4 signs Toxic masculinity‼️

Hello, I'm Shin-chan. Today I'm going to tell you about Toxic masculinity, or it's a popular word like "real man." What is it? And I'm going to tell you about the contract that says we are or not.

What's toxic masculinity? ❔❓❔

- Men's behaviors and values that focus on expressing "man" more than necessary, such as pressing emotions, violence, intimidating others.

- including insulting groups of people or people who do not conform to male values.

- We can still see people who are like this every now and then, which can be caused by many reasons, pressured by old values, framed for being like this.

4 Signs of toxic masculine 🗣️🔥🔥

4.1 Non-expression of feelings

Values that men must not show tenderness or sensitivity in order not to make themselves look weak. These values are very often seen in these ideas or in a group of friends. Some people I know or I have had these ideas, such as not crying because they look weak, not complaining about personal problems because they do not want to be burdened by others, which, in addition to being bad for overall mental health, have the opportunity to be depressed. If someone has this kind of contract, have to change their mind. Crying does not mean that we are weak, it means that we are more sincere about our feelings.

4.2 Resolution with violence 👊

The value of problem-solving, that instead of using constructive talk to solve problems that arise, solving them with force, violence, or bad insulting words, makes it possible for those who choose to talk peacefully to be considered non-manly and incompetent, that in reality many problems can be solved simply by speaking peacefully.

4.3 Deny what looks feminine 🎀🐰

Racist or reject activities, interests, colors, or expressions that are considered feminine. Most of these are accompanied by insulting men who behave like women or discriminating against women, such as denying their sensitivity because they look weak. Viewing pink as a color that, if men like it, looks unmanly. Viewing tenderness as strange. Choosing not to do housework because it is a woman's job. Viewing that a woman should make a cleaning meal is also relevant in this regard.

4.4 Refuse to seek help ❌

Believe that asking for emotional support or recourse to important matters in life is a sign of weakness or pathos, femininity, so that later may put too much pressure on yourself and ignore your mental health, may also become depressed ~

P.S. Thank you for reading it until the end.: D I made this content, one mind because I wanted to do it, but the other because I want people to read it to realize and look back on ourselves whether we were affected by these ideas. I see that this kind of thing has absorbed us since childhood. Some people may not know that they have this kind of Toxic. I often listen to this kind of thing, so I want to hit this lab. The next content is thought to be Toxic feminism. End and 🫶🏻💗

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