01. Invite a Safe Space Whether it's bad news or an honest opinion, it can be difficult to share when both people mi
mary ₊˚⊹♡

mary ₊˚⊹♡

25 likes

A dark blue image features white text asking 'Why is it so Hard to make Friends in your 20's?'. The background shows blurry figures, possibly dancers, under blue lighting. The Lemon8 logo and user handle '@tragicvenom' are in the bottom left corner.
Why is it so Hard to make Friends in your 20’s
From 2019 to 2023 I had no friends outside of my boyfriend. I didn’t make my current friends until last year(met on bumble bff after being on the app for 3yrs). I know there has to be other girls out there that’s struggled to make new friends in adulthood and if that’s you I’m very curious about yo
Stef🌈

Stef🌈

9 likes

An overhead view of two people's legs and hands, one wearing white Crocs and the other holding hands, on an asphalt path with fallen leaves. Overlay text reads: "the reason you haven't found love (hard truths)".
A serene landscape featuring a calm lake reflecting a blue sky with fluffy white clouds, and a wooden bench on a grassy bank. Overlay text states: "you're looking too hard" and explains that love finds you when you're not chasing it.
A red heart-shaped balloon lies near a metal storm drain on a sidewalk, with some fallen leaves. Overlay text reads: "you don't know how to recognize love" and discusses mistaking infatuation for love.
hard truths about why you haven’t found love yet:
we all wanna be in love!! but dating in 2024 is a pretty rough scene 😅 i think the way we date (via tinder and other apps) has messed up our collective understanding of what dating should actually look like ⤵️ we run away from relationships too soon, we dismiss people too easily, and we get bore
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

159 likes

A message from Score Media and Gaming Inc. apologizing for a delay in reviewing a Junior Data Analyst application. It states the role received around 6,000 applicants and promises contact within a week if the application moves forward.
WHY IS IT SO HARD TO GET A JOB
WHY do we need to write a personalized cover letter to every single job, create a whole account on a company website etc. just to apply? It feels a little ridiculous. I'm sorry. Why can't we just send in our resume and then let the company decide if they want to contact us or not? It feels
MSJoey

MSJoey

15 likes

Why is it so hard to make friends?
I find it hard for me to make genuinely good friends that aren’t full of themselves and make the world revolve around them. For years I have came across this problem and never understood why am I the person that fixes everyone then they disappear or make me seem like the bad guy. 1. All of my fa
Mia ❤️‍🔥

Mia ❤️‍🔥

7 likes

Why is it so hard to find?
Why is it so hard to find these cardigans anywhere online? They are so incredibly cute. Perfect for my size. I would wear these around the house all day every day.! 👍Pros: Comfortable. 🤔Cons: None! Item: Crochet cardigan. 🛍Brand: ? 💰Price: ? ⭐️Overall rating: 100/10 📒Notes: I feel l
L I V B Y 🦋

L I V B Y 🦋

39 likes

Why is calligraphy so hard?
Shout out to my sister in law who found these for me at Ross for $2!! Look at how they transfer over to the black paper too! I definitely want to start practicing lettering more! How do you practice lettering? #lemon8creator #education #notes #pen #amazonfinds #s
Pengemss

Pengemss

79 likes

A sunset scene over the ocean with a bird flying in silhouette. Overlayed text asks, 'Is dating hard nowadays? and why'. The sky transitions from blue to orange, reflecting on the water. Lemon8 branding is visible at the bottom.
Is dating hard nowadays?
🌺I keep seeing posts online talking about how hard it is to date nowadays. From your perspective, is that true? If yes, what has made dating so hard? If no, why you think it’s not the case? 🌺What’s the role of internet here? #letschat #relationship
letschat

letschat

214 likes

This is why it’s hard to pray….
Read Galatians chapter 5 as the Holy Spirit leads 🤎 God bless you. 💫 #God #Jesus #christiancontentcreator #lemon8creator #locsjourney
AshlynnsPraise

AshlynnsPraise

341 likes

Why is Calligraphy SO HARD?!?!?!?
WRITECH is so so so GOOD!! I have seen multiple comments in my other videos asking about the pens I use for my titles, and here they are!! FineLiner pens are amazing, and the fact that Writech offers this set makes it even easier! My go-to is fine-line pens in the 08 tip! Want to start l
Pengemss

Pengemss

191 likes

Two smiling women hold drinks in a dimly lit bar with pink lighting, with the text 'HOW TO HANDLE FRIENDSHIP CONFLICT' overlaid. A small sad face emoji is on the left, and the Lemon8 logo with '@fromsarahjolie' is at the bottom.
A person is shown partially covered by a gray blanket, looking up thoughtfully. Overlaid text discusses the awkwardness of friendship fights and the struggle to be honest, with the Lemon8 logo and username at the bottom.
A background of soft pink and white flowers features overlaid text providing four steps on 'HERE'S HOW TO HAVE A HARD CONVO WITH A FRIEND:', including thinking about what to say and finding time alone. The Lemon8 logo is at the bottom.
how to have a hard convo w your friend
FRIENDSHIP FIGHTS ARE AWKWARD... AND OFTEN, NEVER HAPPEN.... I think MANY people struggle with being honest in friendships. I used to be the kind of person who would just get hurt or upset by a friend and never bring it up. Slowly, this caused riffs in my friendships. It made it hard for me to
Sarah Jolie 🌸

Sarah Jolie 🌸

82 likes

Why did she go so hard 😳
#couples #funny #reaction
Lemon8er

Lemon8er

166 likes

Hard Truth Thursday ✨
Hard truth: People can only meet you as deeply as they’ve healed themselves. This means that people can only understand, support, and connect with you based on how much they’ve healed from their own pain, trauma, or emotional wounds. If someone hasn’t learned how to communicate with kindne
Hagan✨

Hagan✨

20 likes

Why it’s hard for women over 40 to lose weight
You’re not broken. Your metabolism isn’t “too slow.” But if you’re still grinding through HIIT workouts, starving yourself, and wondering why the scale won’t budge… it’s time for a reality check. 🔥 Here’s the truth: HIIT + low calories = a cortisol nightmare. When your body is already jugg
Dr. Salako

Dr. Salako

530 likes

A smiling adult woman in glasses and a grey top embraces a young child in a pink hoodie, who leans against her. They both smile warmly, captured in a close-up, dark-background photo, likely depicting the author with her beloved grandmother.
rip 😭 why is grieving so hard
#storytime #lemon8contest i was a bit hesitant about posting this but i found this is the one place i can be real and have substance but this grief thing is difficult. there are days where i am fine but there are days where all i can think about is my poor grandma and how she left me so soo
bethany

bethany

131 likes

A person in a mirror lifts their shirt to reveal a black waist trainer, with text overlays "Waist Training" and "75 Hard Glow up version" and decorative hearts and cherries.
An infographic titled "MYTHS AND REALITIES OF WAIST TRAINERS" lists common misconceptions about waist trainers alongside their factual realities, featuring an illustration of a woman.
A close-up image of a black YIANNA latex underbust waist cincher with multiple hook-and-eye closures, labeled as "My choice for waist trainer" from an online store.
75 Hard Glow Up Version: Waist Training
Please do your own research before starting waist training!! As part of my version of 75 Hard, I am re-incorporating waist training into my DAILY routine. I’ve always liked a latex waist trainer but there are many more options out there. Why I waist train: 🩷Posture - I have a terrible
Nydizzle🌷✨

Nydizzle🌷✨

196 likes

Why is job hunting so hard???
I've been job hunting for roughly 4 weeks and NOTHING has come up yet. I believe I'm qualified enough for the roles I applied for, yet, I have only received ONE interview. I'm starting to lose hope and I'm super scared that I won't have a source of income once I move to my new c
Ursula 🐀

Ursula 🐀

462 likes

Why weight loss is so hard for women!
Tired of the cycle? Comment “TRANSFORMATION” if you have a goal of losing at least 20-30 pounds, your tired of trying and failing and your ready to invest in some expert guidance to hold your hand through the process. For many of my clients, I’m often their last resort before considering wei
Dr. Salako

Dr. Salako

243 likes

why I’m doing 75 hard ✨
#75hardroutine #75hard #pcos #pcoshealth #wellness
Lemon8er

Lemon8er

249 likes

ADHD or just not trying hard enough?
Hey there, lovelies! ❤️ ✨ Let's talk about a topic that's near and dear to my heart: ADHD and motivation. As someone who navigates the ups and downs of ADHD every day, I know firsthand how challenging it can be to stay motivated, especially when faced with tasks that don't exactly sp
Alena Artemenko

Alena Artemenko

41 likes

A sketchbook with a charcoal drawing of a person's face and upper body, placed on a USPS box. The image has a text overlay asking, "WHY is it so hard to fill a sketchbook?" A color palette is at the top.
An open sketchbook displays a pencil sketch of a person's face and upper body, with art pencils beside it. Text overlay indicates the materials used are "Watercolor pencils and black chalk pastel."
A close-up of a charcoal drawing in a sketchbook, depicting a person's face and upper body. A text overlay advises, "if you use pastel, always remember to use hairspray or fixative to prevent smudging!"
It's so hard to fill a sketchbook
I get so jealous seeing people's sketchbook flip through yours online. But here are some of my issues: - Scared of making something ugly - Abandoning sketchbooks halfway - Don't want to draw on the other side of the page when something shows through, even 1% - Style changes too often
starlight

starlight

164 likes

See more