📸When I just raised the camera, you immediately smiled, 🌱 but when I grew up, Gen Z turned away and said no.

📸 I just picked up the camera, and you smiled right away.

🌱 but enough Gen Z

Back, turn away. Tell me no. Delete now!!!!

Some people even don't like posting pictures of themselves.

Many parents secretly feel upset because they want to have pictures to remind each age of their children. I secretly think about why their children have changed so much.

📚 in the developmental psychology angle.

Is a modern child who is trying to "have his own identity."

👱🏼‍♂️ Gen Z kids grew up in a world where

"One picture can stay on the Internet forever."

So he doesn't look at photos like his parents.

What parents should understand is as follows:

1. Children grow up with the "eyes of the whole world."

Previous generations took pictures to watch on the album.

🔑 but Gen Z kids grew up with

Facebook, Tikis, Instagram

Everything is shared, captured, always criticized.

So he's more careful with his self-image than his parents used to be.

💁‍♀️ a picture that my mother sees as "cute."

You may see "not ready for others."

The online world makes children feel that

Myself is constantly looking

2. Adolescence is the "building identity" phase.

According to Erik Erikson's developmental psychology,

The teenager is in the search for "who am I?"

So he started wanting control.

Image, body, personal space and self-determination.

❌ not wanting my mother to take pictures.

Sometimes is to say that

"I want to choose what kind of world I see."

Which is a normal development of growth.

3. Children of this age are more concerned with appearance than they think.

Social makes children compare themselves all the time.

* Skin must be good

* The puppet must be exact

* Face must be ready

🤔 even though you look confident.

But deep down, a lot of kids worry about their own looks higher than their parents know.

So when being shot indefinitely,

He may feel "lost control."

4. Children do not hate mother.

But is separating himself from his family.

Young children are often proud to be with their parents.

But once into adolescence,

The brain will start to focus on

"Adoption from friends and society."

📍 he began to want more personal space.

Don't want to be seen as a "mother's child" all the time.

🌱 this is the nature of growth.

It's not a sign that love is declining.

5. Secretly filming or posting without asking

May make you feel disrespected.

For parents may feel that

"Why can't we post?"

But for Gen Z kids,

The "right to self-image" is very serious.

Asking before posting

So it's not too much.

But is to convey that

"Mom respects my feelings."

And children who feel themselves respected.

Often more open to parents

The most important thing is...

Don't immediately interpret that.

You turn away = You don't love

Sometimes you're just growing up.

Is embarrassed

Is not confident.

Or trying to own your life

And a good relationship in adolescence.

Probably not getting the most pairs.

But is that you still feel

"Stay with your mother and be safe enough to be yourself."

One day when he was old enough,

He may come back and walk towards the camera himself.

And then

One picture will be worth more than just a beautiful picture.

But it is a memory that

Even on the day he was searching for himself.

I always understood him.