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It’s lonely being the strong one

Everyone comes to me for advice, support, or comfort and I love being that person. But sometimes, I wish someone would check in on me too.

Strength is beautiful, but it can also feel isolating. Are you the “strong one” in your circle?

#GirlTalk #girlpov #AskLemon8 #lemon8challenge #lemon8contest

2025/11/15 Edited to

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I feel like it’s calming just for me to be a strong woman for everyone in my life

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