I have no friends that are girls

Growing up I’ve never had any friends that are girls, and I still currently don’t. I’ve always been more comfortable hanging out with guys, whether they were goofy and quiet or popular and exciting.

Recently I’ve been going to therapy and my therapist tells me it’s crucial for me to have friends that are girls… but I just can’t make friends with them. I feel uncomfortable and uneasy. Anxious and stressed. I don’t have the same interests as usual girls my age.

I don’t bring down others and I can promise i’m not a pick me girl. I just can’t be friends with girls x

Is this something I should work on? In all honesty, I’d rather keep my guy friends over a girl friend. I get closer to guys than girls.

Please let me know your thoughts!!

#embracevulnerability #shareyourthoughts #girlsgirl #boys

2024/2/25 Edited to

... Read moreHaving friendships is essential for emotional health, and many people often find themselves struggling with specific dynamics in those relationships. If you identify with having predominantly male friends and find it challenging to connect with girls, you're not alone. As some individuals prefer the ease and companionship found in friendships with boys, this can also reflect in deeper social anxieties that often arise in mixed-gender situations. Therapists frequently emphasize the benefits of gender-diverse friendships, as these relationships can provide different perspectives and enrich one’s life experiences. Women may often exhibit different communication styles, interests, and emotional support that can be appealing yet intimidating to some. It’s also important to note that not all friendships have to conform to traditional gender norms—what truly matters is finding individuals who resonate with you on personal levels. Consider exploring shared interests in social activities where you can meet different people or join community events, volunteering, or clubs that align with what you enjoy. These settings may ease the pressure and help foster a more organic connection with potential female friends. Lastly, it’s worthwhile to reflect on what might be causing apprehension around forming these friendships. Engaging in open conversations about your feelings and being honest with yourself can provide insight into your preferences in friendships. Remember, friendships often come in various forms—there’s value in every bond you make!

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I’m the opposite. I’m a male and I don’t feel safe around most men. I have a few guys friends but they’re not super masculine so I feel comfortable. I think current day “masculinity” is toxic and violent in some cases. Also men are just gross

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